madderrose 50M
105 posts
1/17/2014 8:16 am
She said


She said "I'd like to have a baby with a Caucasian guy, because they look so nice"

Did you really say that?

lxqizi 78F
1668 posts
1/19/2014 7:46 pm

If a woman to find your purpose, is to give birth to a child like you, so the question arises: she just to give birth to the child to find you, she did not love, not love you. Then what are you? You are her chosen inoculation tools growth only, what is your future relationship? Get married? Live together? If you do not get married, do not live together, how does the child do? If living together, but no love.....
Please think about the children, he will have no father.. Not a complete family.. Is unfair to him!
This problem is not simple, please carefully thinking!


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
1/20/2014 7:06 am

    Quoting lxqizi:
    If a woman to find your purpose, is to give birth to a child like you, so the question arises: she just to give birth to the child to find you, she did not love, not love you. Then what are you? You are her chosen inoculation tools growth only, what is your future relationship? Get married? Live together? If you do not get married, do not live together, how does the child do? If living together, but no love.....
    Please think about the children, he will have no father.. Not a complete family.. Is unfair to him!
    This problem is not simple, please carefully thinking!
Excellent Point !!!


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
1/22/2014 11:27 am

I was told that African Americans never took USA as their own country until Obama took the position at the president's office . Is it true ?

Actually if you review the history of American, long before slavery, many Africans were first brought here as "indentured servants'. many earned and bought their freedom from indentures, and many can trace their history far beyond the framers of the Constitution. During the British rule of American, during the high period of Indentured Servitude which was a strong practice under British Rule. African people brought skills, they knew Farming and various other things. Which many in the New World did not and could not match their knowledge in these things.
The labors of black people is the back which American's industrial might was built, from the Sugar Cane exports, to the Making of Molasses and Rum, to the Tobacco Trade and then to the "Cotton" Trade..
African people in the American system after the constitution have been strong proponent to support the Constitution as being for all people in America. They have fought for 100's of years to promote a fair and equitable interpretation of the Constitution. In the society of today, many liberties that many other minority groups enjoy, was hard fought and won by many black people through many brutal beating and treatments exist today, because of blacks who fought hard along side many whites who stood for respect of persons, made it possible to get the Civil Rights Bills passed. this came to be in-spite of the white man's actions against and the wide spread slander about the black man, but if you study the Civil Rights Movement, you will find without doubt, the violence and brutality came at the hands and through the minds of white people, who attacked and used the legal system and every other means to attack the black people in American.
The hole spill of white people calling black people lazy, is when the white man could no longer make the black man work for free and the white man could no longer enrich himself by the free labor of blacks.
Many white abolitionist detested slavery and they did not like the process of inhumane conduct of the profit seeking whites who promoted and embraced slavery.
In many areas of the south the number of slaves outnumbered the number of slave owners, But Black people did not have the same vile in their nature because if they had, they'd have killed off all the white slave owners.
but there were many other things within this spectrum. Not only was there no homeland for blacks to go back to, because for many generations they were extracted from awareness of where they exactly came from in Africa.. It was not like they could pick a city and say, Oh' this is where I came from, I can go there and find family to assist me. Nope this was not the case.
Black people have fought for American in every war that has existed in America as being America. During World War I ... it was many remarkable feats by African American's... the same in World War II... as well as every War that has existed.
I previously posted items in some of the previous blogs, about the many inventions created by Black people in America.
(info quote)
"Benjamin Banneker was a free African American scientist, surveyor, almanac author and farmer. Banneker had little formal education and was largely self-taught. He is known for being part of a group led by Major Andrew Ellicott that surveyed the borders of the original District of Columbia, the federal capital district of the United States."

America would never has risen as fast and as quick without the labor of the black African American slaves. Study the history of production and exports during the era's and these numbers will be evident.
During many expedition to many foreign nations, it was the white man who promoted negative propaganda about black people.

but go all the way back and study the history of the black prominent historical figures and their fight for justice, not only did they promote the respect of religious principles, that the whites claimed to uphold, but in realism denied those principles in aims to support self enrichment from slave labor and inequity and inequality of the black people. It was equally so black people who have since the beginning promoted the respect for the words of the Constitution that this nations was founded upon.

If one goes back to study the history of black people transported across the Atlantic, it will be found that the Spainard were players in this transport, as were the Portuguese and others. It was the Dutch who promoted much of the transport of black people to the far east cost upper northern regions. As well as some of the brutal tactic which were promoted in the slave trade were Dutch created, as well as taken from the West Indie's slavery systems. It became brutal even more so during the "cotton" promotion of the Southern States. Some of those states had previously rejected slavery, until the era where Cotton became a big crop. Even during the era when Rice was the big crop, whites were unable to withstand the harsh conditions of cultivating rice in these harsh conditions, The black slaves were able to do so.
Some of the slave owners in some areas worked along with slaves and indentured servants, until indentured servititude became more something used in the North Eastern states, than in southern states, because it was a different type of industry in the North East... The south was pure cultivation and growth production of these raw materials. The brutality became more pronounced with the expansion of greed for high volumes to sale and export drove the slave owners to become mad with abuse and inequity.

Read of Fredrick Douglas, and the astounding speeches he gave before the Church of England and other venues.

In the recent movie about Mandela, when he tells the white guys, it is 'their fear of the black man", which has driven them to become brutal... this is when Mandela told him, that NO, there would be no revenge , because to do so, would mean that blacks would become likes the whites who they are fighting against for equality. Mandela never has interest to expel or kill off white people, he promoted the idea of living in peace for all.
The same as blacks have always done in America.

After slavery, the whites did not know what to do in regard to the blacks... they feared the competition for jobs, they feared schools being filled with blacks and they feared every aspect of blacks being equal.
It is crazy to think how vile white people were at the mere thought of respecting minorities as people... How can anyone claim to be a christian and living in a christian nations and have such hatred for the simplicity of respecting others as equal human beings. That is what people should be asking... rather than believing the craziness that was spread about black people.

For China, it had remained closed for so long, it had only the negative propaganda to digest... instead of learning for themselves first hand. But now, what has China done?
they have gone to Africa to build alliances, ( yes it for raw materials) but what they have found is that they can work well with the black people and in many cases they do so far better than they can work with some of the white people of some of the white lands. this has been true of the black in the history of American, the native American Indians were able to work well in unions with black people.

But there is a thread in some of these post where we discussed much of this previously.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
1/23/2014 1:52 pm

    Quoting  :

I wish most of African Americans could behave so decent as you both at least in manners

Don't buy into the stuff you see in the media about gangs and the segment of people who do illegal things. that does not depict the whole of black people. IF you note, there are far more movies made about white crime, but its sanitized and made to look acceptable by the movie depictions, but there are many white gangs, and enclaves where the exact same things that is depicted of blacks is the same things that whites do.
ask yourself, why is it that many writers of the crime shows, are sometimes people who have come from the law enforcement sectors, and many script researchers use many law enforcement people for background support information. And if you note, 24/7 - 365,, these show runs with some of the most horrendous crimes one can imagine, some extracted from real life case situations. But the actors are spit and polished for script and drama effects, but one may well pay attention to the act and fact of the crime more than the appearance of the character in the movies imagery.

As to improvised areas... it does not matter what skin color or ethnicity.... crime is a result of dire improvised environments,
as to ethnic community crimes, there are areas of each state, where various ethnic groups have territorial anguishes and crimes follows....

As to being "Strong" that is of many things, but as in life if one has a strength they also have a compensating weakness ... this is what makes for the balance in people.

left has right, up has down, on has off, and etc...... its relative in all aspects of life.... Strength is found sometimes in patience, sometimes in wisdom, sometimes in actions and sometimes in silence and etc..... as is weakness also found sometimes in these things.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
1/23/2014 2:08 pm

    Quoting madderrose:
    I wonder if any Asian lady has ever had the same feel towards a black, black american or jamaican. There's a clash of cultures, but Caucasians still prevail
Explain yourself.... ?????

it's all a clash of cultures when people mis communicate who are from different cultures. But, it's called a merging of cultures when they come to understandings.

Now where in that does a Caucasian have some dominance... History would show that the Caucasian has seem to not only clash with every cultures of people from different lands of non Caucasians and then followed up with trying to over take the people of those lands. It unfortunately become an awareness of the people of those lands, that their initial kindness was taken for weakness and the Caucasian proceeded to try and dominate them... But as history has show, over time the people find their ways to expel the Caucasian from that role he forced through his brutality of ways.

The best thing any cultures can do is seek to understand each other and build working relationships..... Period.

Outside of the imagery of "Money."... it could become very challenging for the Caucasian in many parts of the world.
this is evident in how China now that it has its own Money, and has reserves... they do not submit to Caucasian dictations... As many of the women now have come to understand that China has its own wealthy, they are less driven to mindlessly just pick a Caucasian because of Money as was maybe the case in previous history.

The more people become aware of many things in the world ... and they are able to work and earn.... for themselves... they are more driven to seek out the character of a person, than choosing for the sake of Money or the illusion of assuming one has Money based on skin color.


tgough 44M
51 posts
1/24/2014 8:47 am

Hello Pinkcrystal It's not easy being Caucasian and good looking in this world. Some days i have to wash and iron my own shirts but i don't complain