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Lily20145 60F
887 posts
9/19/2019 6:31 am

I guess they may want you to look into their description more than their look, so after several exchange messages that both of you can communicate via web cam that you can see it clearly. But I know all man out there are mostly looking for the "look" ? I may be wrong.

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Lily20145 60F
887 posts
9/20/2019 3:06 am

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well, in general we all attract by the look. However, I can say under my humble observation higher percentage male will go out with considerably good looking female. On contrary, I can say good looking female may not hang out with or settle with good looking male.

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Lily20145 60F
887 posts
9/20/2019 3:08 am

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online dating profiles are the beginning of dating process, you don't believe what they describe themselves, do you ? it takes time to get to know each other I guess.

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Lily20145 60F
887 posts
9/20/2019 3:08 am

By the way, showing bad photos are better than showing fake photos or edited photos.

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aliceyumi 53F
566 posts
9/23/2019 1:44 pm

Hi Ed. I think some people are not self-confident enough about their looks and prefer to hide and try to approach by different means other than looks.

Some people think they look hot with sunglasses on, be it. If someone like that wrote to me, I would ask for a photo where I could see his eyes. Eyes are the window for the soul?

Anyway static photos aren't enough these days, at least some video calls are necessary to make sure whom you are talking with.


Lily20145 60F
887 posts
9/24/2019 12:10 am

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Kayra, when I was young in high school I instantly attracted by the height and the look, if he can play sports well. Then I was happy to go out with him. Now, I am with someone who is not my ideal type I told him i am not interest in him at the beginning but happy to stay as friends because we communicate well and he is fun to be around. perhaps, we look for different kind of person at different stage of life. Or, we learn from our past experience what we really need in relationship.

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Lily20145 60F
887 posts
9/25/2019 1:30 pm

Kayra, I guess similar upbringing is the good foundation of relationship. If he can communicate well with you so he must be kind, sincere and smart.

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