sentttiiie_11 41F
1455 posts
3/16/2015 10:56 pm
Just like to lie.......

Many years ago.. in my very young age.......
Just everything so cool and fine to me........
I had a great time...enjoyed online chats and blogs and so on.
Then unexpectedly..someone in his 50's became my chat buddy..
He talked too sweet.. as sweet as candy.. as soft as an angel.. as cool as the wind
I was innocent that time..he kept on chatting with me,,
I Just wanted to practice my English. and also use my free time when I am not so busy..
He talked like a great man....for me he was amazing and cool

I have known him for long time... since he said he was single..
he said his first gf was when he was in 20s... died from car accident
and he said he had other relationships....he didnt mention more...
he just said his latest ex was his living-in-partner for 8 years,...a nurse..
I was very curious.. what he was talking about..
I wonder ... what is like his marriage for him?? just a living-in-sin?
It was not my culture that man for more than 8 years living in together with a woman but never been married?.I wonder what she had felt?
in my culture those two who are both living together should be married...they had wedding and their family..
he said she just left....i wondered that...If a woman was happy with him she wouldnt leave what ever happened...
Until many years Ive known him...
I discovered his lies.....
In front of people.. he acts like an upright man..... but on my own.. I knew his lies for long tiime...
I remembered...he told someone...that he never texted any woman...
But gee.... a friend of mine who met him has shown me his text messages .
I just sigh....i told to myself.. he was too old to lie like that..
And he had said to people... he didnt know me.. never met me .. or never a gf.. but geee
We met not only once.. but twice..so he also lied to what he said to his close friend...
And now I just think.. maybe he was just really full of lies...I asked him long time ago to know about his family.. I showed him a family pic of mine.. but he never let me...He just said he had 2 brothers and his mom is still alive...
In my culture.. If I want to know someone..not only him.. but also his family..
He lost my patience... he provoked many times.. he made promises... then he broke them all......
Then he provoked many times.... even I was not there.... he acted like a smart man.. as he knew everything.. my country, culture and evrything... then he said the government where I live is full of corruption...then I wonder.... why did he ask a land from the government? and what he asked for his small nipa hut and a small beach island? though he could never own... he said.. the government in my country are corrupt people.. Well he better not to be there if he said that one..
Then he made me a great topic with his asian babe in the chatroom....He tried to mess me up even I wasnt there... a friend told me.. lol...He wasnt ashamed of making fun of me..LOl..he was too old to play.. He can get his senior card soon.
Well,,, I have seen how unhealthy he is.... he smoked a lot... never drink pure water.....addicted to coffee and alcohol... well... what he invested in his body would gain soon......Even I tried to convince him many times to try to quit smoking... he just made a philosophical answer.... he said that no one died from smoking lol...
he just acted to be wise.. to make jokes and philosophical answers.. but if u think carefully... its proven for years that many had died from smoking.. until i remembered my late Uncle...
And drinking water regularly is better than having 5 or more cups of coffee evryday....That is why there is a water therapy... not a coffee therapy lol
Even I wasnt in the chatland... he was still making a topic....
Well..he's too old to be a player...This one who made my life so messy for years of lying and cheating.. could not makeup on his life.. He has been preparing his residential home soon just in case he would be incapable anymore and he just brought his 26 years old new Fil nurse in Uk january last year to be his care giver in the future..
until now.... he has been doing the same in chats...with malaysian and indo babes..then he would mention me again to call me again.... bec he wanted attention of women.. its who he is...for years....
"You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time.”
― Abraham Lincoln


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
3/17/2015 4:08 am

People who lie choosing to create an ongoing living hell, because always will the lies bring more lies and eventually the lies will encircle the liar.

Be careful in "how" one believes what online exchange is purporting; It is certain, a point and time that confirmation of sorts can justify what is being said, or invalidate what has been said.


hotelmikel 70M
533 posts
3/17/2015 10:15 am


Liars on the most part do it because they have nothing to be proud of,,,