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I know many people who have poverty and they have truly devoted relationships and work together to deal with what they need to manage their lives. As to the ED.. what many may need to consider is, Prostrate Issues, Diabetic Issues can affect sxual function, equally so, in some people psychological issue may affect function. There can be heart and blood flow issue that affect it as well. What would a man or woman do after a situation where the man has to have prostrate surgery. There is not only the ED issue that comes about, it may regain some level to perform and in some cases it does not regain the level for intercourse. Yet, the man is still able to feel the sensation and have a climax, even in the case without the erection and without the excretion of semen. These are real life issues that affect millions upon millions of men, In many cases the prostrate enlarges with age, but there are many other things which can contribute to this particular area, and the medical choices are radiation and/or prostrate removal. Many many couples work with and through these changes, as well there are issues that women have which diminish their sxual function... When people are young these things don't generally become something they give much though or awareness unto, but time brings with it many things. Now whether those thing invoke a divorce, I don't know, but I'd think it would not be the leading cause for divorce. It may be a ready excuse for some who choose to use it as such for an excuse. Love is Love... I had a friend who's wife got Muscular Dystrophy, she lost the ability to do any things, it got to the point he had to bathe and feed her.. But during it all, he never lost his love for her, nor did he go out seeking to do other things, at one point she told him that she would not blame him if he did, but he did not. This couple use to go and do all sorts of things together. and during the many years I worked with this guy, no matter what he talked about, he'd always mention his wife, no matter what he planned to do, he always mention his wife. They were a couple who truly loved each other. When she died, it was a long time before he went out, he was not only working hard to bring himself to meet women, he was looking for a woman that was interested in a solid stable relationship. it may be wise for people to build their relationships on foundation far and beyond sex.... equally so, it is wise for people to build their integrity and character on things far and beyond sex. And certainly, to not measure ones self by sexual function, but the quality of character as a over-all person.
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Probably the best and most resonant blog for me here so far! Thanks to all commenters and the originator of the thought! My thinking is: When I cannot satisfy her sexual desires, will I go crazy if she goes out to find someone who would? I probably would, like I believe the original Husband may have wanted to prevent by pushing away his lady, drinking and the divorce! If the wife wanted to seek sex outside of marriage, doesn't that act constitute adultery? Goes against wedding vows? I just wish this man would not have numbed himself drinking, and tried to identify ways to please her however she wanted to be pleased by HER MAN!
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