apple20091110 45F
448 posts
10/31/2014 2:36 am
Don't try to blame others because you don't know their lives

Living in this world, lots of people like to have their own point of view. They think they understand others, then they criticise other people. They always think they are right. In fact, they wouldn’t know other people’s life, never feel the difficulty of the other’s side and they should not blame or criticise other unless you have experienced other’s life and or feeling

There is a fable that tells of "a pig, a sheep and a cow that were kept in the same corral. Once when the owner caught the pig it howled loudly and violently resisted. The Sheep and cow hated its howl and accused it angrily: You are exaggerating so much. He often catches hold of us and we do not scream. The pig replied: It is completely different. When he catches you, he just wants your wool and milk, but when it happens to me it means I will be killed! The sheep and the cow were silent after hearing the words.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
10/31/2014 5:09 am

Don't worry about people or what they say. You don't have to measure up to anyone's expectation, nor do you have to change for any-ones criticisms.

As with all people, we make the self adjustments based on what and how we want our lives to be.

Enjoy your life, it's yours and no one else can control it.