The Amazing thing is: "People" - within the massive delimma about.. "Love"
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Posted:May 4, 2014 8:13 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2014 4:34 pm 19635 Views
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It takes a long time to truly learn people as individuals. beyond our perception there is the facts of whom they are, by what they do, how they do it and the attitudes they hold about doing it, or having done it.. 'what ever that "it" might be.
People profess many feeling and make many claims, as long as things are in their upswing favor for and toward them. But when the reality of life challenges comes, this is when the real depth of such individuals shows up.
What is often exposed, is the shallowness of what people claim as love, ( because it is too often connected to the ego, material matter and social egoisms).
Many claim they have loved or do love. Its far different for those who loose a mate by the advent of death which brings them to loose a love one.
But, of the many people who continuously choose to break and throw away relationships, they once claimed they'd be in for the expanse of life. And a few years down the road, not only are they pursuing divorce, they become vengeful and greed driven and driven by a madness of self anguish, they want to rip, strip and take anything and everything from the other.
It makes for a sad world when 'love is made into and of such shallowness". what we see is a lot of being produced without a "set" of parents, then there are those who after producing and claiming to love their mate, who spend years and then turn up claiming they are now homosexual.
What a trip of a world the "human being" creates. rarely knowing anything about love, except what ' is of selfish satisfactions", regardless to the expense their 'selfishness impose upon others".
Some break up and throw it away, because of monetary obsessions, and some even throw it away because of a lusting for "varied" things.
I don't think anyone, man or woman should stick around for abuse and brutality.
but not all situations are about abuse or brutality. Far too often today, its about lusting for something, be it money, material things, or the bodies of others and the fantasies they build in their minds about those faces and bodies. the end result is, they don't know any more about the persons with the body they lust for, or the face they lust for than they knew about the one they are leaving to chase this new lustful object of their fantasy captions.
It might be wise for people "to talk about the things they try to avoid talking about".. as generally it is those things which build the rift, and still they deny it and blame it on everything else because they are not willing to learn, to grow and to develop any spectrum of understanding behind what they hold. some are simply selfish to the point, that "it's my way, or no way", and they become to shut down only after they have expend their manipulation skills to sway things to their way only.
It is not wise for a man to be the follower in a relationship, because he may end up in places that is filled with nothing but drama and no reason or substance with the basis of the cycle he may find himself spinning.
Various women have posted at various time, about the 'insecurities of women' not just in this site, but in conversation and by other means, about the various insecurities within women's lives, and many have seen displays of the acts of women against men and certainly against other women. All of which tells its own stories.
Men may need to grasp a better understanding of what it means to be the head of household. it does not mean dictator, however it does mean that he has to support a system which has a base of fairness but is rooted in principles of integrity.
Today too many men are too weak, and become too much of a puppet, and the end result is the woman loose respect for him, because he does not take the lead, nor take a stand upon his principles. when the woman can manipulate the man with sex and manufactured tears, each time she does it and he falls for it, she looses more and more respect for him.
No matter how the social scene is made to look in movies, books and tabloids and these dime store magazine racks, It is and continue to be the "man who chooses". too many articles like to promote it as if the woman is choosing and the man has to make all these submission for her to make agreement to share life and times. Those situation rarely ever work out, because he did not make a foundational based choice, he submitted to whimsical manipulation and covert dictations of falling into agreement to be a patronizing provider for the changing whims she has proposed.
The men who realize he is the chooser of his wife, then he will understand much more about how to make a principle based choice.
Some men become fools chasing after faces and the shapes of butts, and he become "the ass", more than it is about the shape of ass, he has convinced himself to be chasing.
Many women have no more concern about her sex organ than she thinks she can use it as a lure to induce a man to chase her. Once he starts the chase, both have already become looser, because there is no winner in that game.
You may chase the ass, but its the person you end up with. Therefore, far and beyond the shape and look of the face or ass, it is the person he needs to pay attention unto within his aim to seek a mate.
Today, we see how easy it is for some women to become hookers, call girls, pay date , rich mans toys, and the multitudes of these types of conduct, we see how easy it is for women to become homosexual inclined, money chasers, status chaser and material consumed. So, it is evident that men need to pay close attention to the character of the woman he is interested in.
Look at any of the shows, "Housewives of _____, Housewives of ____ and etc. no matter how many gowns they wear or glasses of wine they walk around holding or how opulent of the house decor, what we see is a lot of bicker, backbiting, undermining and ego driven attacks and challenges, and rarely anything about the integrity and quality of character that is conducive to raising a family or building a peaceful loving home" Often its about, how to hold on to the life of ease that someone else is paying for, or how to play ego games of keeping up with or out doing the other in some material display, ego outburst, or some excessive spending cycle of material madness.
We have countless 'so called" Reality Shows, which is primarily based on , bicker-fest, ego battles, and status pretentions, and delusion of grandeur and followed up with "I'm better than you games". Even their charitable work is done with an angle, seeking status or some ego driven aim.
None of them have even anything close to have an interest to work, and if they do, it is displaying them as a 'tyrant" who gets off on putting others down or dominating over others with vanity and ego so dominant they take delight in being mean and abusive and conniving.
All of which indicates, that for a man to select he first has to have principles, uphold integrity, and within his seeking stay based in the value of such things in his concept of choosing. Because if he is choosing based on looks and the delusion of some fantasy sex, and overly made up faces. he will find he has pursued his own nightmare, which both of them will wake up surrounded by the monsters of madness.
Some men are deluded to think he has to be avarice driven to be a successful person and be a man. These men often find their lives going through one cycle of madness after the next. these men become easy targets, because he is often caught up in Avarice to the point he has blinded himself even of himself. he become easy picking for those who seek him for various material and monetary gains. He has become a fool unto himself and lost site that he is but a mortal man.
(Now, let's see if people want to talk about open based reality, or will they run into silence as they normally do).
Here is your opportunity to present, or discuss what you can and will bring to a relationship. you can dispel anything written above, clarify any mis construed statements presented, or expand and broaden the view points about any aspect of the roles and position within a relationship. Nothing above is cast in stone, so feel free to treat it apart, re-shape it, re-structure it, re-build it and what ever you think will express what you have and what you see can make relationships function better for men and for woman as a pair. I'd say, dare to assert your own truths as you perceive them to be. .
Yes, the intent of the post is to be "provocative of interactive challenge and or input" lets see if people make the blog site interactively exploratory about subject matter of relationships... Since so many come on here talking about looking for a wife or a husband, and claiming they want to be so sincere and want someone sincere. Or is it just the 'scripted fluff and puff lines that we see on 100's of profiles.
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Arriving with Grace in the Heart
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Posted:Apr 29, 2014 7:25 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2014 4:52 pm 19122 Views
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Geez.... it seems there are just challenges within and upon challenges.
What the heck, today, I had another tooth to break !!!!! Now, dealing with arranging other treatment as previously mentioned, and people delaying what they need to do to get the situation right. So, I'll get this lined up and get it set up to be done and then it will be done. Next...
Finally, I found another attorney who is willing to review my documents. I'm going to belive that this will work also.
At first it was like, WTF !!!!!!!
But... I settled down, to grasp understanding, as I know I've had more than the 7 yrs of not the best of situations, therefore, by the cycles of life I'm at the time for a upswing in things. the 7 years of re-learning is designed to lead to 7 years of prospering living. It is then using the wisdom to stay within means and stay within management of living and the affairs of living, then there won't be 7 years of down trend.
We have to learn these things, then as we continue our learning, things become less challenging, because we become better in our management responsibilities and more at peace with our basics of living.
this is the cycle of things in regards to getting better with age; is in its way true. Which means, we become better at and within the tone of managing our wants and needs with greater understanding, were we don't let our wants appear or be made to appear as needs. Therefore I will count my blessings and give thanks for the graces which is within my life and throughout my living and the many wonderful things which I'm blessed to see and do on a daily basis.
I Thank God For the Graces Of Life and the Blessing of Living.
At the current moment what needs to be done, needs to be done, so it's a matter of getting on with getting them done.
I do know one thing is for sure, I have to keep a positive outlook regardless and in spite of things,then it become even easier to have and maintain a positive outlook, because all things look up in positivity. Because without the positive outlook, a negative demeanor can only attract negative results.
I will call the dentist in Los Angeles, if he can arrange me a good package then I will go there and get implants, ( I'm not too keen on the dentist here doing it, because here they seem to be very cost prohibitive) and I can deal with the six months for healing until crown delivery. Then I will have this dental stuff behind me.
What a Journey its been, I thank God for bringing me through it and sustaining my sense of grace, appreciation and acceptance of Gods will in making life such a wonderful and beauty of a gift.
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What are people waiting on to make this site interactive
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Posted:Apr 27, 2014 12:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2014 4:29 pm 17797 Views
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Does it have to be some slap stick comedy, does it have to be about some romance fantasy.
What about all the multitudes of elements that make up reality?
I don't think there is room for anyone to claim this site as dwindling, if they are reluctant and seek and find reasons not to be interactive about subject material.
I don't get the people, do they think their face or showing a bit of leg and only talking about romance fantasy is going to make them desirable to a relationship.
What ever it is, YOUR WHOLE reality is involved in relationships. !! that includes all the stuff people claim they don't want to talk about, but when they get into relationships, they develop attitudes and disposition about all of the same such things.
Some walk around and build up contempt about the same stuff they will hold on to reluctance to discuss.
All the posturing and claiming to be saintly and claiming some virgin mary demeanor does not mean anything, because the real you, will show up in any relationship that you invest yourself to become involved within.
It's as crazy as people are with the subject of sex, but most people in this website will find a way to walk away from a relationships the minute they don't get what they want sexually. Yet they want to claim it as being unimportant.
No it does not make up the whole relationship, but some will certainly destroy the whole relationship in regards to it. Yet they remain zipped lipped and PRETENDING to be so moral and so saintly and so virginal, and we all know its in the big picture of things, nothing more than posturing which does not represent the real individuals.
Then you get those who rush on here talking about finding a Husband, That's the most absurd things, you should first find someone you can communicate with and then within that learn how to share, rather than expect all these traps and hooks will snag you a fish. if you don't work to develop a SHARING relationship, then maybe your whole concept about Husband is the problem. Because any man who works can alway find a woman who will provide sex services and their presence if he is paying, heck they will move in your house and live with you, if you tell them it is expense free. Every man knows that simple trip.
The concept of finding a Husband should be more about finding a companion and having and supporting companionship, long before any fantasy of Husband as many see it even comes into the mind.
maybe some people should watch the show "Who the bleep did I marry".
If you are so desperate for a Husband, then may you have not figured out that to have a husband, you first have to become what is a wifely. some of the one who appear to make a potential good wife, seem to have less interest in finding a husband. They seem to be more concerned with finding someone they can communicate with and share the responsibility of what is involved within living and understanding how to have a level of appreciation that is stronger than their cycle and circle of expectations.
It does not matter how good your think your sex is, it is still nothing more than a body organ, it does not matter how good you think you look, because time is going to change that whether you like it or not. It does not matter how much money you have or how much you don't have. because money will be here long after you are gone, and what ever you think you have, will eventually belong to someone else.
it does not matter what your house looks like, it matter more if it has the loving nature of feeling like and being a home.
it does not matter if you came from a wealthy family or a dirt poor family, it matters if your appreciate and respect others and have respectability about how you manage the character of whom you are.
It certainly does matter what is your attitude, and it matters even more if you are an effective and interactive communicator.
So all the hiding and posturing and silence has not gained you much to date, so how do you expect it is going to gain you any more in the future.
Even those who sell sex for a living, have learned one thing, 'they have to communicate, and they do so even if both don't speak that much of the same language".
It's so strange, because I saw more open honest with some of the bar girls in Thailand, that I see with a great many women in lots of places. They will talk about their lives, their aims, their aspirations, their likes and dislikes and many other things. They already know that they've made a pay as you go agreement, so there is not much left to hide. because they'd already made the agreement to participate in a sexual exchange of indulging desires.
So, what is the basis of the general reluctance of people to talk in this website?
I do wonder?
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One was barking like something upset her
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Posted:Apr 27, 2014 9:30 am
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2016 12:26 pm 18230 Views
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This morning the was barking as if someone or something had intruded into her yard space.
I wondered if someone was at the side gate or if maybe a snake or something has appeared in the yard.
Well when I went out, it just so happen that a "balloon with a string on it" had fallen in the back yard.
The smaller had no problem with it, Even after I picked it up, the other would have nothing to do with it. while it was on the ground she was certainly guarding against it by the way dogs bark at things with a semi position ready to pounce of it if it reacted .
This happened once before, but it was not a balloon in the yard, someone was flying over one of those Gas filled Balloons, and the more Balloon that passed she would not rest until they were out of sight. Then she kept going back looking to see if they would re-appear.
Its amazing how alert dogs are to things.
I notice some people come out and 'call to their dogs", I've found I can just open the back door and 'snap" my fingers and their hearing is so good, they pick up on it and they come quickly.
They are interestingly amazing in many ways. They get their times when they want to go lay some place in solicitude, then they get the times they want to come and lay right next to where I am, and then they get the times, they want you to touch and talk to them.
One thing I have not figured out, is the volume of time, dogs just like to sit and look at me.. they will do that as if they are fixated on every nuisance I make.
sometimes I fall asleep in the chair, and I wake up only to find both of them standing on their hind legs,with their paws on the chair, just watching me.
There are other times they are asleep and dreaming, with their legs moving and making noises, Not sure what their dreams could be, but they certainly have them.
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How much do you trust video/chat
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Posted:Apr 27, 2014 9:16 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2014 5:57 pm 19445 Views
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Do you do it frequently or infrequently?
Are you cautious as to whether the other person will capture the video and result to post in in general public websites or facebook or some of the other things?
Do you chat frequently?
Are you cautious as to whether the other person will capture the Chat Log and result to post in in general public websites or facebook or some of the other things?
What is your standard for protecting yourself in these situations ?
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do you like the term : "Selfies"
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Posted:Apr 27, 2014 9:13 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2014 4:41 pm 17471 Views
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I don't particularly care for the term, but since digital cameras have existed, they had timers to take a picture of ones self.
Do you like taking pictures of yourself?
I've done so on occasions, but generally it is someone else taking the picture of me, when I'm photographed.
How often do you photograph yourself, or do you chronicle your life via photographs?
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God vs Science
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Posted:Apr 27, 2014 9:07 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2014 4:40 pm 18374 Views
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THIS IS THE BEST AND SIMPLEST EXPLANATION I THINK I'VE EVER SEEN AND IT USES THE VERY SCIENCE THAT MANY USE TO DISPROVE THE VERY EXISTENCE OF GOD.
'Let me explain the problem science has with religion.' The atheist professor of philosophy pauses before his class and then asks one of his new students to stand.
'You're a Christian, aren't you, ?'
'Yes sir,' the student says.
'So you believe in God?'
'Absolutely.
'Is God good?'
'Sure! God's good.'
'Is God all-powerful? Can God do anything?'
'Yes'
'Are you good or evil?'
'The Bible says I'm evil.'
The professor grins knowingly. 'Aha! The Bible!' He considers for a moment. 'Here's one for you. Let's say there's a sick person over here and you can cure him. You can do it. Would you help him? Would you try?'
'Yes sir, I would.'
'So you're good...!'
'I wouldn't say that.'
'But why not say that? You'd help a sick and maimed person if you
could. Most of us would if we could. But God doesn't.'
The student does not answer, so the professor continues. 'He doesn't, does he? My brother was a Christian who died of cancer, even though he prayed to Jesus to heal him. How is this Jesus good? Hmmm? Can you answer that one?'
The student remains silent.
'No, you can't, can you?' the professor says. He takes a sip of water from a glass on his desk to give the student time to relax.
'Let's start again, young fella. Is God good?'
'Er..yes,' the student says.
"is Satan good?'
The student doesn't hesitate on this one. 'No.'
'Then where does Satan come from?'
The student falters. 'From God'
'That's right. God made Satan, didn't he? Tell me, . Is there evil in this
world?'
'Yes, sir.'
'Evil's everywhere, isn't it? And God did make everything correct??
'Yes'
'So who created evil?' The professor continued, 'If God created everything, then God created evil, since evil exists, and according to the principle that our works define who we are, then God is evil.'
Again, the student has no answer. 'Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things, do they exist in this world?'
The student squirms on his feet. 'Yes.'
'So who created them?'
The student does not answer again, so the professor repeats his question. 'Who created them?' There is still no answer.. Suddenly the lecturer breaks away to pace in front of the classroom. The class is mesmerized. 'Tell me,' he continues onto another student.
'Do you believe in Jesus Christ, ?
The student's voice betrays him and cracks. 'Yes, professor, I do.'
The old man stops pacing. 'Science says you have five senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Have you ever seen Jesus?'
'No sir. I've never seen Him.'
'Then tell us if you've ever heard your Jesus?'
'No, sir, I have not.'
'Have you ever felt your Jesus, tasted your Jesus or smelled your Jesus? Have you ever had any sensory perception of Jesus Christ, or God for that matter?'
'No, sir, I'm afraid I haven't.'
'Yet you still believe in him?'
'Yes'
'According to the rules of empirical, testable, demonstrable protocol, science says your God doesn't exist. What do you say to that, ?'
'Nothing,' the student replies. 'I only have my faith.'
'Yes, faith,' the professor repeats. 'And that is the problem science
has with God. There is no evidence, only faith.'
The student stands quietly for a moment, before asking a question of His own. 'Professor, is there such thing as heat?'
'Yes.'
'And is there such a thing as cold?'
'Yes, , there's cold too.'
'No sir, there isn't.'
The professor turns to face the student, obviously interested.
The room suddenly becomes very quiet. The student begins to explain.
'You can have lots of heat, even more heat, super-heat, mega-heat, unlimited heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat, but we don't have anything called 'cold'. We can hit up to 458 degrees below zero, which is no heat, but we can't go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold; otherwise we would be able to go colder than the lowest -458 degrees.'
'Every body or object is susceptible to study when it has or transmits energy, and heat is what makes a body or matter have or tran smit energy. Absolute zero (-458 F) is the total absence of heat. You see, sir, cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat we can measure in thermal units because heat is energy. Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it.'
Silence across the room. A pen drops somewhere in the classroom, sounding like a hammer.
'What about darkness, professor. Is there such a thing as darkness?'
'Yes,' the professor replies without hesitation. 'What is night if it isn't darkness?'
'You're wrong again, sir. Darkness is not something; it is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright light, flashing light, but if you have no light constantly you have nothing and it's called darkness, isn't it? That's the meaning we use to define the word.'
'In reality, darkness isn't. If it were, you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn't you?'
The professor begins to smile at the student in front of him. This will be a good semester. 'So what point are you making, young man?
'Yes, professor. My point is, your philosophical premise is flawed to start with, and so your conclusion must also be flawed.'
The professor's face cannot hide his surprise this time. 'Flawed? Can you explain how?'
'You are working on the premise of duality,' the student explains.. 'You argue that there is life and then there's death; a good God and a bad God. You are viewing the concept of God as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, science can't even explain a thought.'
'It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing. Death is not the opposite of life, just the absence of it. 'Now tell me, professor. Do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?'
'If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, young man, yes, of course I do.'
'Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?'
The professor begins to shake his head, still smiling, as he realizes where the argument is going. A very good
semester, indeed.
'Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor, are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you now not a scientist, but a preacher?'
The class is in uproar. The student remains silent until the commotion has subsided.
'To continue the point you were making earlier to the other student, let me give you an example of what I mean.'
The student looks around the room. 'Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the professor's brain?' The class breaks out into laughter.
'Is there anyone here who has ever heard the professor's brain, felt the professor's brain, touched or smelled the professor's brain? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established rules of empirical, stable, demonstrable protocol, science says that you have no brain, with all due respect, sir.'
'So if science says you have no brain, how can we trust your lectures, sir?'
Now the room is silent. The professor just stares at the student, his face unreadable.
Finally, after what seems an eternity, the old man answers. 'I guess you'll have to take them on faith..'
Now, you accept that there is faith, and, in fact, faith exists with life,' the student continues.. 'Now, sir, is there such a thing as evil?'
Now uncertain, the professor responds, 'Of course, there is. We see it everyday It is in the daily example of man's inhumanity to man. It is in the multitude of crime and violence everywhere in the world. These manifestations are nothing else but evil.'
To this the student replied, 'Evil does not exist sir, or at least it does not exist unto itself. Evil is simply the absence of God. It is just like darkness and cold, a word that man has created to describe the absence of God. God did not create evil. Evil is the result of what happens when man does not have God's love present in his heart. It's like the cold that comes when there is no heat or the darkness that comes when there is no light.'
The professor sat down.
The student was Albert Einstein. Albert Einstein did write a book titled God vs. Science in 1921...
If you read it all the way through and had a smile on your face when you finished, mail to your friends and family with the title "God vs. Science".
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Long ago.... was it a paradox? is it a Paradox?
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Posted:Apr 20, 2014 5:47 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2014 4:48 am 18463 Views
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People made relationship without the high focus which exist today on status, money and material things.
Long ago even the women did not allow their looks to get in the way of building a relationship. Today, women with good looks seem to have a silent mandate to hold out waiting for a combination of wealth, material things and status.
Time moves on and age will do what age will do. some don't grasp that truth.
By the 40's nature is making some amazing changes within the individual, by 45 those changes many times seem to speed up and before some know it they are without a choice but to face the changes. Many are not prepared for it, because they have been holding out for a dream sequence so long, until they actually forgot how to love and share loving. It's really an oddity in life, because many times during the 40's women get this confidence but it borders on over confidence until they fell often times that they are smarter and better than any man. This delusion has its price. Time delivers it's bill without fail.
A guy who lived across from me in LA, said it is better for people to build their relationship before 32, then they not only have time to raise and build a life, but they have a opportunity for longevity.
Principally those things are probable factors, but today, people jump relationships so much and by the age of 40 some have had three or maybe even 4 marriages. but they never stop to realize they may be chasing an illusion more than facing up to the reality of live and relationships and what it takes to make it work.
Many fantasies have been groomed into many people. Often times pretty women are told too often some delusion that they deserve more, and sadly some fall for that, which renders them mate-less or unable to maintain a relationship. Sadly, some began to believe it to the point they assume they are too good for anyone.
The human being and the mind is an amazing thing, it can delude as well as it can motivate with positive results. But one has to find the grounding point in their lives and realize, beyond all things, they are but a living being, thus they are not infallible in any area, nor do they have an immunity to various calamities and unfortunate things. Be it health, or situations and conditions.
At no time is there a guarantee of anything except the fact that as each day pass we will age. That is a fact.
We see today many entertainer who got hung up on how they looked at their high point of their career during youth, they inject their faces with any substance the doctors claim will give them youthful longevity, yet as time moves on part of their face won't move when they smile, and in a great many cases, their mouth no longer forms the shapes of normal expressions.
We see people with their skin pulled tight on their face, but their hands and their neck tells the facts of life and age effects upon the human body.
Sadly, people assume sex is for the barter in relationships and that results to make not only foolishness within them, but of them and their relationship, which suffers as a result. some assume money is the magic potion, and some result to have vast amounts of money but a miserable relationship in their life.
Some seek stardom and popularity and as time moves along, there is a new starlet and popularity wanes and they have little left to hold on to.
We've become a strange society of high focused selfish concerns, yet we claim and say how sharing and how congenial we are, but the facts tell much of a different story. Men now are more afraid than ever to invest himself in marriage, so many have been left, their resources taken and their lives shattered by broken relationships, until many men simply are skeptical of women and has lost so much of the natural trust of which men at one time gave to women without much question or forethought.
Long ago, people kept it simple. they understood the relation required a form of work by each other them and they understood it had to be a team effort.
Today, that is so far removed from many situations, as today people make themselves their individual star in their minds, until nothing of loves reality is good enough.
Long ago, was long ago and its gone... what change shall come to bring a re-learning of what it means to lives and share the life in relation with another. ?
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internet security
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Posted:Apr 19, 2014 6:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2014 3:18 pm 17014 Views
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I guess the heartsbleed virus has pushed the issue that passwords must be changed on practically everything.
I detest these criminals who want to gain something by ripping other people off. I think they are among the lowest of the human spectrum. I don't like people who are abusers, user and greedy and driven by avarice. I flat out don't like them in or around my life.
People who use the Internet for scams, lying and pretending is a sad bunch of individuals. There is no reason they can justify what they do that is acceptable to me. They are plain and common thieves.
THIEF: one that steals especially stealthily or secretly; also : one who commits theft or larceny
Exodus 22:1-31
“If a man steals an ox or a sheep, and kills it or sells it, he shall repay five oxen for an ox, and four sheep for a sheep. If a thief is found breaking in and is struck so that he dies, there shall be no bloodguilt for him, but if the sun has risen on him, there shall be bloodguilt for him. He shall surely pay. If he has nothing, then he shall be sold for his theft. If the stolen beast is found alive in his possession, whether it is an ox or a donkey or a sheep, he shall pay double. “If a man causes a field or vineyard to be grazed over, or lets his beast loose and it feeds in another man's field, he shall make restitution from the best in his own field and in his own vineyard.
Matthew 18:15-17
“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.
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Life and Health- Relationships and Life Challenges=Reality
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Posted:Apr 18, 2014 5:33 am
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2014 4:04 pm 17378 Views
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many people talk about many fantasy romance things, but one thing is a fact, the gift one has in life is, Health. If we understood that more, maybe there would be less focus on all these people tripping on "romantic fantasy" as if their only concern is for someone to "swoon over them with ego stroking flatter and acting like a overly obsessive compulsive foolish person".
People even throw relationships away because they don;t get others to swoon over them like some obsessively compulsive addict chasing a fix".
I think for those who are lost in that fantasy, and overly exaggerated about their self adulation over their face and body, should spend some time and learn about the value of "sharing". Many seem to have a selfish concept of what it means. The other area is "health", peace of mind, compassion, care and concern for and about others, People are so obsessing about their sexual aspects of themselves and the games of lure they like to use it to play and manipulate. All the while unaware and ignorant to the fact "health" matters can make all of that secondary, as well as man other things can take a center stage in the whole of what makes up life and relations. There is work, home, family matters, personal aspirations, and a whole list of what make up the whole of living.
Maybe that is what it may take for some to get over themselves, and learn to share as person to person, individual to individual and get over their vanity about their looks , the shape of their butt, and the delusions they can barter themselves like some commodity, always chasing the highest bidder.
Some of the smartest people are those who built their relationship early and stuck with it over the span of time. They are far wiser than these 'relationship bouncers, who jump from one to the next, as if they are seeking a perpetual ass-kisser. For men, that is the type of woman to avoid at all cost. For a woman, that is the most foolish and ignorant mentally consumption a woman can adopt about herself.
I've written much about this, but it often fell of deaf ears, and was often disregarded, especially by the women who think the fact of being female and that organ between their legs delude them to think they can have and control anything or anyone, until time continues to prove to them how foolish that premise of thought truly is.
Our thoughts and actions affect our over-all self, which includes our health, therefore, it is a wise thing to be one who learns what it is to "share" and how very different that is from seeking someone to become compulsively obsessing over you, or you compulsively obsessing over someone.
Today, its a sad situation, when men can't trust women to have any heart to stick with anything. It's a very sad reality when women live like a commodity as if they have placed material aims and money gains and status title above being even women who are capable of sharing love. It's sad when men don't have the sense of trust in women, because of the ways so many women seek material elements long before they will entertain their own heart to pursue and share love.
One poster made a post about, dealing with an aging mate. This is a reality whether people are the same age or with a wide age spread. Health will have a say in the relations at some point, either hers or his, or maybe both.
Therefore it is wise for people to learn to see more in the other than their erogenous appetites. We see often are afflicted with various ailments, we see accidents happen, and in this day and age, we've seen people injured in terror attack like what happen in Boston last year, along with many tragedies around the world.
Now ask yourself, what will you do if you or your mate has a health challenge to become a change factor in your relationship. If you have not built love based on something other than material, erotic enticement focus and facial looks and body shapes, you won't be able to cope, because you are unprepared and have not built enough foundation within your relationship.
For some what will you do if you have a that requires special care.
Then there are other things, which afflict women, and thing which afflict men, in the sexual areas and functions, Then how will you factor those realities in your life.
Marlo Thomas, who is married to Phil Donovan, said yesterday on a show, that when sex is good, it is only maybe 35% of the relationship, but when its bad, it become 80% of the relationship. because then, the person can't think about anything but the sex, which makes it even worst for the relationship.
These are interesting things, One poster chronicled a trip to meet a potential and found the person had some health issue, which included the sexual function, suddenly, that became a very determining factor, along with other elements. So, in people dealing with people with the concept of mate in mind, they may well prepare themselves to care about the person, not the things many fantasize about. Because life is of many things and non can predict anything.
A woman I work with, was discussing relationships, and as she said, over time, what matters is "companionship". she has 3 and divorced, Her conversations if often about her time invested in the and their actives and their growth challenges, I see couples who have many challenges within their physical relationship, some have financial challenges and some have other types of challenges, but they seem to have a connection with each other that is strong than these challenges. many of them are older couples, I don't think many of the young women today have what it takes to build those type of relationships today. some may have it, but I'd think they were in the minority volume. This may well be true for many men today as well.
Media has told people and showed them images of fiction, rather than depictions of life's real truths and challenges.
Those who have the grace of good looks and shapely bodies, don't let it delude you to think it will last forever, nor that it means you can spend and waste time expecting those things to give you accessibility to someones money or material things. It might be to your advantage to trip less about that and be more concerned about how good of a person you can be, and how honest you can be in learning the real value of sharing. It might be to your advantage to not think looks and ass will grant you some special wish, because many have found themselves in the middle of a nightmare they can't extract themselves from, by being deluded by their own consumption with their looks and the shape of their butts.
Those who go into relationships, trying to control and regulate the other, will find as always themselves driving themselves crazy with conjecture and tactical devise, which will deplete them in many ways, including health, and may well infect their mind with a sense of becoming jaded and loose a sense of value and sensitivity to continue learning how to care and share.
Remember its not about how many things you have in your house, or how many clothes in your closet or how much money in the bank, or how shapely your butt is or how pretty your face is... Its always about how good of a person you are and how sincere you are in the integrity honoring of your relations.
These things will include your health, your sense of charity, your sense of compassion and certainly it will involve your awareness to learn to be understanding.
You might find, with these things in tact, it probably won't be so difficult to find a suitable mate.
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