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三句话浓缩人生！ The three sentence enrichment of life!
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Posted:Dec 16, 2013 9:05 pm
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2013 4:27 pm 12569 Views
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第一句话The first sentence
你的责任就是你的方向，你的经历就是你的资本，你的性格就是你的命运。Your responsibility is to your direction,You experience your capital,Your character is your destiny.
第二句话The second sentence
复杂的事情简单做，你就是专家；简单的事情重复做，你就是行家；重复的事情用心做，你就是赢家。Complex things simple to do, you are an expert;To do simple things repeatedly, you who is the expert;Repeat things to do, you are the winner.
第三句话The third sentence
美好是属于自信者的，机会是属于开拓者的，奇迹是属于执著者的！Beautiful is confident,The opportunity belongs to the pioneers,The miracle is attached!
心若改变，态度跟着改变；态度改变，习惯跟着改变； 习惯改变，性格跟着改变；性格改变，人生跟着改变。凡事不必苛求，来了就来了；凡事不必计较，过了就过了；遇事不要皱眉，笑了就笑了；结果不要强求，做了就对了；生活就是一种简单，心静了就平和了。If the change in heart, follow the change of attitude;Attitude change, change habits;Habits change, change character;Character change, change life.Don't ask, and come to;Don't care about, passed on before;Don't frown, laugh laugh;The results don't try, do it right;Life is a kind of simple, calm and gentle.
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有人在乎你吗？ Someone who cares for you?
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Posted:Dec 16, 2013 5:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 25, 2013 4:32 pm 13361 Views
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一个人在乎你，他不会欺骗你，就算他答应的事情办不到他也会尽量。
A person cares about you, he will not deceive you, even if do not he promised things that he will try to.
一个人在乎你，再忙也会抽出一分钟的时间来给你打个电话或发个信息，因为他在想你。
Someone you care about, again busy will take a minute to give you a call or send a message, because he think of you.
一个人在乎你，再忙也会抽出一分钟的时间来回你电话或回信息，因为他知道你在想他。
Someone you care about, again busy will take a minute and you call or return information, because he know you like him.
一个人在乎你，再忙也会抽出一分钟的时间来关注你，因为他在担心你。
Someone you care about, again busy will take a minute to pay attention to you, because he was worried about you.
一个人在乎你，再忙也会抽出一分钟的时间来跟你报告，因为他知道你在担心他。爱一个人不需要华丽的语言，日常生活中的点点滴滴最能体现，那就是深爱着她。
Someone you care about, again busy will take a minute to talk to your report, because he knows you worried about him. Love a person does not need gorgeous language, daily life can best embody, that is in love with her.
慢慢的才知道：Slowly just know:
感情里，总会有分分合合；生命里，总会有来来去去。许多时候，风雨，不是天象而是锤炼；沧桑，不是无奈而是襟怀。以一种洒脱的姿态放手，以一份微笑的心境达观，浅浅喜欢，静静的爱，深深思索，淡淡释怀。
Feelings, always skelter; in life, there are always back and forth. Many times, the wind and rain, not the sky but the vicissitudes of life, not the temper; helpless but mind. In a free and easy attitude to let go, with a smile of mood optimistic, shallow love, silent love, deep in thought, faint.
慢慢的才知道：Slowly just know:
人这一辈子，要经得起谎言，受得起敷衍，忍得住欺骗，忘得了诺言。爱过了，才会尝到快乐和伤心的滋味；恨过了，才会知道珍惜和宽容。与其让自己变得颓废，不如让自己活得更精彩。People in this lifetime, must withstand lies, withstand perfunctory, can bear the deceit, forget promises. Love, will feel happy and sad taste; hate, only know how to cherish and tolerance. And let yourself be decadent, let yourself live more wonderful.
慢慢的才知道：Slowly just know:
没有风的日子，云是雨的守望；没有梦的日子，等待会荒废时光。这个世界上，谁也不是谁的永远，唱一曲风花雪月，吟一阕岁月静好，烟火、流年、红尘、沧桑，浅浅遇，淡淡忘。
No wind, rain clouds are watch; no dream day, waiting for will waste time. This world, who also not who will sing a song, romantic themes, a good quiet time, fireworks, fleeting, red dust, the vicissitudes of life, shallow light in, forget.
慢慢的才知道：Slowly just know:
生命于我们，只是沧海一粟，然而，却承载了太多的情非得已。聚散离合，痛苦欢笑，呐喊寻觅......因为没有人知道那个最终的谜底，所以，我们唯一的选择，必须是：向前，笑看风，笑对雨......
Life to us, is just a drop in the bucket, however, are carrying too much of unwillingness. Parting, pain, laughter, shouting for... Because no one knows that the final truth, therefore, our only choice, must be: forward, laugh at laugh wind, rain......
慢慢的才知道：Slowly just know:
有些人魂牵梦萦，却只适合放在心底；有些人波澜不惊，却适合相伴一生。爱情，是一次命中注定的相逢，或驻足，拥抱；或擦肩，回眸，有些走过，很淡，很轻却很疼......
Some people dream of, but is only suitable for on the bottom of my heart; some people fall, but for a lifetime. Love, is a decreed by fate meet, or stop, embrace; or rub shoulders, back, some walk, very light, very light is very painful......
慢慢的才知道.......Slowly just know....
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习近平的女儿为什么不回家？ Why Xi Jinping home?（3）
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Posted:Dec 13, 2013 4:08 pm
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2014 6:50 pm 15218 Views
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在哈佛，教授们会时常提醒学生们要做好时间管理。在人生的道路上，你停步不前，但有人却在拼命赶路。也许当你站立的时候，他还在你的后面向前追赶，但当你再一回望时，已看不到他的身影了，因为，他已经跑到你的前面了，需要你来追赶他了。所以，你不能停步，你要不断向前，不断超越。成功与安逸是不可兼得的，选择了其一，就必定放弃另一个结局。今天不努力，明天必定遭罪。哈佛告诉它的学生：学习时的痛苦是暂时的，未学到的痛苦是终生的。
In the Harvard professors, students often reminded to do time management. On the road of life, you stop, but some people are hurried. Maybe when you stand up, he was still behind you pursue forward, but when you look back again, already cannot see his shadow, because, he has to go in front of you, you need to catch up with him. So, you can't stop, you have to constantly move forward, constantly surpass. Success with ease is incompatible, choose one, must give up another ending. Do not work hard today, tomorrow must suffer. Harvard students tell it: time the study pain is temporary, has not learned the pain is life-long.
哈佛没有高楼大厦，只有新英格兰的红砖墙。即使诺贝尔奖获得者也不过在校园有一个决不起眼的停车位。毕竟哈佛最起眼的是100座图书馆，尤其是一个个像图书馆那样的人，或者说，一个人就是一座图书馆。哈佛或哈佛人是不需要任何包装的。
Harvard didn't many-storied buildings, only the new England red brick. Even if Nobel prize winner, but also in the campus has a never humble parking. After all, Harvard's most humble is the 100 libraries, especially like a library that person, or in other words, a person is a library. Harvard and Harvard people don't need any package.
有人称史华慈是哈佛的一位类似东方的大儒，在他动过癌症手术的82岁高龄的时候，依然天天早上按时去办公室工作，即使有时要倒下。而他办公室里挂大衣的两个衣架，竟是用铁丝胡乱缠绕而成的。某教授对学生说，你学我这门课，你就一天只能睡两小时。学生想，那么，我学四门课，我就没有睡眠时间了，我就得倒贴睡眠时间了。哈佛的博士生，可能每3天要啃下一本大书，每本几百页，还要交上阅读报告。哈佛过桥便是波士顿，前人类学系主任张光直在哈佛读博士那几年，没有上过桥没有去过波士顿。
A person Schwartz is a similar to the Oriental scholar at Harvard, he had the operation of cancer at the age of 82, still every morning on time to work in the office, even if sometimes fall. Two clothes hangers and his office to hang coats, unexpectedly is formed by winding wire at. A professor said to the students, you learn this course, you will sleep only two hours a day. Students want to, so, I learn four courses, I can't sleep, I have to lose sleep time. Harvard doctoral student, may every 3 days to face a big book, each of the hundreds of pages, but also to read the report. The Harvard bridge is Boston, former head of the anthropology department at Harvard, Dr. Zhang Guangzhi read that several years, not on the bridge has not been to boston.
哈佛学生或是哈佛教授，首先不是一份荣誉，而是一种证明。人到底可以有怎样的意志力，人到底可能有怎样的发挥潜力?一一哈佛告诉你。哈佛是一种象征，最高智慧的象征，最高学府的象征。 哈佛图书馆墙上的训言似乎已经给出了答案。短短数语，引发深思，给人启迪。
Harvard student or a Harvard professor, first is not an honor, but a kind of proof. People in the end how can have willpower, who may have the potential to one one Harvard told you?. Harvard is a symbol, symbol of the highest wisdom, symbolizes the highest institution of higher learning. ALLOCUTIONS on the wall of the library seems to have been given the answer. Just a few words, thought-provoking, enlightening.
哈佛图书馆墙壁训言：Harvard Library Wall motto:
1、此刻打盹，你将做梦;此刻学习，你将圆梦。(This moment will nap, you will have a dream; But this moment study,you will interpret a dream.
2、我荒废的今日，正是昨日殒身之人祈求的明日。(I leave uncultivated today, was precisely yesterday perishes tomorrow which person of the body implored.)
3、觉得为时已晚的时候，恰恰是最早的时候。(Thought is already is late, exactly is the earliest time.)
4、勿将今日之事拖到明日。(Not matter of the today will drag tomorrow. )
5、学习时的苦痛是暂时的，未学到的痛苦是终生的。(Time the study pain is temporary, has not learned the pain islife-long. )
6、学习不是缺乏时间，而是缺乏努力。(Studies this matter, lacks the time, but is lacks diligently.)
7、幸福或许不排名次，但成功必排名次。(Perhaps happiness does not arrange the position, but succeeds must arrange the position. )
8、学习并不是人生的全部。但既然连人生的一部分也无法征服，还能做什么呢?(The study certainly is not the life complete. But, since continually life part of-studies also is unable to conquer, what butalso can make?)
9、请享受无法回避的痛苦。(Please enjoy the pain which is unable to avoid.)
10、只有比别人更早、更勤奋地努力，才能尝到成功的滋味。(only has compared to the others early, diligently diligently, canfeel the successful taste.)
11、谁也不能随随便便成功，它来自彻底的自我管理和毅力。(Nobody can casually succeed, it comes from the thoroughself-control and the will. )'
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习近平的女儿为什么不回家？ Why Xi Jinping home?（2）
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Posted:Dec 13, 2013 2:33 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 1:4 pm 14917 Views
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谈到中美大学生的比较，谢娟说，我有很深的感触。我们的学生缺少吃苦的精神。我们的家长和学生认为高考前是最苦的，我们讲的寒窗苦读，很多时候是被动的苦，带着功利的苦，而不是在其中有过浓厚的兴趣。不少大学生经过高考的“独木桥”后，开始在大学校园里舒舒服服地等着毕业，上课想逃就逃;考试临时抱佛脚。甚至有些家长也是从小灌输给孩子这种思想，让孩子认为，所有的学习都是为了高考。于是，高考结束，学习变得不再重要。
When it comes to the comparison between Chinese and American college students, Xie Juan said, I have deep feelings. Our students lack the spirit of bearing hardships. Our parents and students think before the college entrance examination is the most bitter, we speak of studying hard, a lot of the time is a passive suffering, with utilitarian bitter, but not in which there is strong interest. Many college students through the entrance of the "single plank bridge", started in the university campus comfortably wait for graduation, class want to escape fled; exam cram. Some parents even also had instilled in of this idea, let the think, all learning for the college entrance examination. So, the end of the college entrance examination, learning become less important.
而在美国大学，尤其是精英云集的大学所要付出的苦是我们想象不到的。在哈佛，征服学习是每个人的口号。要想变得强大就需要学习得更多，为此哈佛的课程安排多而且紧张。其目的是帮助学生提高批判性思维能力和想象力，学会发现和鉴别事实真相，坚持对事物进行严谨的分析，能够理性、历史地认识现实问题和道德问题。另外，练就长时间超负荷学习的毅力。
At the American University, especially the elite university have to pay a bitter is less than we imagine. At Harvard, conquer learning is everyone's slogan. To be strong you need to learn more, for the Harvard course arrangement and nervous. The aim is to help students improve the ability of critical thinking and imagination, to discover and identify the truth, adhere to the rigorous analysis of things, can know the reason, historical reality and moral problems. In addition, have long time overload learning perseverance.
当美国大学生带着浓厚的兴趣，积聚能量为步入社会工作做准备的时候，身为中国的大学生却长长地舒了口气，觉得我终于可以好好休息休息了。中国式的教育让学生在高考前“用力”过猛，在该储备能力的阶段不仅没有积蓄能量，而是大量消耗了这种能量。其根源还在于我们的基础教育。
When USA students with keen interest, accumulation energy prepared for entering the social work, as China of college students have long to sigh, think I can have a good rest. Chinese style education for students in the college entrance examination "forced" too hard, in the reserve capacity of the stage not only consume a lot of energy savings, but this energy. Its root lies in the basic education of our.
美国小学是知识的吝啬鬼，严格限制孩子得到知识的数量，一个月只允许孩子得到一个知识，孩子每得到一个知识都需要付出很多的汗水和辛苦。在这个过程中，动手、思考和感悟比知识本身更重要，孩子对知识总是有渴望的感觉。而中国的小学教育是一个贪婪鬼，把知识当成了免费的黄金珠宝。中国教育者不知道知识与智慧的关系，总是让孩子直接得到越来越多的知识。美国教育的聪明就在于：先让孩子去感悟，去思考，然后得到知识，这个时候知识就变成了智慧。
America primary school is the knowledge of the miser, strictly limit the get the amount of knowledge, a month only allows the to have a knowledge of , each knowledge are required to pay a lot of sweat and toil. In this process, practice, thinking and feeling is more important than knowledge, always have the feeling of knowledge. While the primary school education Chinese is a greedy ghost, take knowledge as a free gold jewelry. China educators do not know the relationship between knowledge and intelligence, always let the get more knowledge. American education wisdom lies in: let the to feel, to think, and then get the knowledge, becomes the wisdom of this knowledge.
由于开始的时候，知识都特别简单，比较容易得到感悟，知识也就容易变成智慧。智慧其实就是我们常说的创造力。学习有三个阶段：感性认识——感悟——知识，知识是学习的最高阶段。美国教育让孩子走完三个阶段，才能得到知识;中国教育是让孩子通过感性认识得到知识，或者直接得到知识。美国教育一个月的知识量只相当于中国教育一天的知识量。相差29天，这29天就是感悟的时间。美国教育通过让孩子感悟比中国教育多产生了一个东西：智慧。美国学生比中国学生多产生了一个东西：创新能力。在高中时期，美国学校培养的是自主学习的习惯。而比较中国，中国的高中是老师填鸭式学习，让学生习惯了依赖。能力、习惯上的差距，让中国学生与美国学生在大学选择了不同的生活方式和态度。
Since the beginning of time, knowledge is particularly simple, relatively easy to get insight, knowledge is easy to become wisdom. Wisdom is the fact that we often say that creativity. Learning have three phases: perceptual knowledge -- perception -- knowledge, knowledge is the highest stage of learning. American education for go through three stages, to get knowledge; China education is to let the through the perceptual knowledge, or knowledge. The amount of knowledge American education a month is only equivalent to the amount of knowledge China education day. A difference of 29 days, 29 days is the perception of the time. USA education to through perception than Chinese education produced a thing: wisdom. America students than China students produce a thing: innovation ability. In high school, American school culture is the habit of independent learning. Compared China, Chinese high school teacher of rote learning, let students accustomed to rely on. Ability, habits of the gap, let China students and students in University America chose a different way of life and attitude.
哈佛的学生说，在哈佛学习强度大，睡眠很少，有在炼狱的感觉，对意志是一个很大的挑战。但是如果挺过去，以后再大的困难也就能够克服了。而中国大学生认为，终于摆脱束缚，可以想干什么，就干什么了。于是，把大多时间用在了学习以外的事情上。我们在最该学习的时候断档了，这就注定了，我们的大学生被甩得越来越远。
Harvard students said, in the Harvard study strength, little sleep, in purgatory feeling, is a great challenge to the will. But if it, then no difficulty can be overcome. And China students think, finally get rid of, can be to want to do what, do what. So, give the most time in learning things other than. We're out of stock at the time of the study, which doomed, we college students are more and more far flung.
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习近平的女儿为什么不回家？ Why Xi Jinping home?（1）
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Posted:Dec 13, 2013 2:26 pm
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2013 5:59 am 16911 Views
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哈弗大学就是一面镜子
Harvard University is a mirror
----反思我们的教育
-- Reflection of our education
习近平的女儿现在哈佛读书，习主席上任后想让她回国读书，但被女儿坚定拒绝了。为什么呢?
Xi Jinping now Harvard, Mr Xi want her to return to school after he took office, but was firmly rejected. Why?
她说， 哈佛校园里，从不见华贵服饰，不见LV包，不见化妆，不见着名牌的教授学生，不见豪车接美女，不见晃里晃荡，只有匆匆的脚步，坚实地写下人生的起步。哈佛不是神话，是一个证明，人的意志、精神、抱负、理想的证明。
She said, Harvard campus, never see luxury clothing, not to see the LV package, no makeup, no name brand to teach students, not to see the car with beauty, not only in the shaking sloshing, hurried footsteps, solid write life started. Harvard is not a myth, is a proof, prove that the will of the people, spirit, ambition, ideal.
日前，两张美国哈佛大学图书馆凌晨四点多学生仍在学习的照片，在网上迅速传播。凌晨四点的哈佛大学图书馆里，灯火通明，座无虚席……图片配文这样写道：哈佛是一种象征。人到底有怎样的发挥潜力?人的意志，人的才情，人的理想，为什么在哈佛能兑现?
Recently, two America Library of Harvard University more than four in the morning the students are still learning the photos, the rapid spread of the internet. Four a.m. in Harvard University library, brightly lit, All seats are occupied...... Picture Peiwen wrote: Harvard is a symbol. People in the end how potential? The will of the people, people of talent, the person's ideal, why can redeem at Harvard?
哈佛的餐厅，很难听到说话的声音，每个学生端着比萨可乐坐下后，往往边吃边看书或是边做笔记。没见过哪个学生光吃不读的，更没见过哪个学生边吃边闲聊的。感觉哈佛的餐厅不过是一个可以吃东西的图书馆，是哈佛正宗100个图书馆之外的另类图书馆。哈佛的医院，同样的宁静，同样的不管有多少在候诊的人也无一人说话，无一人不在阅读或记录。医院仍是图书馆的延伸。于是，哈佛产生的诺贝尔奖得主有33位，美国总统有7位。
Harvard's restaurant, it is difficult to hear voices, each student with pizza and cola after sitting down, often eat and read a book or taking notes. Haven't seen what students eat without reading, not seen what students chatting while eating. Feel the Harvard restaurant is but one can eat library, library is offbeat Harvard authentic 100 library. The Harvard hospital, the same quiet, no matter how many in the waiting people and no one speaks the same, no one not in reading or recording. The hospital is still an extension library. Then, Harvard has Nobel award 33, America 7 presidents.
央视《世界著名大学》制片人谢娟曾带摄制组到哈佛大学采访。她告诉记者：我们到哈佛大学时，是半夜两点，可让我们惊讶的是，整个校园当时是灯火通明的，那是一个不夜城。
CCTV's "world famous university" producer Xie Juan took the crew to an interview with Harvard University. She told reporters: "we came to Harvard University, is the middle of the night two points, but to our surprise, the entire campus was brightly lit, it is a city without night.
餐厅里、图书馆里、教室里还有很多学生在看书，那种强烈的学习气氛一下子就感染了我们。在哈佛，学生的学习是不分白天和黑夜的。那时，我才知道，在美国，在哈佛这样的名校，学生的压力是很大的。在哈佛，随处可以看到睡觉的人，甚至在食堂的长椅上也有人在睡。而旁边来来往往就餐的人并不觉得稀奇，因为他们知道这些倒头就睡的人实在是太累了。在哈佛，我们见到最多的就是学生一边啃着面包一边忘我地在看书。
Dining room, the library, there were many students in the classroom to read a book, the strong learning atmosphere quickly infected us. At Harvard, the students' learning is not divided into day and night. At that time, I know, in America, at Harvard School, the student is a great pressure. At Harvard, everywhere can see the sleeping person, even in sleep in the canteen bench. Beside the comings and goings of dining people did not feel strange, because they know that these sleep people is too tired. At Harvard, we see the most is the student was gnawing bread while indulging in read a book.
在哈佛采访，感受最深的是，哈佛学生学的太苦了，但是他们明显也是乐在其中。是什么让哈佛的学生能以苦为乐呢?我的体会是，他们对所学领域的强烈兴趣，还有就是哈佛学生心中燃烧的要在未来承担重要责任的使命感。从这些学生身上，你能感到他们生命的能量在这里被激发了出来。
In the Harvard interview, experience the deepest is, Harvard students learn very hard, but they also happiness within. What Harvard students enjoy the hard work? My experience is, they have strong interest in the field of Harvard students, there is burning in my heart in the future to bear an important responsibility. From them, you can feel the energy of their life is excited here out.
谢娟说，在哈佛学习的一个北大女孩跟我说，哈佛的本科生，每学期至少要选修4门课，一年是8门课，4年之内修满32门课并通过考试才可以毕业。一般而言，学校都要求本科生在入校后的头两年内完成核心课程的学习，第三年开始进入主修专业课程的学习。只有最聪明的天才学生可以在两三年内读完这32门课，一般的学生光应付4门课就已经忙得头晕脑涨了，因为在课堂上教授们讲的飞快，不管你听得懂听不懂，课下又留下一大堆阅读材料，读不完你根本就完成不了作业。
Xie Juan said, in a university girl told me at Harvard, Harvard undergraduates, each semester at least 4 elective courses, a year is 8 classes, inside 4 years 32 full course and pass the exam before they can graduate. In general, schools require students to complete the core curriculum in the first two years the school after learning within third years, began to enter the major course of study. Only the most brilliant students can read the 32 course in the two or three year, students in general light with 4 courses have been busy dizziness, because fast is taught in the classroom are speaking, whether you understand don't understand, class and left a lot of reading material, reading endless you simply could not finish the homework.
一个北大女孩说，我在哈弗一个星期的阅读量是我在北大一年的阅读量，而且，在哈佛的作业量要求很大。她说，我们课后要花很多时间看书，预习案例。每堂课都需要提前做大量的准备，课前准备充分了，上课时才能在课堂上和别人交流，贡献你的个人思想，才能和大家一起学习，否则，你是无法融入到课堂的教学中的。当每个学生都投入了时间认真准备了，才可以快速推进课堂讨论的进程，而之前如果不读那么多的书，你就无法参加到课堂讨论之中。
A university girl said, I was reading at a week is my one year at Peking University of reading, and requires a great amount of work, in harvard. She said, we spend a lot of time after school to read a book, prepare case. Each class need to do a lot of preparation in advance, the sufficient preparation before class, class to class to communicate with others, your personal thought, ability and learning together, otherwise, you are not into classroom teaching. When everyone has spent time carefully prepared, can fast forward the classroom discussion process, and if you don't read so many books, you will not be able to participate in class discussions.
谢娟说，哈佛学生的学习压力也来自学校的淘汰机制。哈佛平均每年有大约20%的学生会因为考试不及格或者修不满学分而休学或退学，而且淘汰的20%的学生的考评并不是学期末才完成。每堂课都要记录发言成绩，平均占到总成绩的50%，这就要求学生均匀用力、不能放松。
Xie Juan said, the elimination mechanism Harvard students' pressure from school. About 20% of the students because he failed the exam or repair with credit and drop out or dropped out of Harvard annually, but out of the 20% student evaluation is not the end of the semester to complete. Each class should be recorded speech scores, average accounted for 50% of the total score, which requires the students even harder, not relax.
采访哈佛大学终身教授丘成桐教授时，他说：中国大学生的大学生活太轻松了，我们总是说，中国的孩子为了高考受了多少苦，其实，在美国一些著名的中学里，高中的学习同样是很苦的。我的孩子上中学的时候，也经常学到半夜。在美国，随着年龄的增长，一点点加大学习的任务。到了大学时是最苦的，所有的精英教育全都必须是吃苦的。而中国的孩子到了大学，却一下子放松下来了。他们放松的4年，恰好是美国大学生最勤奋的4年，积蓄人生能量的黄金4年。所以，美国的高科技人才一直是世界最多的。谢娟说，我也有同感，我们也对国内的一些重点大学进行了采访，但却很难感受到哈佛那样的学习气氛和探究氛围。谢娟非常感慨地说，到了哈佛，你才知道真正的精英并不是天才，都是要付出更多努力的人。
Harvard University Professor Professor Qiu Chengtong interview, he said: China students university life was easy, we always say, Chinese to college entrance examination have suffered, in fact, in USA some famous middle school, high school is also very bitter. When my in high school, and often learn in the middle of the night. In USA, along with the growth of the age, a little bit more learning task. The university is the most bitter, elite education all must first. And China to university, suddenly relaxed. They relaxed 4 years, just USA most diligent college students 4 years, life energy savings of gold for 4 years. So, USA high-tech talent has been at the top of the world. Xie Juan said, I feel the same way, we have some domestic key university were interviewed, but very difficult to feel the Harvard study atmosphere and the inquiry atmosphere. Xie Juan said with emotion, to Harvard, you know the real elite is not a genius, will pay more to people.
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中国第一夫人彭丽媛对女人说： China first lady Peng Liyuan said to the woman:
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1【只要管好自己】
1 [good] as long as
“女人只要管好自己，已经很了不起，干吗要去管男人呢？
"As long as the good woman, have very great, why go to the man?
听话的男人不用管，不听话的男人，要管也管不到，对你好的男人不用管，对你不好的男人，不会让你管，爱你的男人不用管，不爱你的，轮不到你管。 ”努力去做这样的女人
Good man not man, not obedient, to also do not, good for man not, not good for the man for you, will not let you tube, men love you not, didn't love you, not you tube." Efforts to do so.
如果一个女人在最重要的几年中，投资的是一个男人，那么之后的几十年里，你将不断求着这个男人不要离开你。如果你投资的是自己，那么你会很顺利的收获真正属于你的爱情，爱情是以物质为基础的奢侈的精神享受。认准一句话：只有当自己处于一个最好的姿态，才会有好男人来爱你。
If a woman at the most important years, investment is a man, so the following decades, you will continue to ask this man not to leave you. If you are investing in yourself, then you will be very successful harvest belong to you love, love is the material basis of luxury to enjoy the spirit of the. Look for a word: only when yourself in one of the best attitude, will have a good man to love you.
2【做一个独立的女人】 [to do an independent woman]
——思想独立。有主见、有自己的人生观、价值观。有上进心,永远不放弃自己的理想，做一份自己喜爱的事业，拥有快乐和成就感。-- independent thought. Has the opinion, has its own outlook on life, values. Self motivated, never give up your dream, do one of their favorite cause, have happiness and a sense of achievement.
——经济独立。不依赖男人。自强自立的女人才更自信、更有人格魅力！-- economic independence. Don't rely on men. The values of self-reliance of women more confidence, more personality charm!
3【给自己充电】3 [myself]
现在的社会发展很快，竞争激烈，想让自己在众人中脱颖而出，就必须给自己充电，不断学习各种知识技能，不断完善自己。Now the society is developing very quickly, competition is intense, want to let oneself talent showing itself in the crowd, it must recharge yourself, learning all kinds of knowledge and skills, and constantly improve their own.
4【做让人赏心悦目的女人】[make pleasing women]
“没有丑女人，只有懒女人”。"There is no ugly woman, only lazy woman".
尽可能把自己打扮得：干净、精致、时尚、令人愉悦 。女人可以不漂亮，但绝不能没有气质。 如果对于自己形象懈怠了、放松了、邋遢了，那么魅力也就减弱了。如果你连自己都不爱自己，那谁还会来爱你！ ^_^
To dress up as far as possible: clean, elegant, fashion, pleasant. A woman can not be pretty, but cannot not have the temperament. If they figure laches, relaxed, and dirty, then the charm is weakened. If you even have their own don't love yourself, who will love you! ^_^
5【学会宽容】 tolearn tolerance
看穿但不说穿，该明白的明白，该装傻的时候大智若愚。很多事情，只要自己心里有数就好，睁一只眼闭一只眼，没必要的就不要说出来。在不违背原则的情况下对别人要宽容,能帮就帮，不要把人逼绝,记得给人留条后路。要有包容一切的胸怀
See through but not the issue, said that when the play dumb, still water runs deep. A lot of things, as long as your heart is good, close one eye, not necessary do not speak. Be forgiving of others in the case does not violate the principles, can help to help, don't push people away, remember to leave a way out. Be all inclusive mind
6【真正的魅力】
[6] the real charm
真正有魅力的女人在事业上才华尽现，懂得如何在社交中显示自己的智慧、发挥自己的才干。
Really attractive woman talent in business to do, know how to show their wisdom, play to their talent in social.
真正有魅力的女人在男人面前谈吐风雅 、不卑不亢、将女人的美与睿智，机敏与体贴表现的淋漓尽致。
Really attractive woman in front of men, will be neither humble nor pushy conversation Fuga, beauty and wisdom, most incisive wit and thoughtful performance.
真正有魅力的女人在生活中会主宰自己的命运， 会调剂爱人情感，会制造浪漫情调。Really attractive woman will be the master of your own fate in life, will adjust lover emotion, will manufactureRomance
.7【学会平衡，讨人喜欢】
Learn to balance 7 [like],
好女人会平衡各种人际关系。不一味追求不切实际的东西,不说三道四制造矛盾，量力而行，量体裁衣，知足者常乐。
The good woman will balance all kinds of interpersonal relationship. Do not blindly pursue unrealistic things, do not make carping comments on problems in manufacturing, according to one's abilities, tailor, contentment.
8【智慧】8 [wisdom]
智慧，是一种理性，一种思维方式。智慧的女人，知道自己要什么，懂得自己该做什么不该做什么。不以卖弄自己的学历和知识为荣，而是更加注重运用。智慧的女人，懂得辨别男人，不会把心血浪费在不值得的男人身上。
Wisdom, is a rational, a way of thinking. A wise woman, know what you want, know what to do and what not to do. Not to show off his educational background and knowledge as the honor, but pay more attention to the use of. The wisdom of the woman, to know men, not to waste in not worth the effort of man.
9【善良的好女人】
9 [] good women
善良不是软弱更不是退让，而是从不主动伤害别人，不会纠缠不休，懂得适可而止。 为人处世以诚相待，不欺骗，不撒谎。以诚恳善良的心去面对所有的人。
Kind not to give way is not soft, but never take the initiative to hurt others, not nagging, know not overdo sth.. Being honest, don't cheat, don't lie. In a sincere and kind heart to face all the people.
10【宁缺毋滥】
10 it is better to leave a deficiency uncovered than to have it covered without discretion.
不要因为寂寞随手抓一个男人，这对你和他都不公平，对你不喜欢的追求者要坚定拒绝 。如果发短信息给你喜欢的男人，他不回，不要再发。如果男人以他忙为理由，不回你的信息，不关心你，勇敢一点，自动离开，然后去爱一个爱你的人!
Not because of loneliness readily grasp of a man, it would not be fair to you and him, doesn't like on your quest to firmly rejected. If you send a message to you like a man, he did not return, do not send. If his busy men to the ground, not to your information, do not care about you, brave, automatic leave, and love the one who loves you!
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