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There are always advantages and disadvantages in everything we choose. No guarantee that younger men would make our lives happier. I had a neighbor who got a stroke at age 40. He spends his life on a wheelchair now, unable to speak and completely dependent on his wife. But instead, many healthy old men out there. Who are financially stable and never be a burden for his wife. Instead they bestow them with love, affection and material. Never worry about the future, because no one knows what will happen in the future. Dalai lama once said, "Live one day at a time and make it a masterpiece" Consider everything carefully. Once you make decision, live with it. Never look back and regret. If you enjoy hiking , maybe he can wait somewhere closer or at mid-way, if he is not strong enough to get to the top of the hill. But with his love, you could live happier than having a young lover who can go hiking with you, but often busy with his own world. And many of them, busy cheating with young women too . I try to think positive and sincere in everything I do. Grateful that all become easier and better in the end. Good luck.♥ There is no age that one is guaranteed anything. people have to build their relationships on more than looks, sex and money... and physical agility. all of those things can change or be changed quicker than one may imagine and they can be changed where one has absolutely no control over the changes. I don't know why people keep thinking they deserve some guarantee.. I think people seeking out guarantee's is why so many fail to make connections and fail at even making relationships once they are in them. Life is an interesting experience.. I think for some people, getting a dog or cat may help teach them how to love without a lot of criteria. then maybe they might be able to find a mate whom they can understand better how to love. A dog or cat does not care how much money you have, nor what you look like or any of such things. They don't even trip if you don't talk to them every time you pass by them, they care that you care to have them around. they are more interested in showing you their care, and when they want to feel care from you in their own ways, they know and they have no problem coming up to you and making their presence known and asking for your attention.
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