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Our Character Stays but our Looks Changes - 1st Blog When it comes to relationships many people always fall for the wrong type yet feel it was a good approach before things went wrong. I understand we are human beings but would you rather date a woman who was a 9/10 in looks and a 4/10 in personality? We usually judge others by their looks at first and this leads to many bad things. I had a time where a friend of mine was in love with someone who is Canadian and he is American. Things were very well at first but changed as she used his kindness against him and he did not listen to me or anyone else. He has regrets now after she cheated on him and then seek out another male that was a better "match" for her. He asked why would she go for a guy who was less unattractive then i am? . Many of us has the confidence, looks, and physical appearance but in the end of the day does that last forever? We change on the outside slowly every year and don't notice it yet we go for the wrong people sometimes. Thinking outside of the box instead of inside would always lead to the same Cycle. I am not openly social to everyone but i am selectively social with the right people. Many of us should see that and think. We have stereo types everywhere but people are all different from that. Now a question. Would you date a woman who was very beautiful in looks and her personality was as dual as to nothing, or a woman who is not as beautiful as others seems on the outside, but has the most amazing personality ever that you were looking for. We shouldn't always stop our Journey for the wrong people all the time. You shouldn't force yourself to be with someone just to satisfy your family. You have a right as a individual just like everyone has freedom to love and be with who they feel is right for them. This is my first blog and i know others would agree, some won't, but this is what i see everyday. My friend now learned to go for the girl who fits his chemistry and understands him the same way he would understand his spouse. Personality lives with us as a person and what we done will always be their, even though our looks changes, we are still the same person. 
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if you note, many of the people don't comment on post that actually talk about some of the realities in the human social environment. It's been like that since I've been on here many years. Just write to express yourself, and you will be content, but if you expect dialog about real life subject matter... this is probably not the site where you will find it. Very rarely will you find some subjects that may get some interactive responses, but a lot get no response or commentary. I don't even know why many of the people are here, when they never have much to say about anything. Yet, many will gladly tell others how much education they have.. I find that quite ironic.   I don't do chat rooms but that seem to be a good place for 'bickering" or such things. Over the attitudes of the people make it a terrible waste of the free tools this site provides.
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