"What you've never had, you never miss
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Posted:Nov 4, 2010 4:38 pm
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A retired Canadian couple who won $11.3 million in the lottery in July have already given it (almost) all away.
"What you've never had, you never miss," 78-year-old Violet Large explained to a local reporter.
She was undergoing chemotherapy treatment for cancer when the couple realized they'd won the jackpot in July.
"That money that we won was nothing," her tearful husband, Allen, told Patricia Brooks Arenburg of the Nova Scotia Chronicle Herald. "We have each other."
[Rewind: Lottery winner hits jackpot...four times]
The money was a "headache," they told the paper--mainly, it brought anxiety over the prospect that "crooked people" might take advantage of them. Several people called them out of the blue to ask for money when the news first broke that they'd won the jackpot. So they began an $11 million spree to get rid of it and help others, the Chronicle Herald reports:
They took care of family first and then began delivering donations to the two pages' worth of groups they had decided on, including the local fire department, churches, cemeteries, the Red Cross, the Salvation Army, hospitals in Truro and Halifax, where Violet underwent her cancer treatment, and organizations that fight cancer, Alzheimer's and diabetes. The list goes on and on.
Violet told the Canadian Press that they retained about 2 percent of the money for a rainy day.
"It made us feel good," Violet told the Chronicle Herald. "And there's so much good being done with that money."
[Rewind: How a secretary made and gave away seven million dollars]
The Nova Scotia couple have been married more than 35 years and quietly saved up the money that Allen made as a welder and Violet made in retail before retiring.
"We haven't spent one cent on ourselves because we've been too busy getting everything looked after and with my health, I have to wait to get my health back to get the energy to do anything," Violet told the National Post. "We're not travelers anyway. We live in the country and we're proud of it. money can't buy you health or happiness."
Now their neighborhood is abuzz over their good deeds.
"People who know them just know that's the type of people they are—they're just happy to have each other," local restaurant owner Lori Hingley told the Canadian Press.
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Reality Factors
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Posted:Nov 2, 2010 5:09 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 1:54 pm 13717 Views
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posted, for those who can't see both sides of reality: "of fact, male and females are prone to the same kind of acts,
surely, some will deny this, as not being real-
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A 16-year-old girl and her boyfriend have been charged with murder after the 's father disappeared.
Police in Tucson, Ariz., were notified on Sunday night that Sanchez, 40, had been missing for 10 days. However, police said that "family members were led to believe that Mr Sanchez had left by choice."
Officers were called back to the home at around 2 a.m. on Monday and "received new information" that led them to launch a homicide investigation, police said.
A man's body was discovered with "obvious signs of trauma" in a desert area at around noon on Monday. However, police said they had been unable to confirm the victim's identity due to the condition of the body.
The missing man's Sanchez, 16, and her 19-year-old boyfriend Coronado were later arrested and charged with first-degree murder, police said.
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guess we'll wait to see who deems the girl innocent... 
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A judge set a trial date Tuesday for a teenage girl who is accused of killing her mother with a claw hammer.
Bob Saxman
A young who wielded a claw hammer in a fatal attack learned her fate on Wednesday.
Scripps Ranch Heather was 14 when her adoptive mother, Rebecca , was killed on May 25, 2008. Prosecutors said in court that the 56-year-old woman was struck at least 15 times with the hammer in an attack at their home fueled by a mother- argument. Heather's father was also injured in the incident.
On Wednesday, Judge Michael Wellington sentenced the now-16-year-old to 16 years to life in prison.
The apologized in court prior to her sentence being pronounced.
Girl Accused of Killing Mom Appears in Court
"People always ask me why I did it," she said. "Honestly, I don't even know myself."
The day before the killing, Heather poured out feelings about killing her parents to a friend whom Rebecca caught having "sexual activity" with Heather in her 's bedroom, according to a San Diego police detective, starting a simmering mother- argument.
Source: Girl Who Killed Mom With Hammer Sentenced
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A 16-year-old eastern Texas girl was arrested Sunday along with three other suspects on charge of shooting to death her mother and two brothers for breaking up her romance, police said as quoted by local media Monday.
The 's dad, Terry Caffey, who is the only survivor, was shot in the head and was able to crawl to a neighbor's house.
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Evening of September 11th in a rental apartment in Zhongshan City (中山市沙溪镇云汉村) a man and a woman were killed and cruelly cut into pieces, the remains were still in the room. Until September 15th 8 am, their corpses were discovered by the landlord. Police came to the scene after receiving the call. They took the of the victims in for questioning. Police initial investigation stated that the killed both parents and cut them into pieces because her parents were going through a divorce.
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a pair of 16-year-old twin girls, with murder.
Conyers Police arrested the girls Friday following an investigation that began in January, when the girls' mother was found dead.
The two are charged as adults with the murder of Jarmecca W, who was found stabbed to death in her home on Jan. 13.
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China goes door-to-door for world's biggest census
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Posted:Nov 1, 2010 4:32 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 1:54 pm 13671 Views
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Unlike the U.S. census, where residents are asked to fill out and mail in forms in a yearlong undertaking, Chinese census-takers plan to speed up the process by going door-to-door asking people questions about their education level, family history, employment situation, and resident status.
One of the first to be counted Monday in Beijing was retiree Ren Shuanggeng, who flashed a big smile to welcome census takers into his apartment in central Beijing.
Two neighborhood surveyors decked out in census vests with identification badges spared no time in reeling off questions.
"How many years have you lived here? How many people live here? Where do your live? How old are they? How long have you been retired?"
Ren is one of more than 1.3 billion Chinese whom officials aim to question — a mammoth task considering the almost constant swirl of undocumented migrant workers on the hunt for better jobs.
Every census-taker covers about 80 to 100 households, where about 90 percent have to answer 18 questions about home ownership, jobs and family members, said Cai Jun, an official with the Beijing census committee. The other 10 percent, randomly selected, take an extended 45-question survey that seeks further information on reasons for moving, unemployment and other personal details.
"Going door-to-door allows us to be thorough so that we can survey migrant workers and others who may not have a permanent address in Beijing," said Cai.
This is the first year foreigners, plus people from Hong Kong and Macau, will be counted, said Cai. They will be required to answer only eight questions.
One of the biggest challenges is to document China's migrant or "floating population," which will show the government a better picture of the numbers in its giant cities.
About 140 million migrant workers work outside of their hometowns, according to a 2009 National Bureau of Statistics report, many of whom remain unregistered.
Under China's hukou household registration system, citizens are designated urban or rural. This means many migrant workers registered in their hometowns are denied access to government services in cities, including health care and education.
Census-takes could face difficulties getting migrant workers to share personal information if they are working in cities illegally or have given birth while residing in a city without proper documents.
Families with unregistered may also be reluctant to provide information. China has a one- policy and parents with born in violation of the rule are required to pay a hefty fine. To encourage people to come forward, those penalties will be reduced for families if they register their extra in the census.
This year, census takers vow to reach everyone.
Census-takers are expected to visit universities, factories and construction sites where migrant workers are living in temporary housing — with the goal of surveying millions of people who have migrated into China's urban centers and are often unaccounted for.
[Rewind: China boasts world’s fastest supercomputer ]
"We will go to factories, remote areas and universities to hold mass events so no one will be missed," Cai said. "It is our goal to cover everyone regardless of the challenges."
Preliminary work began in August with millions of census-takers knocking on doors to get basic information on residents and landlords, including names and telephone numbers.
Most of the 6 million census workers are employees of local district governments or members of neighborhood committees, which often consist of retired government employees, Cai said.
Increased privacy concerns present another hurdle this year. Although Ren was open to the census, citizens have also become less cooperative in sharing personal details as they become increasingly aware of their rights to privacy.
Census-takers are required to signed confidentiality agreements, but after years of reforms that have reduced the government's once-pervasive involvement in most people's lives, some Chinese may be reluctant to give up personal information, harboring suspicions about what the government plans to do with their details.
"Some people think asking these personal questions is an invasion of privacy, but I have nothing to hide," said Ren, who moved to Beijing more than 50 years ago from neighboring Hebei province.
The names and sometimes photos of census-takers are posted on neighborhood bulletin boards to help residents avoid scam artists who may pose as census-takers.
There have been no published predictions on how much China's population has grown in the last decade, but if it grew by just 1 percent a year, that would be an addition of 130 million people — or nearly half the population of the United States — in just 10 years.
The main data gathered during the census is to be released at the end of April.
( from news)
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Monitoring much..
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Posted:Oct 29, 2010 5:31 pm
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2010 7:45 am 14804 Views
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well, monitoring a program with a couple million$ is interesting, its amazing, first of all it must be crafted in a way to be monitored, as the receipts who rely on these program, are in dire need and those needs can be urgent. the groups of skilled professional who handle them are truly amazing people with depths and depth of compassion, but they are very hard task masters, to keep people on a progressive path. there is no such thing as 100%, but there is performance standards, and achievable progress in how it all plays out.
Interesting work, but very much with its own challenges, many skills learned over many years, come in handy. but at the same time, the development and design of other efficiency tools, is another twist in the mix, of training people to utilize them.
It's amazing in the world, how pay is distributed, but then there is the good will in efforts expended, that in some ways makes the balance, as at the end of the day, the efforts expended betters lives. and that is "priceless".
Good thing, I'm not at a age where I need a new car or status toys, and such things, and the oddity is, I see many people with lots of money, they may go places and dress well, or even drive ultra expensive cars. but in the long of it all, its still "just life"..
I remember when I owned two Porsche's, Benz, BMW and various other things, then the trip was which car to drive, and how to park them so they could be easily accessed. many things in the house, and not really time to deal with it, and all the closets full of clothes, many never worn, more watches than I had time to wear, and expensive ink pens, when most of the time I type on the computer.
Now, I look at all those things, and even as i discarded some of it, I remember, the task to do maintenance on this stuff. the extra time it took to secure it. and much else.
I see now many people with vast monies, but they can still only eat so much, they can only sleep in one bed at a time, and drive one car at a time, ( a second car is not bad, if it does not require maintenance) 
Well, all in all, what may matter is "peace with self"... and knowing the true value of being simply healthy.
Monitoring programs, shows that reality forefront daily, the news media shows how many stars implode, and how many wealthy people who have cycles upon cycles of bad relations, they may have all the trinkets and picturesque homes, and yet, they find misery as if they pursue it. What happens when the lights stop shining, and the media shows no interest, sadly, some implode again, even as they hold claim to wealth, some drown their lives in drink or drug it away, or can't break away from being the star of yesterday...
What a world... shelters and other goodwill, filled with clothes people stressed their lives out to buy, and the styles changed with the season, and they chase the stress again, and others come and buy it for pennies on the dollar, and treasure it still.
We may care deeply, to realize what matters, while we have the heath to enjoy and the ability and capability to share it.
If you hold on to love, looking for a title, or a status, or the illusion of a star, you may well, have given your life over to illusion, and forfeit much that your health and spirit misses to share while you can.
When the economy tanked, many people changed their lives, as time continues to show- value is, best being first "peace with self", and the passion to simply share it.
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stores continue to close...
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Posted:Oct 25, 2010 4:42 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2010 6:35 pm 13919 Views
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* American Eagle to close up to 100 stores
* Clothing retailers to close 116 stores
* Retailer to close 4 So Cal outlet stores
* Women’s retailer to close 3 O.C. stores at big malls
* Plus-size retailer to close up to 120 stores
* Forever 21 closes another O.C. store
* Men’s chain to close 100-plus stores
* Chico’s closes O.C. store
* Sears closes O.C. store 115000 sq ft facility.
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maybe, people will become more personal and interactive as people, when it continue to show, how the image standard is no longer able to be supported of the status presentation, and people get back to the basic's of truly relating as people, by the bare necessity which life is posing to many.
maybe we are finally seeing a decline of the late 1970's version of the 'shop-a-holic" mentality, who built their lives around , going to the Mall on Saturdays, or assuming that Saturdays stood for going shopping.
that cycle may well change, as people can't afford to play the game anymore.
it just might become a time, when people learn to become interactive again in society.
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Posted:Oct 24, 2010 8:54 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2010 6:39 pm 14569 Views
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Is everyone so 'desperate for "romantic sequences", until they have lost the sense of exploring the many variables that make up living ?
Yet hoping for remanence long past the time they have engaged active expression and interactive communication, to sustain the basic of simply learning to share and communicate about what is living and the things within it.
(It just might be why their romance fizzles" because they are so busy focused on trying to create or pursue some Shakespearean melodrama, or Ovid's eroticism and longings in some eclectic composition, before they can appreciate the realism within life and explore the expanse of what makes up the whole within living. )
which is in its simple truths, is simply a sharing within being alive, and learning to interact and appreciate what they can in doing so, and explore understanding, that they may find more to understand, thus encountering possibly more to appreciate.
It's crazy that adults, spend more time trying to create Cinderella stories, and Damsel in Distress, and playing the Sleeping Beauty, followed by living like by an inhibition filled Victorian styled denial mentality, seeking the imagery modeling of such a icon, who lived in denial of their own sexual and sensual reality, while pretending their natural sexual proclivities and its basic in realism does not exist.
The role playing can make many people perpetual pretenders, and habitual liars, even unto and with themselves.
The funny thing is, people do all they can to promote themselves with imagery of sexual appeal, and then deny that they have any sexual proclivities within their whole of self.
yet, these are adults...
The even further extent of this madness is, many of such adults claim education, and then act infantile when they meet the opposite sex, and go into pretentious denial mentality about as many aspects of their lives as they can conjure to covertly disguise with denials.
Even funnier in life, is everyone seeks out pleasure by some means, but many hold contempt that another might enjoy it, without them first getting compensated by some means.
Some seek promises of every sort, but are willing to promise nothing in return, yet, judge much by what promises they get to accept or reject, but never about what promises they are willing to expend the energy to be reciprocal to meet.
Self defeat-- and many wonder why love flees, when they omit to see how they chase it away, as well as how they defeat their own ability to express it, and in turn, the blame goes every place,but never looks within to discover understanding.
you know the answer within yourself, and facing it is your pathway to set yourself free to love, and accept being loved...
Otherwise, spin in despair, and claim what is in your view unfair...within loving,
and time will impose the effects of gravity, and all that comes with it, impacting the natural allure that is no more than a gift within youthfulness.. to assist where understanding is shallow, in attracting a mate
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An Addition within "RELATIONSHIPS"
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Posted:Oct 23, 2010 12:26 pm
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2010 4:24 am 14506 Views
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YES, it may well come a time, that people will need to give each other a 'warranty", when they agree to enter into a personal committed relationship"
A warranty is an assurance by one party to the other party that certain facts or conditions are true or will happen; the other party is permitted to rely on that assurance and seek some type of remedy if it is not true or followed.
'Get it in Writing" !!!!!!!!!!!!! beware, you also, have to give one in writing too..
Now, one may ask is a "Marriage License, a Warranty"  - or is it a "stated and implied Mutual use contract agreement" - that conveys a warranty, by the vows one express as an oral warranty, witnessed by an official, by its stature as being a license it serves both as a warranty which is a form of contract"
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"Buyer Beware"
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Posted:Oct 23, 2010 12:16 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 1:54 pm 13898 Views
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Everyday junk... its sold all over the place  it appears not to be junk when you think you need it, but some of it, if you buy it, and get home you find out just what a piece of junk it may be, or within a short time, we find out what a piece of junk it may become
marketing is a psychological ploy, to lure in the buyer, advertising shows what the options are which are available to consider, but "individual product research, can reveal what we really want, and if we are getting what will meet the needs we seek to be met, and then we look at quality and find out if the durability is there, to support the expected usage of what we select.
and beyond it all, there is no guarantee, there may be a 'warranty', but very little in the line of a guarantee.
"Buyer Beware"
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A warranty is an assurance by one party to the other party that certain facts or conditions are true or will happen; the other party is permitted to rely on that assurance and seek some type of remedy if it is not true or followed.
they claim to guarantee that the warranty is valid.
Some products come with a warranty promising repair or replacement for months, years, or life. In theory, one can return a product to the "dealer" for repair, but most stores that sell such products—and even the manufacturers—lack repair facilities.
In practice, a product that fails within a month can be exchanged for a new one under the store's guarantee; or a product that fails after the store guarantee expires but before the manufacturer's expires can be exchanged by the manufacturer — the store guarantee and the manufacturer's warranty are mutually exclusive.
There are exceptions: some companies—notably T*****a—actually repair products under warranty. Thomas tells how T*****a worked out an arrangement with UPS to handle warranty work: a customer, who had originally ordered a computer directly from the T*****a Website, can ship a malfunctioning computer to T*****a via UPS. In fact, it never reaches T*****a. Instead UPS maintains its own T*****a-computer repair shops. When UPS picks up the user's computer, it ships it to the UPS shop, where it is repaired, tested, and returned to the user within a specified timeframe.
An implied warranty is one that arises from the nature of the transaction, and the inherent understanding by the buyer, rather than from the express representations of the seller.
The warranty of merchantability is implied, unless expressly disclaimed by name, or the sale is identified with the phrase "as is" or "with all faults." To be "merchantable", the goods must reasonably conform to an ordinary buyer's expectations, i.e., they are what they say they are. For example, a fruit that looks and smells good but has hidden defects would violate the implied warranty of merchantability if its quality does not meet the standards for such fruit "as passes ordinarily in the trade"
A lifetime warranty is usually a guarantee on the lifetime of the product on the market rather than the lifetime of the consumer (the exact meaning should be defined in the actual warranty documentation). If a product has been discontinued and is no longer available, the warranty may last a limited period longer. For example, the C***o Limited Lifetime Warranty currently lasts for five years after the product has been discontinued.
A warranty is violated when the promise is broken; when goods are not as should be expected, at the time the sale occurs, whether or not the defect is apparent. The seller should honor the warranty by making a timely refund or a replacement. The sale starts the time under the statute of limitations for starting a court complaint for breach of warranty if the seller refuses to honor the warranty. This period is often overlooked where there is an "extended warranty" in which a seller or manufacturer contracts to provide the additional service of replacing or repairing goods that fail within the extended period. However, if the goods were defective at the time of sale, and the relevant statute of limitations has not expired, then existence or duration of any "extended warranty" is secondary: there was a breach of a primary warranty for which the seller may be liable.
For example, a consumer buys an item that was discovered to be broken or missing pieces before it was even taken out of the package. This is a defective product and can be returned to the seller for refund or replacement, regardless of what the seller's "returns policy" might state (with limited exceptions for second-hand or "as is" sales), even if the problem wasn't discovered until after the "extended warranty" expired. Similarly, if the product fails prematurely, it may have been defective when it was sold and could then be returned for a refund or replacement. If the seller dishonors the warranty, then a contract claim can be started in court.
Extended warranties are not usually provided through the manufacturer but are extended through independent administrators. In some circumstances it may work to the consumer's benefit having an assurance to the product from a company outside of place of purchase and/or service. For instance, when an auto warranty is provided through a car dealership, it's usually a sub-contracted warranty (often from the retailer with the lowest offer), where vehicle repairs are negotiated to a lower rate, often compromising the service, labor and parts to a lower standard. Many times these types of warranties require an unexpected out-of-pocket expense at the time of repair, such as: -unexpected services provided outside of the warranty terms -uncovered parts and labor rates -paying the full balance while a reimbursement is arranged through dealership/warranty claims offices. Some mechanics and dealer service centers might put off, or defer the needed repair until the dealership's warranty has expired so that their (in-house) warranty will no longer be bound to cover the cost of repair, or so that the ordinary (higher) shop rate will apply.
Whereas in the U.S. warranties are generally provided in writing subject to control of the laws, in other countries warranties may be governed by specific statutes. For example, a country's law may provide that goods are assured by the seller for a period of 12 months and may provide other specific rights and remedies in the event of a product failure. However, even in the U.S. there are specific laws that may provide warranties or warranty-like assurances to buyers. For example, many states have statutory warranties on new home construction, and many have so-called "lemon laws" governing new motor vehicles with repeated defects.
support info courtesy of wiki.. (end)
Remember, If companies made it to last, you'd never become a repeat customer, so be of the understanding that everything bought, has a life expectancy, and the warranty pretty much tells you what it is
after that, if you liked it, you become a repeat customer.
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... is love your dream fantasy, or do you live it as your reality ?
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Posted:Oct 23, 2010 5:44 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 1:54 pm 13891 Views
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Some build many fantasies about how they want to think about loving, some deny their ability to love, by waiting for a dream sequence of some perfect conditions, and some plan and craft and spend their time planning and crafting, and never engaging love.
Life is its own paradox unto many, who are unaware that "Love is ALWAYS a O.J.T. ( On Job Training),
Unless one can capture their emotions and those of another into a fixed and frozen mold, then they should realize that love is not to be contained, nor is it to be something that follows a fixed script of routine.
It will as its nature makes it, designed to encompass the whole of individuals, and to engage the ongoing changes in life, that is part of the experience of being alive and living in an interactive world.
If you think it should be a romantic fantasy then you had best be prepared to be a hard worker in the engagement of loving, or you just might find you dis-disillusioned yourself by expecting to be less than a hard working individual for love and within loving.
Dreams are always the process of "ongoing hard work"... Reality is the Hard work, unfolding into what seems like the making of dreams..
If you are not finding love, you may consider to ask yourself, if your expectations are higher than you actual efforts of working hard to make it so.
I doubt that you've ever seen what is called hard work, be without what makes it hard work, nor will love be what one wants it to be, without working hard to make it become so.
Whining because you did not get your way, or you did not get patronized to meet your expectations, may be what is destroying your aim of love, maybe you could learn that love is work, and work is love, and they make each other work..
Being timid and expecting to be pampered, will probably leave you without love, and then you will want to cast blame on everything but yourself.
Playing games of thinking you are owed something may be diminishing your ability to work hard, and your lack of hard work, may be the reason for your failure at loving.
Loving is ongoing work, and work is the ongoing building of love.
Are you up to the task, and do you have the fortitude to put in the work...
If not, you know then why you don't have love ....
Blame it not on another, but figure out how to become a hard worker for love, and love may bless you with the work to do, to keep love becoming more of love.
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Jobs
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Posted:Oct 23, 2010 5:09 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2010 12:35 pm 13701 Views
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There are many, and any type one can imagine. What really is the true matter in a job.. Is it the money, or the work one engages ?
Is it about the ethical performance, or about the pursuit to climb the ladder?
Does your labor create value, or do you spend the 8+hrs, just to maintain the accessibility to work, or the time spent to draw down a pay check.
Can you do your job with a smile from within yourself ? do you see what your work contributes to, or do you think your work takes away from your living aims ?
Are you an inspiration in your work environment ? Do you become a isolated body mass, performing in a void ? How do you see the value in what you do ?
Are you interactive with co-workers, or just feel that your job has nothing to do with them, and their job has nothing to do with you ?
Do you help people, both internal , and external ?
Do you think you have or do not have, the ability to change and influence policy, or process ? what is the progress potential you contribute, or do you think you contribute to progress, or do you just follow the routine?
Jobs... become the concentrated 1/3 of your living life, during working years, what habits do you engage, which impact the other 2/3 of your living experience.
If you spend 8hrs working, and 8 hrs sleeping, how much of your life do you think goes to your job ?
Would you say, 1/3 or less than 1/3, or more than 1/3?
Factor in how much travel time for work, how much preparation time goes into getting ready for work, how much after hrs time goes into your work, and how much drive time to get home from work, do you engage any work at home, attend work functions after hours, or travel as part of your work..
It just might sum up that much of our life is engaged in our work.
Now, when it comes to work, how much do you put up with that you would rather not / how much do you take on task that you'd rather not, how much do you bite your tongue, when you'd rather talk back, and how many attitudes do you deal with in the course of a work day - Now, ask yourself if you can tolerate this for the aim to get a paycheck, or to accomplish a goal.. then why is it when people claim to love someone, they are much quicker to say what they won't put up with, and how quick are they to walk away, and to talk back and lash out, when they don't like something or don't want to do something, or maybe are asked about doing something ??
Could it be the currency earned in a pay check makes people more tolerant, than the claim of love they say they feel within their relationship. if you go the extra mile at work, put in the extra house, and spend time daily with preparation to get to work, then what of preparations do you engage daily, to put your best forward in love, when you get the reprimand at work, why do you prepare to improve, where if you get a reprimand in love, you prepare to find reasons to leave.
When the jobs requires to you engage what you'd prefer not to, but you do it anyway, then why in your relationship, you fight your mate, when you have to do something you'd prefer not to.
Does money motive you more than love.
To get and maintain money, requires work, to get and maintain love, requires work... why do so many put limits on the work they will do for love, but they are more willing to go beyond those limits for money ?
you job can dismiss you in a flash, and leave you with nothing, love can dismiss you in a flash and leave you with nothing.
but do we see the relation between these variables, as to what each benefit us, but how so many are willing often times to be more tolerant of many things to keep the money flowing in, but how so many are so intolerant of many things, to keep love flowing in.
The truth of how you equate the distinctions, lives within you !!!!!
principals in living manner(s), may offer insightful understanding of and about ones ability and capability to make love work....
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