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Where is Richard now? Keep smiling, you need to smile more. Your primary picture didn't smile. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery, today is a present (gift). Honesty is the best policy.
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Alice: It sounds like it was an "unilateral love". He is more attractive to you. To him, that excursion didn't develop to be a romance. You have to understand "Romance" has to be "bilateral love". Both of you look very nice in that picture. He seems an American or European. I hope he is NOT the person who you miss so much and became "bipolar" that you mentioned in other blog. I want you to know you can't force anyone to love you. It has to be "both ways" - bilateral love. I can feel you miss him very much, but sorry that you can't force him to love you. It was just an excursion, a friendship. He didn't contact you from FaceBook, meaning he is NOT interested or he doesn't want to make you misunderstand and make thing worse. Hope you understand the romance doesn't always happen as you wished. I want you to be strong and pick-up yourself and move on. Life is tough, you have to be tougher. Okay?? Honesty is the best policy.
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Alice: Just my curious, are you a Japanese descendant? I think you are. I think Richard likes Japanese and live in Japan. Japan has too many earthquakes and too cold for me in the winter. I have traveled to Japan for only 5 days in late of January 2011. Then when I came back to USA on Feb 16, 2011, Japan had a 8.9 magnitude earthquake/ Tsunami/ nuclear reactors leak,... on March 11th, 2011 More than 17,000 people died that day. I had a blog about it. Is a French man in your life? Is he your husband or ex-husband? Honesty is the best policy.
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Alice: I do know some guys like Japanese girl. I came to USA in 1980 and attended a business school just to practice English and got a "Loan Secretary" job. That time I was only 24 going to 25, in the same class, there was a Mexican boy (younger), he thought I am a Japanese, but I told him I came from Taiwan. He told me he had met a Japanese girl in Los Angeles and that girl went back to Japan after 2 years. That Mexican boy flew to Japan and stayed in that girl's parents house for 2 weeks. That Japanese girl's parent didn't like him. In 1980 or before, there was no internet, or cellular phone, so he came back to USA, heart broken and missed that Japanese girl very much. He wrote letters to her upon return but as time had gone by, they discounted communication. I was 3 or 4 yrs older, he gave me some Mexican foods and taught me some Spanish 36 yrs ago. Just classmate and I am NOT a Japanese, so there was no sparks. All he missed was that Japanese girl, I was just an Asian in Los Angeles. I remember he was very tall, big eyes, good looking Mexican boy who loved a Japanese girl very much. Okay, May I know "Have you every Married?". Did he break your heart and you became bipolar? I am concerned your health. So, that French guy is still on-going boyfriend. You wish to meet him again. Why can't he come over to see you instead? Honesty is the best policy.
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