I ¡°Heard¡± the Love
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Posted:Jun 27, 2009 4:50 pm
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I ¡°Heard¡± the Love
When I was growing up I do not recall hearing the words ¡°I love you¡± from my father. When your father never says them to you when you are a , it gets tougher and tougher for him to say those words as he gets older. To tell the truth, I could not honestly remember when I had last said those words to him either. I decided to set my ego aside and make the first move. After some hesitation, in our next phone conversation I blurted out the words, ¡°Dad¡ I love you!¡±
¡¡¡¡There was a silence at the other end and he awkwardly replied, ¡°Well, same back at ya!¡±
¡¡¡¡I chuckled and said, ¡°Dad, I know you love me, and when you are ready, I know you will say what you want to say.¡±
¡¡¡¡Fifteen minutes later my mother called and nervously asked, ¡°Paul, is everything okay?¡±
¡¡¡¡A few weeks later, Dad concluded our phone conversation with the words, ¡°Paul, I love you.¡± I was at work during this conversation and the tears were rolling down my cheeks as I finally ¡°heard¡± the love. As we both sat there in tears we realized that this special moment had taken our father/ relationship to a new level.
¡¡¡¡A short while after this special moment, my father narrowly escaped death following heart surgery. Many times since, I have pondered the thought, if I did not take the first step and Dad did not survive the surgery, I would have never ¡°heard¡± the love.
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I ¡°Heard¡± the Love
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Posted:Jun 27, 2009 4:50 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2009 8:43 pm 5585 Views
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I ¡°Heard¡± the Love
When I was growing up I do not recall hearing the words ¡°I love you¡± from my father. When your father never says them to you when you are a , it gets tougher and tougher for him to say those words as he gets older. To tell the truth, I could not honestly remember when I had last said those words to him either. I decided to set my ego aside and make the first move. After some hesitation, in our next phone conversation I blurted out the words, ¡°Dad¡ I love you!¡±
¡¡¡¡There was a silence at the other end and he awkwardly replied, ¡°Well, same back at ya!¡±
¡¡¡¡I chuckled and said, ¡°Dad, I know you love me, and when you are ready, I know you will say what you want to say.¡±
¡¡¡¡Fifteen minutes later my mother called and nervously asked, ¡°Paul, is everything okay?¡±
¡¡¡¡A few weeks later, Dad concluded our phone conversation with the words, ¡°Paul, I love you.¡± I was at work during this conversation and the tears were rolling down my cheeks as I finally ¡°heard¡± the love. As we both sat there in tears we realized that this special moment had taken our father/ relationship to a new level.
¡¡¡¡A short while after this special moment, my father narrowly escaped death following heart surgery. Many times since, I have pondered the thought, if I did not take the first step and Dad did not survive the surgery, I would have never ¡°heard¡± the love.
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Watch the world go by
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Posted:Jun 27, 2009 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2009 4:19 am 5525 Views
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Watch the world go by
我们大多数人，难以静静地坐下来，看着这个世界，与这个世界擦身而过。为什么不呢?有什么重要的事不能延后吗?是什么电子邮件一定要此刻回?我们的灵魂忙碌奔波时，生活就会离我们远去。我们不断地思考未来，错过了身边美丽的风景。
I was sitting outside my new home yesterday (we just moved last week, and we love the new place), watching the world go by.
There were people in cars, in a hurry to get to their next appointment. There were birds flying by, insects just as busy as the people in cars, plants and weeds thriving in the humid Guam climate.
Inside the house, my were also busy, as ever, making a mess of the house (which my wife and I would soon clean up), getting into things, their natural curiosity overpowering our previous pleas for them not to play with lotion or take things apart.
The sky was slightly overcast and there was a cool breeze, quite strong and pleasant actually.
It’s not often that most of us just sit quietly, and allow the world to pass us by.
Why not?
What is so important that it can't wait until later? What email must be answered right this moment? Do we really need to read all those articles online, all those messages from others, all those newspapers and magazines? Do we need to have the television and radio and Internet on all the time?
Is life passing us by as we keep our minds super-busy? Are we missing out on the beautiful world around us as we constantly think about the future — what we need to do, our anxieties about what might happen — and the past — what we did wrong, what someone else did to us, what we said, what should have happened?
When was the last time you just sat, and observed? Why not do it today？
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给女人的忠告：千万信不得的男人这11句话
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Posted:Jun 27, 2009 4:28 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2009 3:21 am 6538 Views
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给女人的忠告：千万信不得的男人这11句话
第一句：我不在乎你的容貌
女人似花，男人像蝶，花愈香则蝶愈盛，花越艳则蝶越狂。蝶恋花乃千年不变的真理，男人不在乎女人容貌？那你有没有听说过蝶恋草的？
第二句：我什么都答应你
男人好像一激动，就忘了自己从来都不是万能的。他们总是摆出上帝的口气，不经大脑思考就脱口而出地说我什么都答应你。或许，他们不知道上帝也不是万能的，试问一下：上帝创造了人类，创造了万物，上帝能创造出一块他自己也搬不动的石头吗？
于是，女人在听到这句话的时候，常常能听到接下来的另一句：除了这一件事，我什么都能答应你！
第三句：你是我的唯一
女人有政策，男人有对策，女人似乎不可能永远栓住男人。女人栓得住男人的腰包，栓不住男人的腰带，女人栓得住男人的情，却栓不住男人的欲。当你发现男人“红旗不倒，彩旗飘飘”的时候，你才会懂得唯一不过是琼瑶编织的女人欺骗女人的童话罢了。
第四句：我不在乎你是不是处女
千万不要低估了那一层薄薄的膜对男人的魅力，数千年的文化禁锢，不是媒体随便喊几声性解放就能抹煞的。性解放，到头来得了便宜卖乖的还是男人，受伤流泪的依旧是女人。如果男人真的可以不在乎，除非他只是把你当作是情人又或是一种工具。
第五句：我发誓
当男人在女人面前碰壁的时候，当男人无奈的时候，他们最后的言语居然惊人地相似，指天发誓不过是男人欺骗女人善良天性的一个绝好幌子。对于男人来说，发个誓就好像放个P那么容易。
第六句：是我错了
女人总以为男人认错了，便是自己又赢了，孰不知这只是又一次受骗的开始。女人好像很少认错，可偏偏总是错上加错。
第七句：我戒了……
十个男人，七个好烟八个好酒九个好色，还有一个样样都好。要是真能戒，那那些烟啊、酒啊、小姐啊，都谁消费掉了？
第八句：我一定改
你千万不要被男人翩翩的外表所迷惑，其实只要一回到家里，甚至只是在美女面前掉了一下头，他挖鼻孔、扣脚趾的陋习，三天不洗澡五天不洗衣、屋里邋遢得像狗窝的传统，便会立马表露无遗。俗话说：江山易改，秉性难移，如果要我相信男人改得了生活上的那些恶习，我宁可相信狗改得了吃屎。
第九句：我会娶你的
结婚不是嘴上放放气的游戏，是要付诸于行动的。说的次数越多，娶你的机率越小，基本成反比。
第十句：我没骗你
这句话本身就是又骗了你一次，罪上加罪，罪不可赦。不要犹豫，马上给他一嘴巴。
第十一句：爱你一万年
P话，最大的P话，你以为女人是乌龟啊，活得了一万年！
女人都知道：男人靠得住，猪都会爬树。可女人依然会前赴后继地上当受骗，于是，只见伤心落泪的女人，不见会上山爬树的猪。女人啊女人，或许这就是女人的悲哀。
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美丽的寂寞
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Posted:Jun 27, 2009 12:23 am
Last Updated:Jul 12, 2009 4:30 am 5789 Views
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美丽的寂寞
寂寞难耐，人寂寞时会有一些忧郁的心事袭上心头。而我，却和寂寞的关系很好。
拥有寂寞，并不是我孤傲内向。不愿在缤纷的人群中手握自己的旗帜，惟愿在自己的小屋里，做自己想做的事，想自己所想的问题，此时，寂寞也变得很美丽。
寂寞时，心象断了线的风筝，渴望风带动我启程，无论在天涯海角，只要拥有一份跋涉的艰辛，相信洒下的汗水也能发出珍珠的光芒。
我没有理由拒绝我一个人在一方天地里编织生活的彩页，重要的是默默地把理想当作指南，把根须扎进寂寞的沃土，实现人生的价值，放飞生命的翅膀！
我很乐意承受一个人的这份寂寞，因为它真得很美丽。
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---------他-----------
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Posted:Jun 27, 2009 12:21 am
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2009 4:20 am 5570 Views
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---------他-----------
我如一滴晨露，
不经意间滴落在你的衣肩上，在清晨的阳光缓缓升起的时候、、 、
我已被悄然蒸发，如一律轻气在晨空中消失掉。
我想----如果有来生
我依然会在大学里等你---------
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我、总是让人忧心、、、
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Posted:Jun 27, 2009 12:18 am
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2009 10:59 pm 5553 Views
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我、总是让人忧心、、、
现代人的爱情观念_____________究竟是因为寂寞而爱还是 仅仅喜欢那爱情的脸孔。
题记-----------
就像张爱玲所说的:见了他,她变得很低很低,低到尘埃里,但她心里是欢喜的,从尘埃里开出花来!
我，总
我，总是那样让人伤心
我，总难于想到自已要的是什么
我，是不是该安静的想一下未来
昨夜，因为一通电话
我却难于入眠
我是不是还喜欢着那份爱
在爱情面前
我闪得比猫还快
在爱情面前
姐说我是个笨笨的小女孩
也不懂得把握自已的将来
也许吧
也许到了明年的今天
我还在那里傻傻等待着未来
也许像风一样消失在人海
听风在哭泣
我也跟着哭泣
我是不是还在喜欢着那份爱
我
太自私呢
我
在一次又一次的感情旋涡中、、、、、、、、、、、究竟得到了什么?
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我的今天、明天、后天、、、、、、
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Posted:Jun 26, 2009 11:46 pm
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2009 11:40 pm 5731 Views
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我的今天、明天、后天、、、、、、
一天又一天，生活永远是那么不着边际的忙碌和乏味，有的时候真的想
停下来歇歇脚，不去理会外面世界的花开花落，可每次却都被自己笑着否
定了。有的时候，人是不能随心所欲的，而是不得不迈开脚步去应和这个
世界的节拍。
然而，每每在空闲时仔细的回想却总觉得自己无尽的忙碌所得却只是
寥寥无几，永远无法搞清楚所谓的收获在哪一个难以寻觅的角落等待着我
去拾取，没有去欣赏纯洁可人的冬雪，又将错过七彩缤纷的春花，虽然很
期待激情的夏日与明朗的秋月，却不知又是否会在不知不觉之中将之蹉
跎。
在那个烟花掠过的夜里，我让自己带着微笑静静的入睡，等待属于我的
下一个黎明！
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