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Is majority of the Memebers Here Fake?? I have been a member for a long time on Asia FriendFinder but i noticed many women that visit my page never send me a message. I mean it's like they know i am there but don't bother contacting me back at all. I feel really cautious to even contact anyone know and i feel as if my time and money was all wasted into this. I'm a college student majoring in PA Medical Assistant, also working part time, and i am sociable and out going too. I am a very nice person. Does anyone have any suggestion at all? I have a sense of humor or maybe most of the members i contacted can't speak English fluently because most of their profiles were in English. They say they want to find friends and look for something serious yet when i contact them friendly how i normally talk to women in the real world i actually get a reply. I just want to know because it's weird. If nothing works well i felt i wasted my money and my time from my life hoping I'll find new friends from around asia countries. But i guess it won't happen. Advice from experienced people would be appreciated! Thank you!  
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@SFHarleyRider: Well put and 100% true. A considerable amount of fakes, partly created by the website itself. However, I have met here some (few) real contacts, too. It is also alarming, if a website does not give much information of itself to its users.
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Why would you automatically ponder to assume these various ethnic men you mentioned would be pimps? You may have a concept of other men which may need some broadening in perspective. As to people scamming, now days a woman if she choose to, can pimp herself if that is her game. There are as many organization of hustler and pimps from every place, including NZ, some of them are run by women, who have other women in their stable. Why would you assume the guy above you looks shady? Is it because he has on Aviator Ray Ban Sunglasses, but likewise so, you have on a hat with glasses and the youthful beard which could put you in someone concept as being shady. Geez!!!! Your last statement is more generic, and one among the many generalized rules of getting to know people, that many people could very well identify with. . Why would it be strange for a woman from the website to be seen in public? people on the web site participate from many locations around the world, They are actual human beings, who simply may enjoy participating in the web, as well as enjoy going out to public places. It's quite possible she could have the same negative thoughts about you? since you are in the web participating and you also go to public places. Should you be suspected as well?
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You'll be fine if you keep your focus on character, integrity and awareness to be responsible, that will help you attract women who are in that vein of being equally so.. Don't chase the "Miss It", or the one that everyone is chasing, don't compromise your principles for the facial look or the shape of her butt, and don't let the lure, temp and tease, blind you from seeing the person and to see them as an individual. Equally so, don't measure yourself by the material, antic's or actives of others, because the greatest challenge you will ever meet, is the challenge to be and remain being yourself. but as with age and time, it reveals whom you are unto you. At 21, there is a great deal of awareness and re-learning what you think you know, in ways that become affirmed in being and coming to know more of whom you are. You don't need to pursue women who have the attitude as if you have to perform the seven labors of Sampson, nor that you got to 'win" her as if she is some 'circus prize'... You don't need to buy a woman in the sense of love, because loves pays for itself, and it works for and within and of itself. If you encounter women, who always bring another guy into the picture as if you have to compete for her, it is best you leave her and the other guy to themselves and move along. don't chase a woman, because time will prove that you have only chased the image of concept and sometime, the illusion and maybe even the delusion you held in your mind, that may not be whom she is. A woman is and will be drawn to an honest man who stand with his integrity as a man, he who can live with the want to love, and the willingness to be loving, will find love. It will meet him on the level ground in which he stand. Don't let the feeling of desperation become dominant within you, for love or to be love, and you can remain free to share what you know and understand of loving, and you can do so with a light heart.
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