aliceyumi 53F
314 posts
3/19/2016 3:46 pm
Still in love with my ex-boyfriend

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aliceyumi 53F
566 posts
3/19/2016 6:36 pm

It's not so easy an international marriage! Relationship ove the net is okay but when it comes to think about living together there might be a minimum of good conditions... Unfortunately my ex haven't got that and that's why we remain just good to one another and struggle with missing each other...


aliceyumi 53F
566 posts
3/20/2016 6:13 am

I agree with Beautifulkayra2, she is more positive about my position, the men tend to think my ex-boyfriend is just playing with my heart. He's sensitive and so caring that I can not think of letting it go. Moreover no one has been so tender and nice to me besides him... One more reason to stick to him, he's no way avoiding my contact, he's always receptive! He's so espontaneous, I could never let him go cause I love him so much. It's true that he says he doesn't want to keep me from meeting other man, he wants me to be happy, but at the same time he's happy to know that we're in love to each other the same way., our feelings corresponds...


tgough 44M
51 posts
3/21/2016 8:13 am

Alice move on. Meet someone who wants to be with you and doesn't play games


aliceyumi replies on 3/21/2016 9:24 am:
It's easy to say 'move on', but you don't know how I feel, being most of my life alone, he was the one who brought me so happy days... Not engaged but my heart stands close to his...

aliceyumi 53F
566 posts
3/24/2016 3:29 am

Papaya1972, thanks so much, now it makes sense to me a lot better.


Bobz56 72M
150 posts
4/16/2016 1:46 pm

If you both really love each other, and really are in consistent communication, open and honest with each other, that is good, and worth the wait. Ten years, though, is quite a long time given todays means of transportation and communication. Perhaps it is a financial issue, which is unfortunate. Unfortunately because having an international relationship implies that at least one of you can afford to go to another country. In the US, to bring a fiancé or spouse from another country means the US person must earn or have a certain amount of money. I imagine that would be similar in other countries. Anyway, best of luck. Hope it works out.


aliceyumi replies on 4/16/2016 2:16 pm:
Hello Bob. Thanks for the comments. We're not making promises of love for all times, but we enjoy what we can have for now. He has his routine that makes him a busy person and I understand that if I had to have an own life like him I would be as busy also. No matter how busy we continue having contact what is incredible...