sentttiiie_11 40F
1455 posts
4/2/2016 11:11 pm
so if he is married? ^_^

"When adultery occurs, three of the Ten Commandments are broken: you shall not commit adultery, not lie, and not covet your neighbor's spouse."

"The only thing worse than the guilt was the fear of getting caught."

well also same as in women too so if she is married?

Enjoy weekend everyone

hotelmikel 70M
533 posts
4/3/2016 6:49 am

what a wonderful place with the invention of the www,, so many can live in fantasyland ,, thinking it is alright to flirt send love notes thinking no foul,,

beyondfantasy3 112M
4740 posts
4/3/2016 8:46 am

I worked with women, whom were married, we were good friends, I knew one womans husband, and another I had never met him but seen him, but felt I knew him because of things she talked about of their relation.
These women said all the "right things" to indicate that we could "do something'. but I preferred their friendship and also I preferred to respect their husbands, more than I cared to have a 'few moments of sxual pleausre with them".
I don't know if they understood it, or if they took it as a rejection or what.
We remained friends for many many years until we just lost contact, her husband knew we were friends, and he and I was friendly as well. One we remain friends, not on any daily interaction but when we see each other.

It's far better than the tensions that generally arise between people when they go after someone who is a friend and married and the result turn out to be the loss of a friend.
I've know various women who made it clear they'd "do something", even when I met them through their mate. I never acted on any of it, and I often talk to male friends and tell them, its a shame that a man would forsake his friendship with his friend, by sleeping with his friends woman.

but men must be wise, to know, that some women will sleep with you as a means to get back at their husband or boyfriend for what ever reasons and some may even set you up, so they can use an affair with you as a means to present such info as an aim to infuriate and hurt her boyfriend or husband.

the humor version is" The simplest things is - if she is married, 'regard and respect it", and leave her in her panties...... and keep it friendly only.

woaini1947 60M
3973 posts
4/4/2016 10:44 am

Married women in the U.S., are easier to get dates with than the single women. In all my years on this earth I have only seen possibly two marriages that I thought to myself, "That is a beautiful, caring, relationship." The nationality of the women does not matter either as many women from all over the world come here for work and education and after a time, they realize that the husband they thought was waiting for them at home, is not really waiting. Dating a married man is a recipe for disaster. If he gets caught he will dump you like yesterday's garbage rather than lose his family and half of his income. Women are usually very forgiving of the first transgression but men don't ever forgive a woman who has had an affair. There is also the heartache and the risk. Heartache for the spouse and children and the risk being a possible visit to the hospital if you get caught.

beyondfantasy3 112M
4740 posts
4/4/2016 3:41 pm

    Quoting papaya1972:

    I've know various women who made it clear they'd "do something",

    You mean various married women?

    that is shocking !!! and is it a culture or something else? if not culture, what is the reason behind such a thinking?
it could be many things, from frustration with husband, frustration with self, just a desire to do something, or any of the billions of reasons in the world people do stuff.