recreationvehicl 70M
90 posts
1/25/2014 2:44 pm
Asian women posting pictures of themselves that are from years ago


I have been searching for an Asian woman fitting my criteria for a couple of months. I check their photo first to get an idea of their looks and shape in general.

Why is it that many women insist on using pictures of themselves from school or college that are at least 10 to 15 years earlier? What is the benefit? We might chat thinking we are chatting to the woman in the photo. I try to ask for chat on cam to make sure and get surprised so often it seems.

Do they feel they will land a man by misleading them right off the start? No one from overseas will commit to someone else from a snap shot I hope.

Am I the only one having this issue? Is it the same from a woman's point of view that they see men using older pictures as well? I am curious. My photo's are dated and within a few years only, so not hiding behind my age of yesterday.

recreationvehicl (John) from Vancouver BC Canada


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
1/25/2014 6:10 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes... its both gender's doing so....
Maybe some even emphasis things they use to do, more than things they currently do.
Life and people are always in a continual state of some nature of change.

I can remember when my hair was all black, instead of black and grey ( getting mostly grey now)..


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
1/26/2014 5:09 pm

    Quoting beyondfantasy3:
    Yes... its both gender's doing so....
    Maybe some even emphasis things they use to do, more than things they currently do.
    Life and people are always in a continual state of some nature of change.

    I can remember when my hair was all black, instead of black and grey ( getting mostly grey now)..
I just can't get with the idea of having my hair dyed once every week or so.... I'd rather it just stay natural. I earned the live of having these changes, no need to deny them.

I have friends who dye their hair, its looks good and some even look very natural on them .... I just don't want to put the time into doing so.


tgough 44M
51 posts
1/29/2014 10:01 am

Hello pinkcrystal i'm going to shave my head. And my photo is six months old i'm taller now


tgough 44M
51 posts
1/31/2014 12:48 am

As you said John people wouldn't be stupid enough to commit to someone from a photo ata boy tgough


tgough 44M
51 posts
1/31/2014 11:30 pm

Hi John just getting older


tgough 44M
51 posts
2/5/2014 2:34 am

pinkcrystal Sadly you made your choice and it wasn't me. I will pick myself up and move on. I still have youth on my side and didn't shave my head. Happy Chinese New Year


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
2/11/2014 11:24 am

I think the amazing thing about Shirley Temple, was her natural and untrained ability to be a focused entertainer. She knew her lines, her songs, her dance step and she could look at the other actors and convey the moods which depict the emotions of and within the scene.

She did not result to become a burned out has been, nor did she loose the ability to continue to pursue and embrace relevancy in the things she spent her life doing.

Purely Amazing .....


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
2/11/2014 11:28 am

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Yes....
I always too, say what I want to say, write about what I want to write about, and it has nothing to do with writing to appease anyone. anyone is welcome to comment or not to comment, I don't try and dictate what people can and cannot write, discuss and explore in any blog I post... ( except I would not support direct threat of physical violence to be pushed from one unto/upon another in the post)