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For some, blogs are a way of life...

周已死亡
Posted:Jul 2, 2014 8:08 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2014 9:45 pm
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我亲爱的朋友的父亲去世了星期六。他遭受了长时间的疾病。她是可悲的。他的死进行了展望。但是,这并不改变这种状况。他的遗体被火化,家属会见了简短的仪式。
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The Pornographic Logout Screen...
Posted:Jul 2, 2014 4:55 am
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2014 3:40 am
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There has been a recent change when logging out of AsiaFriendFinder. We have gone from an information 'you are logged out' page to a new style of log out with a barrage of advertisements for porn and alternate lifestyle dating sites.

This is NOT appropriate.

I'm not interesting in logging out to see a photo flash on the screen of the back end of a naked Penthouse model with a clear view of her 'anatomy' when checking my mail AT WORK. I don't want to see Live Nude Cam Chat, Live Nude Sex Chat and Cams moving advertisements of men and women having sex. Not knowing what photo advertisement will pop up next, I must quickly close the window for fear a coworker (or boss) might catch a glimpse of something that I'm risking my job over.

I know 'The finder' websites are linked and collectively there are several in the combined system and I know they are RTA (Restricted To Adults) sites, but it's my opinion to have pornographic advertising when you close a session with a non-pornographic website is wrong.

I find these new changes offensive and hope management will not advertise those types of visual advertisements when leaving a session with Asia FriendFinder.
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CODE OF ETHICS...
Posted:Jul 1, 2014 6:52 pm
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2014 7:21 am
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What determines the Code of Ethics we all live by?
(preface... this blog may run astray. I have a few different thoughts and for lack of time, grouped them into one blog)

Is it OK to hack Satellite TV or download 'free' MP3's? Cheat the government on your taxes? Tap into electrical service from the streetlights? Where do you draw the line and still consider your self 'A person of high stature'

When someone needs your services badly... do you suddenly raise the price simply because they will pay it?

Some people stoop to incredible boundaries and still consider themselves upstanding. I wonder what criteria do they use to govern themselves.

Personalities and driving:
I've noticed some of the most inconsiderate drivers have the most expensive cars.
(This reminds me of the joke: What's the difference in a porcupine and a BMW?
The porcupine has the pri cks on the outside)
In a merge situation, they will force the other car off the roadway simply because the other driver wouldn't dare hit a luxury vehicle. Yet these same people encourage their 'be eco-friendly' and do all sorts of commendable things on the job or in their religious community.

Maybe you desire to give large sums to Charity. I know an entertainer who was obnoxious and difficult to work with... but he supported a Charity that helped keeping homeless off the street. In the eyes of the public, he was a hero.

Maybe your MO is to eat part of a meal at a fancy restaurant, then complain "it was spoiled" so the management takes the price of the meal off your bill and give you something else for free. Knowing some restaurants make a hefty profit. Well... that's one way to lower your entertainment/food bill. Hit a new restaurant once or twice a month and pull that stunt!

Some people believe in karma... so be careful. What you do to cheat others could fall back on you.
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THE END IS NEAR...
Posted:Jun 30, 2014 4:32 pm
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2015 3:10 pm
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My friends, it's time to say The End Is Near. I cannot avoid the signs anymore. Forget about any reports of doomsday as this has been going on for a long time... When I was a , people often shouted this in the streets... "The End Is Near, The End Is Near" I didn't always know what they meant until I grew older. So now I must say goodbye... the end is near.

This is my reminder to you to remember to buy more toilet paper on the way home from work if you left the house and the last roll looked like this!

The end is near...
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My sexy outfit...
Posted:Jun 29, 2014 9:18 pm
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2014 2:51 pm
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Snow_White did a blog asking what was our sexiest outfit... So I thought and thought and have to say, without the slightest doubt, it's my black tutu with fringe.
When I put that thing on and dance to Mozart. Within 5 minutes I'm throwing sparks from my fingertips and the entire room is aglow!

Well, thank you for reading my blog and thank you Snow for giving me this idea to really express myself!
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Go on... tell me how much you like it
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Call me by my first name when we make love...
Posted:Jun 29, 2014 2:05 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2014 3:05 pm
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From now on... there's a new policy in effect: When we make love, you must call me by my first name.

No nicknames, no terms of endearment. Words like Baby, Honey or Darling are NOT acceptable anymore... and "Oh God" is certainly out of the question.

When we make love, I want to be called by my first name.
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and-duh...
Posted:Jun 28, 2014 5:43 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2014 6:16 am
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People say 'and-duh' much too often.
Much too often
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Maybe you say and-duh too?
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Not sure?
Okay... here are some examples:

Go to the stoplight, make a right 'and-duh' it's at the end of the block.

I'll have a cheeseburger 'and-duh' Coke.

Much too often.
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Who wants to admit it?
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I never say it
I say it sometimes
I say it all the time
I didn't realize this until you mentioned it
What do you want from my life?
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TURN YOUR HEAD AND COUGH...
Posted:Jun 28, 2014 8:18 am
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2014 6:58 pm
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Many years ago, I did something strenuous and felt a pain in my groin. Without any examination, my primary care physician referred me to a surgeon.
The surgeon told me I had a hernia and needed surgery because my intestine could easily slip into the hole of the rupture and (to make a short story boring) require emergency surgery. Yeah... emergency surgery.

They were ready to schedule me into surgery the following week. I thought that was a bit ambitious of them, so I told them no, I couldn't deal with 4 or 5 weeks recuperation that was needed for this procedure.

The pain went away and I had forgotten about it.

About two years later, I made the rounds to see all the doctors for routine physical and lab work. One of the doctors was a urologist. He performed the same test the surgeon did 2 years before and said "everything is tight in your groin, I see no signs of a hernia"

Urologists don't do to surgeries, well at least this one doesn't. So... he has no vested interest to find 'something to do'

I'm told hernias are not self healing, so if I actually had one (and not a pulled muscle) it wouldn't suddenly go away.

Now I have distrust and will be skeptical of all future diagnosis.
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Would you date someone with a social disease?
Posted:Jun 27, 2014 3:30 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2014 3:01 pm
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You meet someone nice, chat on the phone and agree to go to dinner. When she gets to the restaurant you can see she's texting someone. You arrange for a table and the two of you sit and make some small talk while the waitress gets some drinks. Again, in-between chatting with you she appears to be focused on messages coming to her phone every minute or two.

She excuses herself to go to the Ladies room and takes her cell phone. The restaurant isn't busy, but she doesn't return for about 15 minutes. Again when she returns to the table, she seems preoccupied with the cellphone and not you.

Eventually, the two of you order food and officially start your date !

Again, the date is interrupted with her messaging. Oh, "it's my sister" she said... or maybe it's her mom. Who cares? she's on a date with you and hopefully you can have one hour alone to see if this is the girl for you.

The food arrives and your meaningless chat is overcome with her talks about what is happening on Facebook, or is it MySpace... maybe a mention of Twitter and she's back on the phone sending messages.

It's then you realize this woman has a social disease...

Social networking is controlling her life.
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What do you do next?
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Pretend everything is good and ignore her bad manners?
Tell her to turn off her phone as it's affecting the date?
Realize the date has gone sour and leave the restaurant?
Ask her for her Twitter so the two of you can Tweet all night...
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You will be here forever !!
Posted:Jun 27, 2014 4:54 am
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2014 7:12 am
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I first joined AsiaFriendFinder around 8 years ago and left when I was in a relationship. I came back a few times between other relationships and noticed many of the members photos that were here in 2005-2007 are still here using their old photos as a primary!

I get the feeling you will be here forever... maybe you need to update your profile with profiles more recent.

I know I have changed in 10 years... and so have you.
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