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Posted:Sep 1, 2010 6:15 pm
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Well, when it comes to shoes, there are a million thoughts about it. 'one is, many are not well made, nor are they made to last.
even the claimed brands which are suppose to denote quality, seem to have rushed to have a mass of China produced shoes, with layers of something, with a thin layer of leather, but the rest is something else.
The soles, are suppose to be leather, but the center thickness is missing. and they break down far too easy, as the bottoms become soft way beyond the time it should, if it was a good grade of leather, this simply would not happen..
Styles which I prefer, seem to be a bit more durable, and suitable for what I like, but it still takes some real considerations to look it over well.
some shoes "skim" on the inner sole quality, and that can take away from the comfort of the shoe.
But at least Men shoes are constructed better than women shoes, its unfortunate that women, get a piece of hard plastic, in a fixed shape, covered by anything from cloth to some faux leather, and other stuff attached to it. or a very pointed heel, that does not support any sideways wobble, or it may break, or she may break her own ankle, or get stuck in a grate on the sidewalk. 
it simply does not provide enough stability support, when it comes to the safety matters or the comfort matters. but women seem to find a way to manage and continue liking the fashions flair in their line of shoes.
With the craze of heels for women, it seems, more and more women as they age, discard them, and go for something that give her some support and comfort. but, who can say about women shoes, no matter what, they will buy and choose the trends of the times, and in some ways, comfort plays a second fiddle to styles and fashion attractions.
the mass of shoes, forces a short life span to shoes, based on style and everything else. They are not made to last. Especially those made for women.
Men can still choose and find shoes that are solid and durable, which still fit well with business attire, and business casual professional attire.
but what mattes, is up to the individual, although when I look at price and function, I'm glad I'm not a women by any means especially when it comes to shoes. they cost too much, for so little of material, and the life span of it, is even shorter.
Maybe its why many women have foot problems, back problems and leg problems as they age. but I guess that is the price of being fashionable in the day and age of the world as it is today.
Yes, there are many that look good on women, but goodness, imagine the cost... it has to be a very challenging situation.
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Executive Salary - The change is due
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Posted:Aug 29, 2010 8:41 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2010 6:05 pm 25496 Views
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When looking at the everyday reality of jobs, markets, customer service and meeting the production that keeps a nation moving, How does anyone justify a "Hired" Executive, making Millions upon 10's of Millions, and the people who perform, are paid so lowly.
As society learn more and more how to over-come the fear of thinking, the more aware people become, to see,and to recognize what they previously feared thinking about, or denied to consider, or felt it was useless to ponder, what they have long blinded themselves to see, and feared to think about.
Today, exposure and internet information is giving people more to think about, and as people now learn to get beyond brevity, to think of the details, then society become more aware, and think more deeply about the matters within life and how it affects and what effects things have on how communities, cities and people in general live.
The coming generation will be far more astute about such matters, and far more freer in their thinking to address such matters.
Young people are forced to live with more moderate concepts, and now understand better how to avoid the traps of opulence and opt for function and quality over, quantity and exaggerated excesses.
As the new age of young people mature, they will be far more astute investors, than the people of the past. who forked over their money with blind faith in men in suits. The Youth of today, see the reality of the Madoff's, the Stanfords, and the collusive mentality that dominates banking, as well as they are learning to be more aware and to learn to avoid the cycle of stock market over trading, which is no more than betting on the gamble of the trade, and the frequency of trade, they will learn to be more focused to paying attention to the actual products produced by the companies being traded, and how that product serves the consumer market.
It's taken many years to evolve to rational processes of change, which must be led by regulatory governance, that has to be vigilante in monitoring the activities, Global money, now mandates many checks within the system, after the loss of 2008, but there are yet, more to come, because the system was far too entrenched in corrupt activity, to wipe it out in the first wave of regulatory reforms, it will take more, but it may take a further crash, to bring that awareness to the focal point, to go deeper and more intricate with regulatory controls.
When billionaires began to think in terms of charity, to create social program for their gained wealth, it also brings the dynamic of reform within the mentality, which will 'trickle in", and alter the disposition of the current greed modeling.
It's taken hundreds of years, to reach this point, but the phase of change is already underway.
Early industry may have grown because the people who ran them, actually created and/or owned the industry, unfortunately, even in earlier times, as in present times, the value of the worker, who actually gets the job done, has always been the lowest factor within almost every kind of industry. but today, it has become an absurdity, that results to crash many companies, and run cities, communities, and individuals lives, all for the greed and malice of a few.
Mankind may well learn to not exalt mankind so high in industry, as the result continues to show, they wield power to destroy nations, by their acts of self interest. As they continue to make spike and crash, with eventual downfall upon downfall, while they erode the quality of products and services, in every commodity which exist. they take down cities, and nations, in their cycle of greed, unaware of their folly, nor do they have concern about their malice and mischief.
But "a world becoming a more wise world", is destined to become wise enough to force change.
-The future may well bring "Salary Caps" to the Executive Suites,and stripped down accessory compensations. This will probably usher in a time when quality goes up, rather than going down.
Once Executive are put in check. they won't be allowed nor will it be beneficial to them, to erode product quality and wipe out services, due to the desire for exaggerated compensation figures being paid to executives, along with their collusive efforts, of trying to make their stocks pay better, by producing cheaper and diluting markets with poor quality products.
There may be a big shift in how Executive Compensation is considered, when the new age of economic take hold and spread across the globe.
It make take wise investors, to call for caps on compensation and fixed salary, and diminish stock options as perks for the executives. Many are becoming wise, that companies are not ran in the ground by the worker, but by the executives, who make bad decisions, and pay themselves win loose or draw, excessive compensation.
They cut quality and raise their salary, they cut services, and raise their salary, they dilute the company value by awarding themselves millions upon millions of shares of stock. many sell out corporations, as a means to cash out, and run in search for another windfall of being bought in to another company, they work for a few years and sell it out, and cash in against.
The looser is always the general population and the workers, the customers, and the investors. maybe a time may come when the common person and worker becomes wise, and the investors open their eyes, and the consumer, demand quality for their dollars.
The days of the High Paid Executives is due to meet its change, as well as the excessive trading and bloating of commodities, that continue to correct and wipe out the average investor, of everything the day traders did not already strip away.
Smart companies, will manage their own stocks, "In-house", and strip away the volatility of the open markets, the funds they collect will go directly into the company, as assets and capital support for stability and growth.
The days of the paper shuffle games, may find it has outlived it's usefulness, and has become no more than a corrupt swindle game, played out on a global playing field.
Nations have lost, individuals have lost, retirement saving have been wiped out, and companies ran in the ground by traders, who have no vested interest in the companies they crash, or rob, and use as gambit profit grabs.
Canada showed how well it works, not to play the open markets, when it managed its real-estate markets by no joining in the international pool of inflate and grab the money, by deception rate playing games. which resulted to allow the value to be stripped from property, and only over inflated paper left as a result, which resulted into many empty properties littering the landscape.
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America's Most Dangerous Jobs
Fisherman
Courtesy of Wayne Magwood
Fatality Rate: 200 per 100,000
Median Wages: $23,600
The most perilous job in the U.S. is held by those who fish the waters in cold-weather states. Freezing water and icy boat decks can lead to horrific accidents, and storms can swamp small fishing vessels, sometimes claiming entire crews.
Compounding the danger is catch rules: By limiting fishing seasons, fisheries management creates a race to fish, according to the Environmental Defense Fund.
That forces fishermen out in dangerous weather and keeps exhausted crews on the water. In Alaska, the season for halibut and crab has been, at times, reduced to just three days.
Even warm-water fishers face hazards. Wayne Magwood has shrimped the waters off South Carolina for 40 years and says the biggest danger is heavy machinery, such as the power winches and cables that haul nets and other equipment.
"My dad taught me to keep my shirt tucked in," says Magwood. "Your clothes can get tangled up and you can get pulled overboard. One guy broke his neck recently."
Magwood also lost a friend when the crewman was answering nature's call and a sudden roll pitched him into the water.
Logger
Courtesy of Roger Smith
Fatality Rate: 61.8 per 100,000
Median Wages: $34,440
Logging takes an annual toll like few other occupations. The biggest hazard, according to Roger Smith of RL Logging in Olympia, Wash., comes from logging mountain slopes.
"You're working steep terrain with 70-degree, 80-degree grades with rocks and sliding logs," he says.
About half the time, he's taking down 60- to 70-year-old trees with trunk diameters of 30 inches or more. If not felled correctly, these can go crashing down slopes, rolling over anyone in their paths.
"A lot of the time, what gets cutters is if they don't see something," Smith says. "Like trees growing together or snags."
The old forest canopies often have those snags, which are big dead branches that break off and can fall erratically when the tree comes down. Loggers call them "widow makers."
Even after the trees are cut, the job of loading them can be tough.
"Somebody just got killed here last Thursday," he says. "He was running a harvester and one of the teeth of the chain broke off and went right through the bulletproof glass window of his cab."
Airplane Pilots
Courtesy of Heidi Ruess
Fatality Rate: 57.1 per 100,000
Median Wages: $106,240
When former Alaska Sen. Ted Stevens died in a small plane accident recently, it underscored the hazards Alaskan bush pilots face.
That crash followed the script of many Alaskan accidents, where the most common cause of fatalities is "flying into terrain, under speed," according to the BLS.
Heidi Ruess, an Anchorage-based bush pilot with 40 years experience, says, "You can't compare Alaskan flying with the rest of the country."
Volatile Alaskan weather and vertical topography can cause pilots to lose visibility in fog and fly into steep mountainsides.
She used to take tourists, hunters and fishermen out to remote locations until she flipped her Cessna 185. She had only three passengers -- the plane can take five -- but she was still over-loaded because, in addition to gear, they had packed up four or five caribou.
"We don't have roads [in Alaska] and you can't drive in to pick up the gear and the game," she says.
She also flipped a float plane a few years before as she landed to pick up duck hunters. She tried to use mud to brake but it was frozen and the plane hit a big ditch and sent her tumbling.
After that, she concentrated on teaching. She cautions her students that the two biggest reasons for flying accidents are physical conditions, which pilots can rarely do much about, and judgment, which they can.
Farmers and Ranchers
Courtesy of John Gilbert
Fatality Rate: 35.8 per 100,000
Median Wages: $32,350
Both farmers and ranchers deal with many hazardous conditions in their workplace. In many cases, accidents result when workers get fatigued or hurry to complete a job.
"When you're tired, you may take shortcuts you shouldn't," says John Gilbert, who, along with his four brothers and eldest , runs a big dairy and pork farm near Iowa Falls, Iowa. "Raising and harvested crops, you have short windows to get things done in the spring and fall. That leads to a lot of rushing around."
Many agricultural workers die one of three ways: being pinned in overturned tractors, truck collisions and animal incidents.
One of the biggest hazards for farmers around Gilbert's home ground is moving around augers that transfer grain from trucks or bins to silos.
"They're tall enough to get tangled in overhead power lines," says Gilbert. "Everybody knows about the hazard and is cautioned about it, but accidents happen anyway."
Almost as dangerous is taking to the roads on slow moving tractors or combines. Drivers inexperienced in rural travel may confuse the hazard lights and directional signals and think the farmer is turning left instead of right. That leads to farmers sometimes turning directly into the path of an oncoming car or truck.
Gilbert himself has been cautious, and lucky, never sustaining a disabling injury. And he does not consider farming a job: "It's a way of life," he says.
Roofers
Courtesy of Kevin Coleman
Fatality Rate: 34.7 per 100,000
Median Wages: $33,970
Height increases danger -- and roofing is an occupation where elevation is part of the job description.
Kevin Coleman has been roofing safely for 24 years, since age 18. He works commercial buildings with mostly flat roofs, so the possibility of falling is lower. Although he has worked as high as a 70-story building in downtown Chicago.
One particular hazard is hot tar. The roofers work with big buckets of the stuff heated to as much as 525 degrees.
"I got hurt only once," says Coleman. "A guy's shirt with a lighter in the pocket fell into the tar and exploded. My face was covered." He escaped with only a few scars.
Safety has increased for roofers.
"When I started, it was 'Get up on the roof and go,'" he says. "Now you take OSHA safety courses and there's more safety equipment, too."
Roofers can fall even off flat roofs with no wall height, so one innovation was to set up a line of flags, six feet from the roof's edge, like an outfield warning track.
There's also more protection, such as restraints and nets, to catch workers when they do fall. But the prime reason for a steady drop-off of injuries and fatalities is better training, according to Coleman.
Ironworkers
Fatality Rate: 30.3 per 100,000
Median Wages: $44,500
The men and women who build the skyscrapers and bridges of modern America have always been held in awe by the general public.
Images of them walking a four-inch steel beam hanging 500-feet above the street or sliding down an I-beam illustrate the conditions that would have lesser workers curling into a fetal position and crying for their mommies.
Steve Rank helped build downtown Houston in the 1980s and now works to improve ironworker safety via negotiated rule-making with OSHA.
One thing that has changed is the number of anchor bolts set in concrete has doubled. These bolts help hold beams steady as they go up. In the past, many bolts failed.
"The structure would fall like a house of cards," Rank says.
Site preparation is also a major issue. "Before, it would look like a scud missile hit, everything underwater in mud," Rank explains. "We'd be offloading steel and the truck wheels would sink, shifting the beams and crushing people."
Rank is still negotiating with OSHA to get better rules for reinforced-concrete buildings. These can be 20-story high constructions of poured concrete with steel rebar embedded in them.
Lax regulations governing them has contributed to more than 100 ironworker fatalities over the past few years, according to Rank.
"We want to do the same thing for reinforced concrete we did with structural steel to make the job site safer," he says.
Sanitation Worker
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Fatality Rate: 25.2 per 100,000
Median Wages: $32,070
Martin Luther King was assassinated in Memphis Tenn., when he came to support black sanitation workers who were striking against unequal treatment.
Ironically, 40 years later, that conflict continues to have an impact on the health and safety of Memphis sanitation workers.
According to Warren Cole, the president of the union local, black workers were frozen out of the city pension plan years ago, leaving them only social security. Many have had to keep working at this demanding job much longer because they can't afford to retire.
"We lost one of our workers last week," said Cole. "Emmite Johnson had finished running his route. Memphis has been averaging about 100 degrees with high humidity, and he fell waiting for a bus. He was 70 years old."
Summer may be tough on sanitation workers, but they also endure hazardous wastes all year long. Cole said a new peril is from portable meth labs, which are set up in vans or automobiles.
Explosive bi-products are discarded in garbage bins or alongside roads, a lethal danger to sanitation workers.
There's also the heavy equipment, like compactors, that can grab and crush workers if they're not careful.
Industrial Machinist
Fatality Rate: 18.5 per 100,000
Median Wages: $39,600
One of the biggest hazards of working with industrial machinery is handling the heavy weights. Machines can buck or shift, easily crushing a fragile human being.
Machinery in use in unforgiving. Loose clothing or long hair can be caught by chains or gears and mangle workers before the equipment can be brought to a stop.
Fortunately, better safety equipment and more comprehensive training has made working with machinery safer, according to David Merrifield, a Missouri-based safety consultant.
"There are better standards for safety and training," he says. "A well-trained operator can avoid accidents and make the accidents that do happen less severe."
Truckers and Drivers/Sales Workers
Courtesy of Mark Sutherland
Fatality Rate: 18.3 per 100,000
Median Wages: $37,730
Mark Sutherland is a long-haul trucker with a track record of 2 million miles without an accident. But not all drivers can make that boast.
More truckers and sales delivery men die on the job than any of the other top 10 occupations due to a moderately high fatality rate and a large number of workers.
Vigilance is vital but that can be hard to maintain, especially with truckers under pressure to produce. Government deregulation, according to Sutherland, has increased competition and squeezed profit margins. Some drivers and companies cut corners.
"They do what it takes," says Sutherland, "and some of the terrible accidents you see are the result."
For truckers pushing the limits, speeding and driving too long without proper rest take a toll. Things happen quickly when a big rig is rolling down the road at 75 miles per hour and the driver's attention has wandered after 10 hours with only a short break or two.
"You have to constantly pay attention," says Sutherland. "You can't have enough eyes. You have to adjust to conditions."
His pet peeve is the drivers who come to a dead stop at construction zones for no reason. That, fog, ice and snow are the most hazardous physical conditions that truckers face.
Construction Laborer
Fatality Rate: 18.3 per 100,000
Median Wages: $29,150
Building sites contain many of the hazardous conditions present in many of the most dangerous jobs. Workers are outdoors in all sorts of weather conditions, often at great heights and exposed to heavy materials and machinery.
A laborer was killed at McCarren Airport in Las Vegas early in 2009 when an earth-moving shovel ran over him. Later in the year, a Michigan laborer died when a diesel tank exploded. In New Jersey a worker was killed after his clothing entangled in a rotating machine drilling pipe.
Safety has sometimes been an afterthought on some construction jobs, but government regulations and heightened awareness by companies and the workers themselves have helped to steadily pare down casualties.
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Relating in the 21st Century
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Posted:Aug 29, 2010 6:12 am
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2010 4:54 pm 23904 Views
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The circle of its function has many fallacies as well as much of fantasy, but yearn to claim it seeks to "share"..
(Building trust)
First and foremost becomes something one must work on within self, to trust self. then to speak honest and be fair in the dealing within living.
Having compassion as well as the awareness of discernment about the acts and actions of others, helps in the trust building scenario of personal association.
(Sharing)
Learning how to share is a undertaking that is worthy, sharing does not imply a expect of anything, nor does it mandate a reciprocation of any special thing. It is first and foremost the ability to be able to give freely.
Unfortunately, there is a vast spectrum of "Quid Pro Quo", "Tit for Tat" which dominates the social spectrum, and the act of sharing is replaced by a "barter mentality" in a great many situations.
Relationship fall apart behind "the barter mentality", which people claim is sharing, and many fall apart behind sharing, that has a one side function within how it is engaged.
It's unfortunate in the world of the female and male, there is this unspoken expectation which circles,and encircles, and has many tentacles which nearly demand something, without even the vaguest thought of mutual considerations to be equally a sharing situation.
("Fee based romance")
So much of the concept of romance is far too frequently based on what a man is giving, how much he is giving, and if he is giving what one is expecting to get.
Such things as 'who pays for dinner", "who opens a door", and "what presents" are given, these things have become so interwoven in the mentalities, until people miss the reality of seeing each other as simply persons. There is such a wide spread measure on this aspect until, people void each other out behind this cycle of mentality.
("Sex")
Sex is played out like a and john sequence, and using the organ of sex as a gambit organ, which is often used to facilitate the cycle of bargain, demand, and encircled within ultimatums based on expectations of compensatory yieldings.
("Arguments")
If people stop and look at what their arguments are based upon, is many times, nothing more than ones expectations being pushed upon another as a covert demand, and overt expectation. and the cycle of badger ensues, to try and extract compliance.
In a funny sense, some people may fare better, to simply make a 'long term or short term' /john arrangements, and go about their ways when the deal is at a point of mutual resolve.
Relating in the 21st Century
Some find actual realism within communication and appreciation, and thus share, in doing so.
Unfortunately, some cannot fathom such simplicity, and then enters the cycle of the 'barter mentality'... which ultimately will find that it is a term limited interchange, not unlike the "/john" sequence.
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an unkept person - the odd reality of Today
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Posted:Aug 28, 2010 5:16 pm
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2010 5:04 am 24603 Views
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Be it man or woman, it is truly a dis-regard for the nature and beauty of the human body and the nature of self.
Seeing women who are un-kept, with poor hygienic conduct and not taking time to properly groom herself, or make at least some effort to maintain her body mass, as well as to have a rude and abrasive personality. Is a true tragedy of every sort unto the value of personal regard.
Surely, this same is felt about men, when women see men who are un-kept, with poor hygienic conduct and not taking time to properly groom himself, or make at least some effort to maintain his body mass, as well as to have a rude and abrasive personality. Is a true tragedy of every sort unto the value of personal regard.
The same applies when people allow "intoxicants", to consume them and, bring disregard to the dignity in Constitution as a self maintained and self respecting person.
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Lately, I see so many women, who are just sloppy, they are not even with a concern for neatness, and ignore any concept of body mass management. It's quite a social disaster without parallel in a so called civil high standard of living country, such as the U.S.
Women out in pajama bottoms, that look like they have been worn for a week, sack dresses, that just hang on their shoulders, or tight things, that show roll upon roll, or being too big and too fat for short skirts that look like a disaster on their body.
Sadly, in the morning, there are more and more women, who show up in the store, getting coffee, that have neglected to have any concern to groom their hair, and many that seem to have minimual concern for what it represents of self to be neatly groomed, and convey an image of particulate care about their public as well as the simple self presentation.
It's not as much an economic matter as it is a personal matter.
Clothes need not be designer expensive nor have status labels, they can be simply clean and laundered to show the concern to be self respecting. they need not be flashy, nor opulent, but simply well chosen for a respectful fit to the body.
What's with the wave of masculine looking females today ???
Baseball hats won't hide the ungroomed image of un-cared for hair or the fact of being naturally a female, nor will looking as much like a female version of a man, hide the fact that one has ignored the natural nature of femininity. Nor will the result to be simply fighting the natural presence of being female, change one from being female.
Such an oddity of reality is the modern day image in the public person, but it speaks volumes of the private individual.
Even movies and commercials, show people in bedroom passion scenes, and they simply "get up put their clothes on and leave", but it never shows they had a concern to take a shower
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What is Yesterdays... if not for Today..
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Posted:Aug 28, 2010 7:45 am
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funny thing, the reality of yesterday, and the presence and realism of today..
When the previous blog was wiped away, and the countless hours and maybe more than a million alphabets/ which became many many words written; and it all vanished, in the blink of an eye.
What was made in the yesterdays, if lessor to regret, as each was written in the reality of what was"a" today at the time of writing, which now is a part of yesterdays... it may not be present in viewable existence, but it remains, a part of yesterdays, forever.
So too, is the "yesterdays" of our lives, but what remains is the value points of having experienced the yesterdays, and expressed what gained form in yesterdays, which, has all become a part of what is the forces that drive our lives into the presence and realism of today.
What is yesterday, feeds what is wisdom's we live with today.
Yesterdays are somewhat an interesting things, on one yesterdays we learned the alphabet, so on another yesterdays, we could spell words, and another yesterdays, we could write out thoughts, and today we experience the dreams and desires those thoughts bring us again today, to experience, which may become much of yesterdays, on tomorrow, And we have the Wonders of Today, to make our yesterdays continue to have amazing elements, as we move forth and our tomorrows, become again our... Today.
For every Tomorrow we hope for, we must equally so, appreciate what is our yesterdays... as we fully embrace and engage our "Today"...
even the handle has evolved, into , beyondfantasy .. again to the 3rd dimension... to be "reality" - Today !!!
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The many attitudes with Blog-land
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Posted:Aug 28, 2010 7:08 am
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From the general perspective of social engagement, on to and through the pursuit of popularity of many sorts, to the rush to identify with popularity of many sorts. some develop anguish at each other, and some develop whole cliques who engage to attack others, some make circles of associates, some make circles of friends and some make circles of playmates and, lovers.
Some feel challenged by subject matter, some feel challenged by comment to their subject matter. Some flow with where conversations goes, and some set unspoken criteria to what they expect in response to their subject matter. Some post with no concern about where subjects go, nor what aspects it associates within the whole of reflective connections of subject matter.
Some seek points, in every post, some deal with pointers without the search for a specific point, and some deal with multiple points within subject, for the sake of exploration of subjects, and some want answers, and some pose questions, as well as some engage every means of aims about subject matter.
Some come to judge subject matter, and some come to explore subject matter, and some come to rate and make mockery of subject matters, and some come for every reason imaginable to interact with subject matter, by one of many acts and actions of motivations.
Some engage humor to push laughter, some engage humor to ridicule, and some engage humor to evoke more humor.
If one can think of a frame of attitude, it can be found within 'blog-land', as well as in the 'everyday physical reality of which one lives".
Why the parallel? may be more simple than complex. " because it's people", whether typing on a computer, or interacting in face to face, or groups to group live interactions" - It's people, interacting !!!!
Some come and claim the search for love, and some come in pursuit of fantasy, and some come to build dreams, and some come to seek support for their dreams, and some come to actively solicit assistance with their dreams.
Some claim love is free, but may surround it with the price and cost of conditions, some may call it free, but entrap it within a series of expectations, and some even bring a list of demands, yet claim that love is free.
Some come with many emotions, from pain, to fear, to confusion to contempt, and some come with anguish that is a mix of many things, and what ever emotion which can be thought of, is found to exist in blog-land.
Yet, blogs continue to connect the world in ways it has never been connected before, it continue to bring awareness where there was vague concepts, or mis informed perceptions.
social medium, seems to have a way to engage every aspect of the social function.
Yet, many claim they can't find love. some become confused by the choices and the options, some become over-whelmed and unable to know what to choose or how to choose, because of the options.
Some make choices and abandon it quickly because of the options, and some come to sample as much of options as possible, all the while some come, with an aim, to tease the options which exist.
Some come with the thoughts that no options is good enough, and some come with no thought to engage any options, but to see how many options seek to engage them.
Some come with a plan, and some come and find their plan distorted by the choices and the variety of characters they encounter, some find they are purely unaware of what they themselves want.
And some come and want everything, and everyone they can get.
If there are "reasons" for acts, actions, attitude and perceptions, it can be found in blog-land...
The impact of social medium, seems to impact the changing world, even when its denied or accepted that it is doing so.
The endless cycle of "changing attitudes" make up the cycle of what circles within the human interactions both in blog-land and within the daily person to person reality..
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A Fast Changing World
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Posted:Aug 27, 2010 4:56 am
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We see, say and do many things, and the world continues to make changes in how we live because of it.
What we find is, we all matter, more than we may know. What you do and what becomes of your days, helps shape a forever changing world.
Acts, Actions and Position, Attitude, and most certainly, the perceptions we engage, lead to the moments which unfold our ways within the days.
If you convey smiles, the atmosphere reflects and the over-all tonality will convey smiles. If you are anguished and agitated, and push contention, then the atmosphere that surrounds you will have a perception that may well even attract contention.
shake it off... move along and pursue a reason to smile, and reach for reasons to laugh, and much else begins to unfold within your sphere.
On the International scale, the world has changed, for the "better", many lands that faced challenges of dire repressions and compressions over many years, are now finding news ways to remove repressive things, and push for more progressively expressive things. a different set of challenges, will come, as no things comes without challenge of many sorts built within.
If the leadership remains optimistic, even under the most severe of assault and detractors, the optimism, will outlive the detractors mentality and nations move forth.
new faces abound, in places once thought they could not stand, now, in a changing world, it takes time but the slow process for the world to accept the changes in faces as part of life. We then push ahead to become a world, where diversity becomes common, and people regard expands. The trickle down and up-flow of this cycle changes the way the world opens to see the people of the world.
the die hard and the anguished repressive models, will fade more into an obscurity as many will self implode by their own antics, as the world seeking and engaging changes, has less room for intolerance.
But the world seek not just the surface of tolerance, but a deeper level of social understanding, and human respect of person.
the upside of the economic crash of 2008, has brought people to look beyond monetary measure more and more, among the common people of the world. It will eventually change the mentality of the degree group, to learn better to see the human being as individuals, more than status measure.
This will usher a new respect not just for the individual as person, but for the workers who labor to make the world spin.
I've met some interesting combination, where people have become more broad in their reality engagements, women who hold masters degrees, who once pursued the elitism of status and title, are now married to me, who are general labor person, people in specialized position married to mates, who work as clerks, and janitorial services, heads of departments, married to people who do blue collar work, and the paring seem to be learning toward people choosing people, more than people choosing based on status and title.
Men, who achieve high financial levels, marrying women, not from university stigma mentality, but simply working women, from the non specific skilled, to those who work in general public non titled positions.
there is still the Yuppie sector, that measure degree for degree, and title for title, and equate themselves in mate pursuits based on who has money and status, and neglecting any who does not.
but this trend seems to be contained within a certain spectrum.
The common families, who raise the who become the people of tomorrow, seem to be less driven by the external status modeling, and title chase, and the ladder climbers, as many are comprised of simply individual, who have chosen to share living, in a more commonality without the hype of status detracting and denying them the general options of mate selection.
maybe the cycle has evolved, where the women who earn more, are learning how to be as men who have held those claims, and now they seem to be selecting mates,who earn less, not because they earn less, but because they seem these men as simply persons, and individual, rather than as monetary measures.
We've even seen it with many in the entertainment field, who once only chased other stars but now, seem to mate and pair with people who don't hold star position, title nor money. They simply see the desire of each other as individuals.
A Fast Changing World
Maybe its come a time, that people see that money can't buy them the natural happiness nor does it purchase the love that comes from within.
We've seen Billionaires, give their money to social cause, one after the next, We see those who have held vast fortune, come full circle, as they have found, no matter how much money they acquire, they are still simply just "people", their mentality has changed, and so to is it changing how they view the world and people in general.
There will be those who won't change form the old image of the 1930's, 1950's and the 1980's of 'star searching, by title, status, and degree, and delusions of many sorts. But many of such, have found themselves, more as lonely souls, with strained social circles. while their counterparts, whom have opened up, as individuals, to measure less by such claims, seem to find the loves that inspire their humanity to simply love, for the sake of love.
We see images of the 'Fast lane" stars and starlets, whom have not aged well, and we see the more down to earth, types who seem to continue to not only age well in appearance, but to have true humanitarian regards of many sorts as simply persons.
A Fast Changing World
Maybe people are learning, that jobs are jobs, the individual remains an individual, if they allow not the job, to change them to become delusional beyond realizing such.
Those who learn and have learned seem to set the new trend for love to be based more on loving, than the material matters, and status encirclements, or the monetary divides.
This seems to be equally so, disintegration the ethic divides, and the multi cultural mating is now becoming a matter of persons choosing persons, not facing ethnic denials of other as a barrier, but looking beyond to appreciate the diversity in their options for mate selections.
A Fast Changing World
Maybe after Centuries of mis direction and divisiveness, we are evolving to truly learn to be the social beings, who embraces the reality that we are people of the world, with much variety to engage and cultures to blend, and past fences to mend, as we mate, relate and blend..
A Fast Changing World
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"Mistyfren"
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Posted:Aug 22, 2010 9:02 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2013 4:13 pm 25880 Views
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Who remembers mistyfern -
She was a very good writer, and honesty in her ways of self expression. Very aware and quite open about many things of life's challenges.
VANITY Part 1
VANITY Part 2
Many of the current young women could have learned something from her writing, if they opened their minds to do so. Unfortunately more than likely they would have fought the truths she told.
She was one of the better writers and certainly about the most talented as well as one of the most honest writers, that has ever been within the Chinese FriendFinder blogs.
Hope Mistyfern is doing well.
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Diminished Quality
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Posted:Aug 21, 2010 5:34 pm
Last Updated:Aug 22, 2010 11:00 am 24409 Views
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many of the big names, now print many thing, that skim the surface, only to generate a web page, for the sake of advertising and volume generation of Ad presentations.
It's quite certain, the web in due for a revolutionary way it is presented. the next generations is sure to be more function and have better attributes.
but equally so, will writers be pushed to actually go below the surface of skimming in what they present.
Though the current method will maintain followers, because the attention span of individuals, is quite with its limits, the world has become a series of "one liners", and "coy phrasing", as the brevity has produced volumes of limited understanding on many levels, and may produce more as time moves along.
It has produced a vast spectrum of shallowness within and of individual and their lack of depth to associate factors and elements of dimensional parallels in thought trends.
Equally so, the business of the world, functions on brevity, followed by lack of in-depth understanding, and the "flash bang", spike and crash cycle is predominating the culture of industrial function.
Result is, Integrity is at an all time low, and the smoke and mirrors, simply functions with multi colored lights in the backgrounds, to cast illusions and present diversion, as there is very little of substance to be found.
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Unfortunately, we now as a global sphere, suffer from "Diminished Quality"
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