Cavylu 47F
72 posts
7/18/2015 7:45 pm
too good to be true??


i got some guys writing and asking me to email them privately....and another one saying that he likes me a lot and lots even tot he's real but hey come on i mean how can u fall for someone in just a jiffy with less conversation??? its ridiculous really....what am i gonna do?? why can they just email here why must private?? suggestions anyone???

chatillion 71M
1569 posts
7/19/2015 3:10 am

suggestions anyone???

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Cavylu replies on 7/19/2015 5:05 am:
thanks Chat!!!
i got that pretty well...

hotelmikel 70M
533 posts
7/19/2015 6:02 am



there are many who are here who are trying to take advantage of others, men as well as women,,, so if it sounds too good to be true , more than likely it is a fake ,,,,


Cavylu replies on 7/19/2015 6:30 am:
hey mike,
i got this pic for twice i think....
thanks anyway!

1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
7/19/2015 8:50 am

They are scammers. Do NOT email anyone outside till you can TRUST them. Use your intelligence, intuition, and instinct to know who is REAL and who is scammer.

The person must be within your criteria in age range, within drivable distance, highly educated, has a stable income, a profession that nobody or any circumstance can replace that job i.e. MD, JD (attorney), MBA, PhD, CEO, .... You need to read in between lines what they said in their profile and emails.

I have known a banker CEO/President/Chairman for 9 years (since June 2006) who is 7 years older than me and lives only 18 miles away. We met many times, but he is too busy on his career and has been daunted from his previous divorce financial loss. He still stay to be my best friend and email with me for over 7,000 emails. I went to his bank office many times and saw him how busy he is. He owns 4 banks (1 HQ, 3 branches). He taught me the timing of real estate. I used his advices to sell my properties at high in June 2007 and bought low in winter of 2011. I became a multimillionaire. He didn't give me money or charge me for his advices. He knows I am smart and know how to advise me. I usually see him on weekends.

We talked about politics, religion, current events, real estate, stock market, interest rate, ..... He is an expert in "Finance". He got Bachelor and Master degrees in "Finance" and a MBA degree. He emailed me back any question I asked him about "money", but NOT "Romance". He hugs me when we meet for coffee or lunch just like a friend and nothing more than that. I like him more than he likes me. I wrote an email tell him "unilateral love" and he emailed me back and invited me for another lunch date for an hour at a fancy restaurant. He has set his mind "NOT TO MARRIED AGAIN". He is a very rich man and I think he already set up "Will", or "Living Trust", "LLC" (Limited Liabilities Company", .... to protect his properties and money for his 2 daughters and 5 grand-children. I am learning from him.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
7/19/2015 9:09 am

When a person sounds "Too Good To be True" then he is NOT TRUE (fake). You need to meet that person face to face. Google his name and address by type "people search" on Google. Select few links, type in his name and city he lives and you can know him. I Google all the 72 persons I met. If they say they are MD, I know a website for Board of Medicine in California to check that MD license # and DEA license # (pharmacist knows how to check fake prescription by calling back the prescriber MD). I checked my banker CEO home address but he used his LLC name to buy that property, so I couldn't know. But I know his banks, Google those public information so that I know he is REAL. I went to his banks, so I know he didn't lie. He also has a profile on "Linked-in", a professional website.

I hope you know I am trying to let you know how to identify REAL PEOPLE from FAKE persons. If you can't trust a person, delete them. Don't contact them.



Honesty is the best policy.