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Black and Asian Together??
Posted:Dec 28, 2011 8:56 pm
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2012 3:01 am
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Are there a lot of Asian men that like black women? Is there a lot of racism towards African American's from Asian's? I heard a lot of different things and I want to know what you think.

I was actually in a relationship with an Asian guy for 2 years and I am an African American women mixed with Asian also but I identify with my African American side more because I never had contact with my father and fathers' side of the family. But when people see me they will initially write me off as black because of my skin color but when they look at my face they see that I have slanted eyes and wonder what I am.

With that being said, I dated this Asian guy and one day we were talking on the phone and he had me on speaker phone. I heard his mom in the background asking if he was talking to a black girl and he answered yes. His mom changed to her native language and they started arguing. He was saying "because I like black girls mom who cares," back to her. She seemed really angry that he was dating a black girl.

So the day came for me to meet his racist mom and his family. His brother was also racist I came to find out. So when I meet her she started asking me why I have slanted eyes and I resemble Asians features and I told her I was mixed with some Asian. After that she treated me very kind and excepted me. But to me I may be mixed with Asian but I will never Identify myself as anything but African American and I have pride in being African American. I made me mad that in order for her to except me I had to have Asian in me. So are most Asians racist? What is the deal?

Also I am very attracted to Asian men and I experience when I date Asian guys and we walk around together I get a lot of racism from other Asians. They would give us dirty looks.

And on the other had I don't know how to feel being mixed with Asian and having so many Asians not except me because I am Black. I know that I could never go up to a group of Asians and feel like I am one of them but I know that I could go up to a group of Blacks and feel i am one of them.
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Jan 27, 2012 11:44 am