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swissmanincn -- swiss artist in beijing when I was on IM, received a message from swissmanincn -- who claimed he is an musician from switzerland and who lived in Beijing for 7 years. we chatted for a few sentences, when I asked him if he is single here to look for a relationship. he said he was in open marriage. and he and his wife enjoy 3-some, and asked if I mind it. I told him it was his life, its non of my business. then he asked if I mind watch them  I said : yes, I do mind and closed message box. Really felt worried about this site and women members who are seek real love here. and even about the situation in China -- especially after met this so called artist here on IM. Probably this couple have brought into China some really bad images about western people, or Swiss people. The kind of relationship they enjoy surely is not Chinese looking for. And do Western artists are usually so bored about life and like this?!! |
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I don't know if I/M is monitored like the chatroom but I think that comes under the heading of 'offensive behavior' and you should report the offending member. Remember, there is a friend finder site that caters to alternate behavior, unfortunately (for that member) Asia Friend finder isn't one of them.
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I'm so uncool I had to look up what "iggy" meant...
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Miss papaya: Do NOT enter chatroom to IM with anyone. PERIOD. I responded to one of the blogger here that she has been humiliated by a guy during chatting for only few sentences. Don't go to chatroom because there is no copy, no evidence what you chat with anyone. They think if you chat with them, you are one of them, same kind of people. I have never enter chatroom. I prefer blogs. Blogs have record what you said in public. Other people know what you said. I am a responsible person who stand what I said. Honesty is the best policy.
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