Love comes ... always gently
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Posted:Mar 4, 2011 7:53 pm
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We may many times build defenses against loving, we practice so deeply how to deny love, until we subliminally find many times more reasons to avoid the engagement which breed and give the breath unto loving.
Unfortunately in this life, one cannot be afraid of loosing in one areas of life and expect love to blossom in another areas. Love walks in freely where there is the openness of heart and the free-ness of mind to engage its presence.
A simple smile can turn a lifetime into an adventure of love, a laugh may light a heart to burn with an eternal flame within its passion. We can always amaze ourselves with the powers within the simplicity of love. Being one with joy, love becomes like the honey bees seeking our the bright flowers in the field. they may go great distance, to gather the nectar, always to make the sweetness of honey.
Becoming of the knowing, that within the task of loves labors, it may well evolve into a loving journey of a million passions. The senses are heightened into the realm of, attentions sensitivity. We become aware, of loves presence in dynamic reverberations within our heart, thus encompassing our soul with vibrations which stir loves expressions.
We shall find no Saint, nor will we engage an Angel, but truly we may find an individual who's beauty may well inspire the honesty of a Saints heart and share with us the gentle passions of an angels grace.
Beauty has a way of showing itself within the present of any individual, it sprang always to overcome what the eyes may see, but always within the realm of love it comes to see within the spirit which give life into the realism of each other.
Hearts can find unity when faces seem to not match what the public may assume, for what is love, surpasses all that an eye may gather, but can never over fill what a heart can contain... it simply spills over into the whole of another and flows between each other.
How might we grace the truth which we are, lest we love... how may we honor the creator of our being, lest we sharing what is loving within our daily living.
"Things", of physical composure may at times distribute and many times may even distract, they may well attract, but can cause one unto another to attack. Therefore, be of care what power unto things, one gives, it may become that which strips from one the beauty a heart may live, and deny one the love another may feel to share and give.
Let not the glow of charm, become a path to a spirits harm, nor let the design of the body delude and, thus cause one to find it is love, they exclude.
Learning loving is the chore which involves the whole of our lives, we get not the beauty within the engagement of the lessons, lest we love.
Find within living the many ways, of simply expressing the realism of "I love", it may return as someone saying too, I love, you. And so, much may become multiplied within your living engagements. One must equally learn to see love, even when the storm clouds bring thunderous showers, for the sun follows as does the spring flowers.
We may many times build defenses against loving, we practice so deeply how to deny love, until we subliminally find many times more reasons to avoid the engagement which breed and give the breath unto loving.
Unfortunately in this life, one cannot be afraid of loosing in one areas of life and expect love to blossom in another areas. Love walks in freely where there is the openness of heart and the free-ness of mind to engage its presence
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How not to collude business
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Posted:Mar 4, 2011 6:53 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2011 6:55 pm 9162 Views
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Never go on attack and especially attacking people, whom you have no ideas whom they are, nor what their capability is. And certainly do not go out and seek to become like "a shark", in the open waters of business climates.
There are more things in the seas of life than one is ever fully aware of.
Even in this world, being surrounded by water, one can die of thirst.
Give attention unto learning how to discern the variables:
* if one is of fresh water habitat, know that being in salt water can be deadly;
* if one is of salt water habitat, know that being in fresh water can be deadly
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BE YOURSELF!
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Posted:Mar 3, 2011 5:47 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2024 6:37 pm 8981 Views
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Written by a 90 year old
This is something we should all read at least once a week!!!!!
Make sure you read to the end!!!!!!
Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland ,
Ohio .
"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught
me.
It is the most requested column I've ever written.
My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once
more:
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and
parents will.
Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their
journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God
never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one
is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no
for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie.
Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years,
will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you
did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,
we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come...
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
In a world where YOU can be anything......BE YOURSELF!
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Scientists have made a surprising discovery
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Posted:Mar 2, 2011 4:34 pm
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PARIS (AFP) – Scientists have made a surprising discovery: The more options you have for choosing a lover, the likelier you are to end up with no-one.
British investigators, in a new study released on Wednesday, looked at the strange dynamics of choice in speed-dating, a fashionable way for singles to meet.
Speed-daters race through a rota of one-on-one meetings, judging each person for suitability after a conversation of a few minutes that ends when a bell sounds.
Assessing large numbers of candidates was not a problem in itself, the researchers found.
In fact, many speed-daters found more potential partners when they were able to cast their net into a larger pool.
But this advantage only worked when the available candidates were all broadly similar.
When candidates were too dissimilar, speed-daters became confused by many conflicting factors -- and often failed to choose anyone.
"There are models of human 'rationality' which posit that variety is a good thing," said researcher Alison Lenton at the University of Edinburgh in Scotland.
"What will be surprising to some people is that our results suggest that increasing option variety leads to chooser confusion. People are more likely to choose no-one at all when faced with greater variety."
The study, published in the British journal Biology Letters, tracked 1,868 female and 1,870 male participants at 84 commercial speed-dating events.
Hopeful singles gave details of their occupation, education level, age, height, weight and religious affiliation, allowing researchers to gauge differences.
The women's mean age was 34.3 years and men were aged 35.6. Twenty percent of women and 27 percent of men were in professional or managerial positions, and the remainder classified themselves as "skilled non-manual" or other occupations.
Speed-daters met in groups and engaged in three-minute encounters with between 15 and 31 singles of the opposite sex.
After the event, the organiser matched up individuals who indicated a mutual interest in each other, thus opening the way to a possible date.
Big speed-dating events typically generated 123 such "proposals," or shows of interest, when candidates were similar, the researchers found. But the number dropped by more than a quarter, to 88, when candidates were varied.
Small speed-dating events would lead to 85 proposals when candidates were similar. But this fell by nearly a third, to 57 proposals, when candidates were varied.
Men were generally keener than women in formulating a proposal -- but were also likelier to be stumped by choice.
In short, variety is fine... but in manageable doses.
"Dealing with variety requires attention and memory, and we have only so much capacity for each," Lenton explained in an email with AFP.
Extending encounters by 10 minutes might not greatly change results, she said.
"It is extremely common for us to make quick judgments about other people, even in a matter of seconds. And once those judgments are formed, they can be difficult to change."
Amber Soletti, who runs a speed-dating company in New York, said grouping singles by interest or physical preferences boosted chances of a successful connection.
Her company,offers 75 niche groups, such as "Asian Persuasion," "Fitness Singles" and "Worldly Singles" who like to travel.
Soletti started the company after failing to find anyone of interest at general speed-dating events.
"I only like to date men 6-foot-1 (1.85 metres) and taller. I always went to single events that had shorter men, so I didn't find anyone," she said by phone.
But now, "If I go to our tall event, I have a better chance of meeting someone," she said.
"People know what they like."
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illegal baby breeding ring
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Posted:Feb 27, 2011 7:20 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2024 6:37 pm 8575 Views
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BANGKOK (AFP) – The fate of around nine unborn hangs in the balance as Thai authorities weigh what to do with the offspring of Vietnamese women freed from an illegal baby breeding ring in Bangkok.
A total of 14 women, half of them pregnant, were freed on Wednesday from an operation using them as surrogates for wealthy childless couples overseas who placed orders for newborns online.
Campaigners fear for the future of the infants who are born to desperate women -- perhaps not their biological mothers -- and into a legal grey area, with Thailand still mulling the ramifications of the case.
"There is a risk that those might end up as stateless, that they won't get citizenship anywhere," said Benedict Phillips, Asia strategy director at Save The .
Public Health Minister Jurin Laksanawisit has described the gang, which operated under the name Baby 101, as "illegal and inhuman" and suggested some of the women had been .
A few were offered up to $5,000 per baby, but others said they had been tricked into the scam, said police, who have arrested four Taiwanese, one Chinese and three Myanmar nationals in connection with the operation.
One 35-year-old Taiwanese woman was arrested on suspicion of human trafficking.
In Thailand couples can only use a surrogate if she is a blood relation and is not paid.
The seven pregnant women are currently staying at a shelter north of Bangkok.
"They are between 12 weeks and eight months pregnant and we found two of the women were carrying twins -- 20 weeks and eight months old," said Paskorn Chaivanichsiri, director of a state-run hospital where they have been treated.
Two have requested abortions, although the procedure is only legal under Thai law in cases of or where the mother's health is at risk.
Phil Robertson of New York-based Human Rights Watch said Thailand had "excellent" social care, but stressed victims should be able to decide their own future.
"The women should be allowed the time to get over the shock and get their heads straight about what they want to do. They might not want to go back with another mouth to feed," he said.
Authorities want to send the women to Vietnam along with the babies, said police Colonel Chalermpol Jintarat of the immigration department, after a top level meeting with health officials on Friday.
Negotiations with Vietnamese officials are due to be held on Monday.
"To ascertain that the baby is not related to the mother, we have to have a DNA test, which we need to discuss with the Vietnamese embassy first," he said.
Phillips said Thailand has taken steps to protect the offspring of its many illegal migrants, but these are not given Thai nationality and are largely excluded from the country's health care system.
"It is an extreme example of a much more common phenomenon of undocumented migrants who flee to escape poverty and find themselves without the protection of the law," he said.
Nearly 40 women, who are identified only by a numbered code, are pictured on a website, www.baby-1001.com, believed to be run by the gang.
The "eugenics" surrogacy service, from egg and sperm to the delivery of a baby, is advertised for $32,000 and appears to be aimed at Taiwanese customers.
Offices were listed in Bangkok, Phnom Penh in Cambodia and Vietnam.
"These four governments should be cooperating to smash this ring," Robertson said.
Taiwan's Criminal Investigation Bureau had not been contacted by Thailand over the case when reached by AFP. Surrogacy is banned in the country but there have been reports of men paying foreign women to have their .
Last May, police said three Taiwanese men had been arrested for illegally hiring Uzbek women as mothers for four babies because they thought mixed blood were "cute".
In the upmarket Bangkok suburban housing estate, with manicured lawns and 24 hour security, there were a few people still working in an office at the modest house where police found nine of the Baby 101 women.
On the walls, among posters of Caucasian babies, hung lists of Vietnamese names, more than 20 in total. A whiteboard, written mainly in Mandarin, carried the English words "Ken's friend come" and what appeared to be a date in March.
"There were eight or nine Vietnamese women here. They came to Thailand because the medical service is better than their country," said a man, who did not give his name and claimed to be a translator. But he admitted none of them was pregnant when they arrived.
Down the street a second property, where another four women were found, was closed and quiet.
Two doors away, a house name plate suggested they may have been living within shouting distance of a policeman.
by Kelly Macnamara Sat Feb 26, 11:06 pm ET
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Women's health matters
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Posted:Feb 26, 2011 5:47 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2024 6:37 pm 9555 Views
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CHICAGO – Hot flashes that bedevil many women in menopause might actually be a good thing, depending on when they strike, according to new data from a long-running government study.
Women who had hot flashes at the start of menopause but not later seemed to have a lower risk for heart attack and death than women who never had hot flashes, or those whose symptoms persisted long after menopause began.
By contrast, among the few women who developed hot flashes late — in some cases many years after menopause began — there were more heart attacks and deaths when compared with the other groups.
The research involved more than 60,000 women followed for an average of almost 10 years. It's the first to examine timing of menopausal symptoms and subsequent risks for heart problems and deaths, said co-author Dr. JoAnn Manson, chief of preventive medicine at Harvard's Brigham and Women's Hospital.
Recent studies linked hot flashes with higher blood pressure and cholesterol levels, which could suggest a higher risk for heart problems, but the new research offers a more detailed look, Manson said.
Lead author Dr. Emily Szmuilowicz, an endocrinologist with Northwestern University's medical school, said the results should reassure millions of women who experience hot flashes or night sweats, which are essentially hot flashes that can be bothersome enough to awaken women.
The results suggest "there may be a positive side" to having these annoying symptoms, Szmuilowicz said.
The study was released online Thursday in the journal Menopause.
Dr. Elsa-Grace Giardina, a Columbia University specialist in women's heart disease who was not involved in the study, said the research has several limitations and that more rigorous study is needed to prove the results.
Few women developed hot flashes long after menopause began, and for at least some, previous use of hormone pills may have increased their risks for heart problems, Giardina said.
But more than one-third of the women with late-onset symptoms never used hormones, and Szmuilowicz said the researchers took past hormone use into consideration and still found timing of symptoms played a role.
Menopause occurs when women stop having periods and estrogen levels dwindle. Most women experience symptoms including hot flashes that can last for several years. But they don't usually persist indefinitely or begin long after the beginning of menopause.
Hot flashes aren't well studied but are thought to result from blood vessels dilating in response to the normal hormone fluctuations of menopause, Manson said. If they occur long after menopause begins it could signal a blood vessel abnormality that could also affect the heart, she said.
The research involved 60,027 women from the ongoing Women's Health Initiative observational study, examining disease risk factors and health outcomes and funded by the National Institutes of Health.
Women were in their early 60s on average, about 14 years past the start of menopause, when they answered questionnaires about their health, education history, and symptoms including hot flashes and night sweats. Cardiovascular problems and deaths were tracked during almost 10 years of follow-up.
More than one-third, or almost 25,000 women, had early symptoms — hot flashes at the onset of menopause that had stopped before they enrolled. Just 1,391 had late symptoms — hot flashes at enrollment but not at the start of menopause.
About 2.5 percent of women with early symptoms had heart attacks, compared with 3.4 percent of women with no symptoms and 5.5 percent of those with late symptoms. Also, about 6 percent of the early symptom women died, versus 11 percent of the late symptom group and 8 percent of the symptomless women. Women who had persistent hot flashes throughout menopause had risks similar to those without symptoms.
Giardina noted that high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes and obesity — which all can contribute to heart problems — were more common among the late symptom women.
But the researchers said they accounted for that and still found that timing of menopause symptoms played a role in later heart attacks and deaths.
By LINDSEY TANNER, Medical Writer Thu Feb 24, 7:11 pm ET
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Beyond the fancy of eroticisms feeling, are you willing to learn loving?
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Posted:Feb 25, 2011 6:54 pm
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2011 3:40 pm 9541 Views
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Are you stable... enough to love, within learning to love....
Many and most may say yes, but find there is many points of instability within the realism of our living. We want everything, and often appreciate far less than what we have.
We want to preserve ourselves for illusions within our minds, when reality walks right before us, with more beauty then we can often take the time to appreciate, because we look beyond it, until we find we can't see beyond our own illusions, and trouble ourselves with conflicts within our minds, looking for what we often ignore as it presents itself within our reality.
How swiftly do you fade into and out of "like for someone", some trip when one says what they don't like in the flash of an instance, and reshape their who concept of another, and some continue to do it in cycles, which reflects and presents a instability in their ability to be stable in regard of another, or others.
One has to look for the heart, which they might learn to understand the spirit; one has to look to understand the spirit, that they may encompass the expanse within the heart.
Yes, life goes both ways, and is often a two way street, many try to travel as if it's a one lane, one direction pathway.
Every line drawn goes in two directions. Every point drawn has the capability to connect to a multitude of directions. Yet. we try so often to live in the boxed frame, contained within our concepts until we blind our-self from the precepts, which come in many captions of presentations.
Shall we learn to learn, and we may find we also become capable of loving. Shall we make effort to be loving, and we come to find we love to learn and learn more of love.
The music starts and ends with a beat, it flows with a rhythm, and find pause within the flow of rhythms, yet they may stutter and stammer and count cadence in a variety of repetitions, yet, it progresses with the melodies which wraps around the count.
We may care to know what makes stability, and many may learn to build friendships, we may gather that friendships made with a sense of stability develop the capability to endure. and one may find there is an awareness of what is stability, becoming the longevity within what a friendship becomes.
How might we gather our truths? a question of many questions, and within the inquiry, one may find how they experience living, thus within doing so, they come to learn, and love shows them what there is to understand, which brings even more to learn, and loving bonds the learning with the passions to learn even more.
The question born of an answer and answers which sprang from questions and one thus becomes to engage the expounding with makes the ways of communication, and interactive exchange.
One may then learn the simple beauty within laughter…
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making relations
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Posted:Feb 24, 2011 4:42 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2011 7:06 pm 9895 Views
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Its rather easy to meet people, but getting to know the individual is a different matter. Between the concepts people have of each other, and the reality which comes forth as being the realism of knowing each other.
Not always do people make that a smooth transition. it does take the work of expressions.
Unfortunately, not everyone has the self inspired motive to be expressive. Talking to some people is like pulling teeth, and some people make everything the biggest secret as if their life is lived in some secret cove in the middle of reality. 
Sometimes we as people make it more than it is, and sometimes we make it less than it has potential to be.
Life is such a things, we get no guarantee of tomorrow, but we make excuses why not to communicate today. valid or not valid we make them.
What do we believe and what do we choose, may not always be the same things, but in the process we can discover and learn in expanding our living experience.
No matter how we rate ourselves, nor how we may treasure ourselves, without the interactive function, we'd be no different than an invalid confined to a bed, in a comatose state.
We seem to be always in a twist saving ourselves for something, and so often we find time expires on many things, and sometimes even on our lives.
Today you live, it become more within what it is, when it becomes a shared experience.
Making relations....
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Stella Awards
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Posted:Feb 24, 2011 4:31 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2024 6:37 pm 9256 Views
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Stella Awards
It's time again for the annual "Stella Awards." For those
unfamiliar with these awards, they are named after 81-year-old Stella
Liebeck who spilled hot coffee on herself and successfully sued the
McDonald's in New Mexico , where she purchased coffee. You remember, she took
the lid off the coffee and put it between her knees while she was
driving.
Who would ever think one could get burned doing that, right?
That's right; these are awards for the most outlandish lawsuits and
verdicts in the U.S. You know, the kinds of cases that make you scratch
your head and say What was he/she thinking? So keep your head
scratcher handy.
Here are the Stellas for the past year...your call as to whether
they're true or not:
* SEVENTH PLACE *
Kathleen Robertson of Austin , Texas , was awarded $80,000 by a
jury of her peers after breaking her ankle tripping over a
who was running inside a furniture store. The store owners were
understandably surprised by the verdict, considering the running
was her own .
Start scratching!
* SIXTH PLACE *
Carl Truman, 19, of Los Angeles , California , won $74,000 plus
medical expenses when his neighbor ran over his hand with a
Honda Accord. Truman apparently didn't notice there was someone at the
wheel of the car when he was trying to steal his neighbor's hubcaps.
Scratch some more...
* FIFTH PLACE *
Terrence Dickson, of Bristol , Pennsylvania , who was leaving a
house he had just burglarized by way of the garage. Unfortunately for
Dickson, the automatic garage door opener malfunctioned and he
could not get the garage door to open. Worse, he couldn't re-enter
the house because the door connecting the garage to the house locked
when Dickson pulled it shut. Forced to sit for eight, count 'em,
EIGHT days and survive on a case of Pepsi and a large bag of dry dog
food, he sued the homeowner's insurance company claiming undue mental
anguish. Amazingly, the jury said the insurance company must
pay Dickson $500,000 for his anguish. We should all have this kind
of anguish. Keep scratching .. There are more......
Double hand scratching after this one.....
* FOURTH PLACE *
Jerry Williams, of Little Rock , Arkansas , garnered 4th Place
in
the
Stella's when he was awarded $14,500 plus medical expenses after
being
bitten on the butt by his next door neighbor's beagle - even
though
the beagle was on a chain in its owner's fenced yard. Williams
did
not get as much as he asked for because the jury believed the
beagle
might have been provoked at the time of the butt bite because
Williams
had climbed over the fence into the yard and repeatedly shot the
dog
with a pellet gun.
Pick a new spot to scratch, you're getting a bald spot..
* THIRD PLACE *
Amber Carson of Lancaster , Pennsylvania , because a jury
ordered a
Philadelphia restaurant to pay her $113,500 after she slipped on
a
spilled soft drink and broke her tailbone. The reason the soft
drink
was on the floor: Ms. Carson had thrown it at her boyfriend 30
seconds
earlier during an argument.
Only two more so ease up on the scratching....
*SECOND PLACE*
Kara Walton, of Claymont , Delaware, sued the owner of a night
club
in a nearby city because she fell from the bathroom window to
the
floor, knocking out her two front teeth. Even though Ms.Walton
was
trying to sneak through the ladies room window to avoid paying
the
$3.50 cover charge, the jury said the night club had to pay her
$12,000 ..... oh, yeah, plus dental expenses.
OK. Here we go!!
* FIRST PLACE *
This year's runaway First Place Stella Award winner was: Mrs.
Merv
Grazinski, of Oklahoma City , Oklahoma , who purchased new
32-foot
Winnebago motor home. On her first trip home, from an OU
football
game, having driven on to the freeway, she set the cruise
control at
70 mph and calmly left the driver's seat to go to the back of
the
Winnebago to make herself a sandwich. Not surprisingly, the
motor
home left the freeway, crashed and overturned. Also not
surprisingly,
Mrs. Grazinski sued Winnebago for not putting in the owner's
manual
that she couldn't actually leave the driver's seat while the
cruise
control was set. The Oklahoma jury awarded her -- are you
sitting
down? --- $1,750,000 PLUS a new motor home. Winnebago actually
changed their manuals as a result of this suit, just in case
Mrs.
Grazinski has any relatives who might also buy a motor home.
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Posted:Feb 19, 2011 4:47 am
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Based on your general experience in living
yes, personality matters, but we as human beings, place interpretations on the look than we often admit
(1). Do you notice in some cities the difference in who seems to be married and who seems to be single.
(2). Why do you think more women with what is called average looks seem to be in relationships, and even married. than the so called media model looks who are are not in relationships, and are not married ?
(3).Do you think the women who are considered average looking are more honest about love and more willing to love as being a reason?
(4).Do you think average looking women, or women who are full figured and or plump, are more of less 'generally" friendlier than those who are with media pretty imagery?
(5).Why do you think the women who are considered a bit full figured or even a bit plump are in relationships and many in long term relationships and marriages, seem to outnumber the women who are slim and shapely ?
(6).Do you think women who are considered average looking and or full figured are more capable and more willing to build relationships than those who are slim and with provocative bodies who revel in being like media promoted images of sex appeal?
(7).Which women are you more likely to generally trust with your heart and your money. (a) average looking woman (b) full figured woman. (c) plump average looking (d) full figured pretty faced (e) media pretty with media promoted image of sex appeal.
( . Which have you generally found to be more friendly? (a) average looking women (b) full sized women (c) Plump women (d) skinny women (e) facially pretty women (f) provocative body women
(9). which have you found to make the longest term friends and more stable friendships (a) average looking women (b) full sized women (c) Plump women (d) skinny women (e) facially pretty women (f) provocative body women
(10). Which type of woman have you found to be the most helpful, in general, be it workplace, daily living or in relationships (a) average looking women (b) full sized women (c) Plump women (d) skinny women (e) facially pretty women (f) provocative body women
I know many will say it does not matter, but it matters or there would not be jealously, mistrust and people being able to scam each other as such exist in life and living. there are people in life one can generally trust and those they have to build it slowly.
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