sentttiiie_11 41F
1455 posts
10/30/2015 6:44 pm
Because of him...........

It will be great these coming dayssssssssssssssssssss
because my beloved Aunt
Who came from Toronto Canada
has just arrived here
It's been here second visit since she lost contact from more than 20 years
Long time ago after my Aunt moved in Canada.. sending letters was just their way of communication..
My mom and my Aunt had been exchanging letters.
It would take a month or two before the letter arrived..
Then one day Mom wondered what happened to my Auntie
Because she never get a reply from her
Then Aunt wondered also why MOm never responded from her letter
Till years and years passed by.. they stopped sending letters
Till one dayyyyyyyyyyyy
I joined Chinese FriendFinder in 2009..
Then a goodhearted man in Chinese FriendFinder (Asiafriendfinder) from Seattle became my chat friend..
Until I shared to him my Auntie that my Mom had lost contact for more than 20 years
Then he asked If he can help
Then I said yes,, because I trusted his good intention
Then I gave my Aunt's name and her husband and their address..
Then he said he found their names in the directory..
Then he said he will try to contact the two numbers that were registered
Then the next morninggggggggggggggg
The phone rang...
Then I answered it..
A sweet voice of a woman said :HI MAy I speak with ______"
Then I asked her who was calling?
ThenI was so surprised it was my AUNT!!!
Then I passed the phone to Mom and Mom couldnt believe...she got teary-eyed
My Aunt said someone left a voice message in her phone while she was not at home.
We learned from her that her hubby died many years ago from leukemia
Was a sad news because we haven't met her husband..
Then my mom and my auntie are now communicating via skyp..thanks to technology and no need for writing letters and sending and waiting for more than a month
Now my auntie is spending her vacation with us in our home..
we will set a tour for her.. more going out... visiting relatives,, eating shopping etc... so she will enjoy her one month vacation..
She is a happy person, kind and gentle...she never forget chocolates and stuff for her nieces and nephews as well,, she has been so generous and never forget the relatives in the provinces.. she asked me to contact the cargo company to follow up the two boxes she sent for shipping...hope will arrive soon as she stays here..
Maybe if she would have ... that will bring out the best mom in her.

--I want to express my gratitude to one good man from aff.. he is from Seattle who took a lot of his effort in searching for my Aunt who had lost contact with my Mom for many years..I thanked him by phone long time ago while my Aunt had visited here in 2010...My Aunt talked to him also when she was here and she recognized his effort of leaving messages on phone..
Though I didn't see him..I felt his good intention of helping people in need.,,,
Decent people like him..who always mentioning God and Christianity and charity,..
Thanks to him and May the Lord bless him good life, good health and good people around him
-He told me he left Chinese FriendFinder since his health was at risk..
Wherever he is now I know his sister, his nieces and nephews and neighbors will always be there for him..
This is my testimony telling that there are only FEW good people in Chinese FriendFinder you can rely on.
But sad to say they start to leave the site ..
have a nice day to all.. happy weekend


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
10/31/2015 8:33 am

    Quoting sentttiiie_11:
    Yes,, when I was a newbie in Aff.. he was the first person who welcomed me.
    he also warned me of those people he knew I shouldn't trust..
    I only had his picture... and his contact number. and his real name..
    have a nice weeekend1
Like I said many times before, there are REAL PEOPLE online too. Not all scammers.

Congrats that you can communicate with your aunt again because a kind man from Chinese FriendFinder who took effort to find your aunt in Canada. TRUST is very important. Because you used your wisdom to trust a good person (even never met him) and gave him your aunt name, address, so he looked the phone book to locate your aunt.

This is all about TRUST. Nothing to do with God or Christianity. An atheist or agnostic will do the exactly same good deed for you. (I read every word you said)

I have been to Seattle, Washington state many times. It is a beautiful city. Microsoft CEO, Bill Gates lives there too.


Honesty is the best policy.