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So hard to talk or date an Asian girl I'm a SWM in VA in the USA where we have mostly gotten over thing like race ect. I wanted to ask why it's so hard to talk or date an asian girl? Is it a race thing ? A daddy thing or a family thing? what is it? rob in va 
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I was about to say the same thing: " just stop calling them Asian women and start looking at them AS women, In the past years, many people who would not have taken a second look at woman from Asian locations, suddenly seem to think they are the "new novelty group"... This attitude leads to many mis conceptions, and people start seeing them as some exotic novelty items to grasp. these are simply women. What ever one thinks he does not like about white women, black women or other women, he can find those same things in women from Asian. It might be wise to look for a "good and honest person", Period. A woman being Asian or what ever is not going to fix someone life, it may open up a hell circle they have not imagined, simply because they add in the novelty factor, rather than focus on the reality factor. Some probably should go to an Asian country before they get lost in obsession about women from Asian locations. They are not all spit and polished, and many live in a very competitive environment, and they have enough suitors who pursue them as women, until they know very well the games, the pit falls, they know how to play the games, they know the money game as well as any other woman from any other place. They also have a culture where the daughter is expected to marry up, which means they will look at the monetary matters maybe even more than some western women. As individuals they have the same capacity to be shrewd, and many other things that can be found in any other woman. One fact is the same with all women. Once you start having intimate relations with a woman, the nature of the relationship will take on some changes. Its just the nature of life in the reality of woman in relation to man when intimacy is involved. People watch too much media and make up too many delusions, and another matter, they don't all remain slim as they age, and they are not all slim figured when they are young either. People should also look at the Divorce Rate in Asian Locations, it exist and it is high. Now try to learn more about the reasons for those divorces, may help one understand more about the individual women as well. Many Western men are at a dis-advantage when pursuing Asian women, because these men set themselves up, where the woman can and many will set any kind of criteria they want, and watch the man jump through loops trying to meet it. cultural differences go far and beyond, what 'foods" people eat, and some may need to think of what is the expanse of cultural difference. If you know nothing about the community the woman comes from, again the western man is at a loss. He should ask himself. IF he was pursuing a western woman, he darn sure would be concerned about the environment and community she was groomed and what are variables within that community and how her household deals with raising kids in relation to the community and its standards. This all translates into 'getting to know the woman as an individual who is an individual adult woman". No she is not going to be a 'wind up sex toy machine", she is going to be what is a woman in relation to a man within their intimacy. and that is purely about the individualism of the person(s) man and woman. I'm amazed so many men come to these sites, like he is novelty shopping, some come with the kiss up mentality, if she has a pretty face, the same as men do in western society if a woman has a pretty face. Then when he finds out, he should have thought beyond the facial looks or the shape of the butt. and actually paid attention to the person as an individual... by then he is anguished beyond belief. Personally I don't put an Asian woman above any other woman as to being a considered human being. people make their preferences based on a great many things, and those things certainly will extend beyond fantasy aims. If one thinks these women from Asian will be silent on matters, then they don't know anything about the nature of Asian women, they have much say about many things within their relationships, just as women from any other culture has much to say about things within their relationships. Choose based on the individual connectivity of whom you meet, not some delusion that if one is choosing a certain ethnicity , that it is going to instantly create some dream sequence. because it does not work like that in life. The other part is the man may need to look at his own character and what it is and how it is, before he chooses any woman. Period.
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thank you
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I liked that
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