101 ways to express your love
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Posted:Sep 3, 2010 11:56 pm
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t’s an easy thing to tell someone you love them, but a truly romantic person knows that showing your love is more important to a relationship or marriage than simply stating your love. “I love you” may be a phrase of only three words, but there are millions of different romantic ideas and ways to say it to your boyfriend, girlfriend
, wife or husband. Never limit yourself to spoken words when expressing your romantic feelings!
Following are 101 inexpensive ways to say “I love you,” but they’re only the tip of a giant, romantic iceberg with limitless possibilities for you and your lover. Are they simple, common sense ideas? Well, sure they are.
1. Write your lover an original, romantic poem (no matter how bad or sappy it is!)
2. Give your lover a romantic massage
3. Take an evening to learn all about your lover’s hobby or unique interest
4. Prepare a romantic meal for your lover (even if you’re a lousy cook)
5. Rent a romantic movie to watch with your lover (An Affair to Remember and Casablanca are great!)
6. Make a list for your lover of your ten favorite romantic memories of the time you’ve spent together
7. Tell your lover how much you enjoy waking up to them in the morning as soon as you wake up
8. Buy flowers for your lover’s mother to thank her for bringing such a special person into the world
9. Wash the dishes by hand with your lover, even if you have a dishwasher
10. Bring your lover romantic flowers at least once a week
11. Take your lover to a free museum or art exhibit
12. Make a romantic picture frame for your lover with your favorite photo of you together
13. Brag to your friends or family about how much you adore your lover
14. Make dinner for your lover’s family to get to know them better
15. Offer to give your lover a haircut (but only if you know what you’re doing!)
16. Buy the sappiest, cheapest greeting card you can find and add your own special romantic message
17. Make giving your lover a hug your first priority when you get home from work
18. Tell your lover that your relationship is your number one priority
19. Ask your lover to teach you how to make their favorite meal
20. Take your lover to a romantic park to push them on a swing
21. Save romantic souveniers from every date you go on with your lover
22. Take your lover on a romantic ferris wheel ride
23. Clean your lover’s car for them
24. Write your lover a “101 reasons why I love you” list
25. Kiss your lover on the cheek every day
26. Make a romantic scrapbook full of pictures showing your lover as a growing up and give it to them as a present
27. Buy your lover an inexpensive box of candy to share together (not just for Valentine’s Day!)
28. Build a romantic sandcastle together with your lover at the beach
29. Take your lover back to the place where you went on your first date together
30. Give your lover a romantic thank-you note for all of the happiness they bring you
31. Learn how to sew and surprise your lover by fixing a ripped article of clothing for them
32. Email or scribble down a snippet from a romantic poem for your lover
33. Whisper secret romantic words in your lover’s ear, even when you are alone together
34. Put together a romantic photo album of pictures of you and your lover
35. Put a smiling picture of your lover on your car’s dashboard
36. Take your lover on a romantic afternoon hike or walk
37. Have flowers delivered to your lover at home or work
38. Read romantic love poems to your lover and laugh together at how sappy it is
39. Try to knit your lover a horrible, romantic winter hat, sweater or gloves
40. Mail your lover a card or letter expressing your love, even if you live together
41. Put a gentle arm around your lover’s shoulders when walking together
42. Make your lover a romantic calendar with a different picture of you together for each month
43. Watch a romantic movie together and make a bowl of popcorn for you to share
44. Take your lover on a romantic drive in a rich part of town to look at houses together
45. Buy an inexpensive bottle of wine for you and your lover to share
46. Say “I’m proud of you” to your lover
47. Paint a picture for your lover, no matter how awful your painting skills
48. Write a letter to the editor of your local paper thanking your lover for everything they do for you
49. Breath on your lover’s hands to warm them when it’s cold outside
50. Make your lover a romantic CD of songs that are special to you
51. Pack a special, romantic picnic for your lover
52. Take your lover out to try one of your favorite hobbies or sports–or try theirs!
53. Tell your lover how much your first kiss or date meant to you
54. Use romantic text messages to send your lover love letters on their cell phone
55. Start a romantic blog for your lover with pictures and posts about your relationship
56. Express your love on a mirror or window by writing with a bar of soap (don’t worry, it washes off!)
57. Romantically kiss each of your lover’s fingertips, one after another
58. Learn how to play a song for your lover on a musical instrument, then surprise them with a romantic impromptu performance
59. Surprise your lover with lunch at work
60. Surprise your lover with romantic rose petals on the pillows at bedtime
61. Cut out small hearts from construction paper and leave them in places where your lover will find them
62. Email your lover to let them know you are thinking of them during the day
63. Plant flowers in your lover’s yard or in a windowsill planter
64. Draw a romantic, funny cartoon for your lover expressing your love (the worse the drawing the better!)
65. Learn how to give your lover an amateur manicure
66. Sing a romantic karaoke song for your lover the next time you go to a bar together
67. Have a romantic dinner waiting for your lover after work
68. Light romantic candles for your lover at dinner, bedtime or when sitting around
69. Learn how say “I love you” in a different language to surprise your lover
70. Send a romantic e-card to your lover’s email inbox
71. Shovel the driveway for your lover after a snowstorm
72. Surprise your lover by changing the oil in their car or rotating their tires
73. Ask your lover’s family about any special ideas for making them happier
74. Offer to paint your lover’s nails (if a woman) or to help him shave (if a man)
75. Bake your lover a cake and write a special romantic message in frosting
76. Play romantic music while eating together or spending time together
77. Cook for your lover in a way you’ve never tried before, like grilling outside
78. Ask your lover to dance with you to a romantic song while your are alone together
79. Take your lover for a romantic bike ride
80. Use creative romantic words other than “I love you” to tell your lover how you feel
81. Rake the yard or mow the lawn for your lover
82. Instead of store-bought flowers, make a romantic bouquet of wildflowers for your lover
83. Make your lover homemade candy instead of buying
84. Take turns reading to each other from a favorite novel or book
85. Buy a book of romantic art and ask your lover to look at it with you
86. Make a scrapbook of all the romantic notes and cards you’ve received from your lover
87. Take your lover sledding on a snow day (it’s not just for !)
88. Make plans with your lover for exciting and fun weekend dates for the rest of the month
89. Try an exciting new recreational activity with your lover that neither of you have done before
90. Call in sick to work on your anniversary every year just to spend romantic time with your lover
91. Find out your lover’s favorite drink and become a master at making it
92. Make a list with your lover of all the wonderful things you have in common
93. Go to the fair with your lover and win them a stuffed animal (whether you’re a man or a woman!)
94. Call your lover during the work day to tell them you were thinking of them
95. Put time and thought into making homemade jewelry for your lover (but don’t forget to buy the real stuff occasionally!)
96. Ask your lover for a picture of them to carry in your wallet or purse
97. Try baking a romantic batch of cookies or cupcakes for you lover
98. Sneak out to get ice cream to share with your lover
99. Take your lover to garage sales or flea markets to shop together for things you both enjoy
100. Play a competitive game with your lover, whether physical or non-physical, and don’t be afraid to lose
101. Make your own list of 101 new ways to be romantic with your lover!
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101 Ways To Tell Your Wife, "I Love You"
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Posted:Sep 3, 2010 11:52 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2010 12:31 am 8063 Views
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SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE...STARTING TODAY!
1. LEAVE A WRAPPED PRESENT FOR HER TO FIND And I'm not talking about a cheap one (Unless that's what she likes). Buy a pretty-costly gift. Leave it in her car inside the glove compartment.
2. TELL HER SHE'S SEXY EVEN BEFORE SHE DRESSES HERSELF TO GO OUT She wants your passion to be expressed to her in any given situation. If she has to put on lingerie and hold the pink teddy to get you in the mood, then she may think you don't appreciate her unless things are always how you want them.
3. WRITE HER A LOVE POEM BEFORE YOU GO TO WORK This is an effective way to let her know that she's always on your mind when you're away. And she's the best person to be on your mind.
4. TAKE HER BY THE HAND AND TAKE HER TO A ROMANTIC DINE I can't emphasize this important tip, how romantic it is. You didn't ask her, but you decided to surprise her. Women love wonderful surprises such as this. You take her by the hand like you're her "Prince Charming" and off to the King's restaurant you go.
5. SEND HER A FEDEX CERTIFICATION PACKAGE When she signs for it, open it up, and look inside, there will be a necklace and a love note with your signature.
6. GO TO OFFICE MAX Have the clerk print you out a professionally printed invitation you personally wrote to your wife. It will say: "To THE LOVE OF MY LIFE, MY QUEEN, please join me at a picnic at ............." When you 2 lovers are there, the occasion might be so special that you would have to go home to make love, because the conversation you both had turned her on sexually.
7. REVERSED ROLE PLAY You be her, and she'll be you. Do the things that she does that make you feel good, and she'll do likewise. Say the things to her that she always say to you and vise-verso. ONLY THE SWEET THINGS.
8. GO FOR A WALK TOGETHER ON THE BEACH Money isn't everything. This will show that you enjoy being with her, and that you will be by her side regardless.
9. TAKE HER TO MEET HER FAVORITE CELEBRITY This isn't promised, but it would be a good effort. How much more romantic can it get for you to go through the trouble of making contacts just so that she can meet her favorite celebrity.
10. TAKE HER TO THE MUSIC STORE You can take her to any store for that matter just to find her the style of music she likes to listen to. This little bitty thing proves that you do care about her interests and not just yours.
11. WASH HER CAR ON THE INSIDE AND OUTSIDE And after you're done, say to her "FREE OF CHARGE."
12. PLAY WITH HER FEET Women love this.
13. TAKE HER TO THE AMUSEMENT PARK The rides are congested, and it's a great way to feel adrenaline while holding your wife, especially on a roller coaster.
14. TELL HER HOW GOOD IT FEELS When she rubs you, or touches you. She wants to know that you appreciate her and enjoy being with her alone.
15. GIVE HER A PIGGY BACK RIDE This is perfect for on the beach, or in a park.
16. TAKE HER TO SIX FLAGS
17. GIVE HER A "SHOUT-OUT" ON THE RADIO This isn't just for the teenagers, this is also for couples who want to say "I love you." Jockeys do this.
18. GET HER RIMS CLEANED You're tired of seeing your wife drive a car with filthy rims. If you really care about her having nice stuff, take her car to the shop to have her rims done. This saids a whole lot about you as a caring provider. It's not that you helped her buy the car, but that you wanted her to be happy with it too.
19. PUT AN AD IN THE PAPER The ad will say, "To my wife, who is also a great mother to my , we love you honey."
20. GROW HER SOME MUM FLOWERS Grow red ones and white ones.
21. DON'T FIGHT OVER T.V. SHOWS Watch her favorite shows with her. You'll get to watch football some other day.
22. THROW HER A PARTY Invite friends over. Have a good time, and if she asks you the occasion, just tell her you enjoy doing things with her, and that you can have a good time with her like you can with your friends. This will make her feel very special.
23. PLAY PARCHEESE Women like table games.
24. KISS HER IN THE MORNING Most couples do it at night, but it pays to do it early.
25. WATER GUN FIGHTS This is a lot of fun when a couple have water gun fights. This is good for foreplay as well. Nothing like a little "come catch me" before sex.
26. BE OPEN-MINDED The best discussions are the ones in which each person understands the other's view points and how they feel.
27. GIVE HER A SENSUAL BROTHEL MASSAGE Taken out of context, this means that you will run her very warm water, pour sweet fragrance oils in the water, and bath powders. Her skin will be so soft that you'll be able to easily massage her shoulders and neck while she's in the tub.
28. BUY HER A CALENDER Tell her you bought it so she can mark the days and times when she wants to do something special with you.
29. GO ON A BOAT RIDE TOGETHER This is valuable time spent wisely.
30. PAY TO GET HER NAILS DONE Make sure you stay with her until she's done, and pay the manicurist. Also, be sure to compliment her nails.
31. MAKE A TOAST TO MORE OK. Just kidding, but a toast is good occasionally. Make a toast with a glass of orange juice.
32. PLAY A GAME OF PARCHEESE This is for laughs, but it works.
33. RE-ENACT HER FANTASY Be modest here, as women tend to fantasize greatly. It doesn't hurt to fantasize every now and then. You do it all the time in your own mind.
34. LET HER TIE YOU UP This is more in the category of fetishes. If this isn't her fetish, find out what is. And I'll leave it at that.
35. TAKE HER TO A HORROR PICTURE SHOW Women like to be cuddled and close to their husband while watching a scary movie.
36. PICK A FOUR-LEAF CLOVER If you find one while you're sitting on your backyard patio with your wife, pick it up and make a wish to your successful marriage.
37. GO TO THE MUSIC STUDIO FOR A RECORDING This may seem a bit over the edge, but this shows that you are not a boring husband who isn't interested in doing anything but waiting for her to fix you dinner and do house work. Show her that you believe in her potential. Do something with her you don't normally do, like shoot hoops (basketball).
38. DANCE FOR HER This is also very good to spark things up. Move your hips around, and she might join you. Play the stripper. This might actually make her laugh too.
39. BRUSH YOUR TEETH One of the worst things a husband can do is to kiss his wife with stinky breath. Listerine helps.
40. OFFER TO GO SHOPPING WITH HER Women love this.
41. MENTION HER GOOD HABITS I'm sure you married her for something other than what you wanted. Compliment her for being a great mother to your . Compliment her for being so neat that you come home only to see that she is also a great housekeeper. If she has a talent, compliment it.
42. BE GRACIOUS TOWARDS HER What I mean is this, couples tend to always discuss each other's faults and what have you, but make an effort to discuss your faults first, and the time will come when faults from both parties will be discussed. But this time, you want to show that you are just as forgiving and loving as you are critical.
43. TAKE A SELF DEFENSE CLASS WITH HER This may sound odd, but the moral of the story is that being involved in a curriculum activity with your wife in a learning environment creates a stronger bond.
44. PLAY TRUTH OR DARE Ask her only the sweet questions like: "Truth or dare, I truly want to be with you for the rest of my life." And she will say, "truth." And when you dare her, say something like, "I dare you to join me for a romantic candle light dinner." She will happily accept that challenge.
45. MAKE A NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTION When the new year comes around, make it your resolution to be the best father and husband you can be. It's good that you're already doing it, but sometimes people need to hear it from your mouth.
46. PLAY AN ADULT GAME This you can do when the are away. There's nothing wrong with a married couple playing hide-go-seek. When you find her, embrace her with passion and love.
47. GIVE HER A HICKEY She might not mind this if it's not on her neck.
48. SACRIFICE YOUR FREE TIME I know men have to get out of the house, but set aside some of the time you spend with buddies to be with your wife.
49. REENACT AN EXCERT FROM A LOVE MOVIE You can do this before going to bed.
50. TELL HER HOW MUCH SHE MEANS TO YOU Every woman needs this.
51. GIVE HER FRIENDLY TEASES Notice that I said "FRIENDLY!" This shouldn't be too hard for you since you were such a smooth talker that you got her to go out on a date with you before you 2 were together. Show your wife that you haven't lost touch, and that you can still be a smooth talker today. Tell her how nice her legs are when they're across your lap. Tell her that she must have been an athlete because of her nicely shaped breasts. Be a .
52. TELL HER WHAT A NICE DAY YOU HAD AT WORK
53. CALL HER WHILE YOU ARE AT WORK As her how things are going. Ask her if there is anything she got planned for the evening, and if not, surprise her with a special plan when you get home.
54. DON'T SAY ANTHING Sometimes silence is the best answer. When she's expressing her feelings about something, often times, this is a sign that she wants to be heard and not corrected. Just listen to what she has to say.
55. RE-ENACT A NON-TRADITIONAL WEDDING Have a second wedding, but only this time, you will stage a medieval wedding, and you will wear a knight's armour. Your wife will be the princess. Put up decorations of horses and water fountains. Be creative.
56. PLAY PARCHEESE
57. FIX YOUR TIE This is a small thing, but when you are going to special occasional events, how you look makes a difference in whether or not you'll embarrass her.
58. GET A TATOO One with her name won't hurt.
59. FIND AN ARTIST Have the artist draw a picture of your wife on the canvas. When he's done, take it to get it framed.
60. FIND OUT WHAT HER AMBITIONS ARE Make an effort to fulfill at least one of them.
61. COMPLIMENT HER HAIR After she returns home from the salon, compliment her hair.
62. CHALLENGE HER TO A RACE This is a lot of fun, and it will make the bond in your relationship stronger. Wives love it when their husband challenge them to something.
63. FLY OVER NIAGARA FALLS Take her on a plane ride, and fly over Niagara Falls.
64. TELL HER SOME JOKES Women love to laugh.
65. ADD HER AS A FRIEND ON MYSPACE Your wife is also your best friend, and if she is, add her on myspace, facebook, and soundclick.
66. GIVE HER YOUR SWEATER Dedicate your new sweater to her when it gets cold, it will have your initials on it.
67. WEAR THE SAME COLORS I've seen couples wearing the same colors out in public. This is a way to compliment your relationship with your wife.
68. CARESS HER FOR NO REASON Gently ease your arms around her just for the heck of it.
69. DO FAMILY PLANNING Women love it when a man shows that he is responsible.
70. TAKE A BATH WITH HER No sex, please, just caressing.
71. LOOK FOR WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR SEX LIFE I recommend the book, 'Kama Sutra." It can be very helpful with technique.
72. SEND HER A VOICE MAIL This is only for husbands who are computer savvy.
73. DON'T BOTHER HER WHILE SHE'S IN THE RESTROOM
74. ACCEPT HER MISTAKES WITH A WARM HEART Treat her how you want her to treat you. Put yourself in her shoes. That is called empathy.
75. SAY THANK YOU
76. KEEP 2 CELLPHONES This is good if you're an outgoing person.
77. BE CONFIDENT The man is the head of the house. Somebody has to stay strong, and the wife can't do it all by herself. Be her help meet and not a burden.
78. ADMIT WHEN YOU'RE WRONG You're not always right. Admit to your wife when you're wrong. And get your act together.
79. DON'T LISTEN TO FRIENDS They don't know your wife like you do. Don't take for granted that the advice you get is pretty accurate. This can jeopardize a marriage.
80. NO MORE THAN 4 DRINKS If your wife drinks, don't allow more than 4 drinks. Alcohol can become a problem in a family relationship.
81. NO MORE THAN 4 DRINKS If you are a drinker, don't have more than 4 drinks. Your drinking can become a problem also.
82. COMPLIMENT HER COOKING
83. PLAY PARCHEESE .
84. TICKLE HER TOES Wives love that.
85. LAUGH WITH THE FAMILY Unless you're one of those grumpy husbands, a little laughter is good for the family.
86. KILL THE SPIDER You know how women are when it comes to spiders. If you see one kill it. Don't tell her to do it. Be brave, unless it's a brown recluse spider. Then both of you better run.
87. WRITE A BOOK Write a book and have it published. Then, dedicate the book to her.
88. PLAY PARCHEESE This is good for entire family.
89. TAKE OUT THE TRASH It's a good idea to take some of the load off the every now and then. You're not taking away their responsibilities, you're just being a loving dad. Wives like to see their husbands improving their relationship with the .
90. MOTIVATE HER When she is at work she does a great job, and you need to encourage her to keep up the good work.
91. PAINT A PICTURE This is something you and your wife can do together.
92. TAKE HER ON A VACATION Don't be calling the every 5 minutes to check up on them. This is private time with your wife.
93. GO DANCING
94. BE HER NURSE WHEN SHE IS SICK You were next to her when she was about to have your baby. It won't hurt to be her nurse when she needs some compassion.
95. DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE The tile floor is coming loose and your wife has been complaining about it. Fix it.
96. WRITE HER A STORY Make it sweet. She'll cherish it.
97. SHOW HER NEW HOBBIES Most women don't know how to play chess. This would be a great game for you to teach her.
98. OPEN A JOINT ACCOUNT
99. OPEN AN ACCOUNT FOR HER SPENDING Women like to spend money. Open her up an account just for that cause.
100. PLAY PARCHEESE
101. STAY COMMITTED
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How to forget someone you love
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Posted:Sep 3, 2010 11:49 pm
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2010 7:59 pm 7531 Views
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How to forget the person you love
Forgetting loved one is not a easy task. Though it hurts and will take time to get over him/her, think about the rest of your life, and do it with your brain and reason, not your emotions and heart. “It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.” But nothing is impossible .... You may try these ....and enjoy your lifeIf your quest is to know how to get over someone you love, then you must realize that the answers are far-fetched. No matter how satisfied you think you are to move on and get over that person, that you have to ask how to do it all shows that it's going to be a painful process. sometimes it's a somewhat slow process.
You might think you've gotten rid of that person, only for you to start thinking about him or her after a year or two, you have feelings of pain and sadness again. That doesn’t mean you’re not over the person, though. If you've invested a lot emotionally into a relationship and it ends, it will surely make you feel sad for years. Perhaps, even for the rest of your life.
However, that doesn't mean you wallow in sadness and possibly be depressed. By getting over the person, you can realize that losing them made you sad, and look back on it as you would any sad loss. Basically, the period immediately after the loss should be the hardest,that reminds of the quest-how to get over someone you love.No one want to forget his/her loved one. Sometime it become necessary. Forgetting loved one is not a easy task. Though it hurts and will take time to get over him/her, think about the rest of your life, and do it with your brain and reason, not your emotions and heart. “It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.” But nothing is impossible .... You may try these ....and enjoy your life
1. Start liking someone else quick. In this position of depression, you are very vulnerable to emotional attacks. Liking someone else will distract you from that old girl.
2. Don't listen to any slow or love songs... you will grow desperate.
3. If you are friends with her, make it clear to yourself that friendship is all she wants. She has her boyfriend because she likes him!
4. Be sensitive to her, but not overly. You'll just be digging a deeper hole for yourself.
5. There are other women, who will accept you! Go for it.
6. Go out and have some fun. Don't just stay at home thinking about what she's doing with the bf.
7. Don't cry over a woman who doesn't like you.
8. Do not let yourself think that you are not attractive, or that you will never find someone better. There is always someone better.
9. If she has a MySpace, Facebook, etc, avoid her page. Seeing her and her boyfriend there will just hurt.
10. Don't have her within your top 5/10/etc, unless you are practically best friends. She'll just be suspicious.
11. Try not to look at her.
12. If you start to think about her, then think about someone else. Someone hotter.
13. Don't be calling her a lot. That's just not cool.
14. Unless you have a legit reason, just don't call/text her.
15. Don't call her babe, baby, etc.
16. Don't look at her as the most important person in your life.
17. Say no to her once in awhile.
18. If you are a student: Forget her because it could effect your mental health, which will directly affect your studies. After all, your degree is more important.
19. Make sure that you self analyze your relationship and jot down the pros and cons of your relationship: This is the most important step to prepare yourself, as you will need to know exactly what makes your relationship work: Is it the love, is it the sex, is it the companionship, is it the family pressure, is it your friends etc. You need to know the strong points and the weak points in your relationship. This way you can build on the strong aspects on your relationship, while neutralizing the weak aspects.
20. Make sure that you especially analyze your faults and weaknesses: For example, if your ex-lover thought that you were self centered, then you should recognize this and thus take steps to change yourself. Don’t forget that whatever caused your relationship to fail, you hold the key inside you. However, in order to fix it, you must know what aspects of yourself to change.
21. While you are doing the self analysis above, make sure that you provide your ex-partner with some space and time. Your partner must understand that you won’t die, because your relationship has broken. Don’t forget that emotional blackmail is the worst thing that you can do. If you want to win your ex back, you must be confident and you must show your ex that life doesn’t revolve around you two.
22. Improve yourself: To show your ex that you have changed and also to show that you still have the positive qualities that you had in your relationship; you must improve yourself. Go to a gym and start a weight loss program, whether you need it or not. At the least try to make yourself physically fit. If possible, change your job and get a better one to show that you can be a better person.
23. Make sure that you keep the channels of communication open: Go to your friends for advice. If you have the chance, make sure that you visit your ex-lovers friends. Show them that you have changed, so that they can tell your ex informally. No matter what happens make sure that you have a calm demeanor. The task ahead to make up won’t be easy; but these preparations will help you get through it.
If you know more ......... please leave comment which will help other.
How to Enjoy a happy life
* Take time to smell the roses. Don't tailgate. Keep it simple.
* Enjoy good company. Keep your promises.
* Listen to your .
* Be kinder than necessary.
* Wear outrageous underwear on a job interview, or to work!
* Take good care of those you love.
* Make it a habit to do nice things for people who never find out.
* Judge your success by the degree that you enjoy peace and good health.
* Be a good loser.
* Be a better winner. Be romantic.
* Live so that when your think of fairness, caring and integrity, they think of you.
* Enjoy real maple syrup.
* Never refuse homemade brownies.
happy life
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HOW TO MAKE SOMEBODY LOVE YOU
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Posted:Sep 3, 2010 11:42 pm
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2010 8:00 pm 7482 Views
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You have met your soul mate, the one and only, now what? Now you have to make him or her fall madly, drunkly, and blindly in love with you. You could use the old-fashioned, outdated method of getting to know the person, dating, and being yourself...letting the love and mutual respect develop naturally, but do you really have the time and patience for that?
In this day and age, only fools let love follow its natural course. You need to act now and manipulate the situation to your advantage, unless you want to end up a forty year old living with your parents. And, don't forget old Aunt Marge pinching your cheeks, asking for the 947,329th time: "When are you going to get married?”
Ten Ways to Make Someone Love You
1. Be Needy: You have to let this person know you need him or her. Not only will it make your love feel good to be wanted, but you will be able to latch on quickly and get your hooks in nice and deep.
2. Learn Everything: Dig deep and discover everything about your love. You will amaze him or her with your ability to know this person so well. It will seem uncanny that you can know so much about this person. Some might call it stalking, but it's not like background checks are illegal.
3. Meet the Parents: You don't even have to wait for your love interest to introduce you. Take some initiative and meet them on your own. You will get to know a lot more about your love through his or her family. Plus, it will make it more difficult for this person not to get into a relationship with you once the family loves you!
4. Say I Love You: Nothing better lets someone know exactly how you feel than actually telling them. That's right, be honest. You need to get it out in the open, and let him or her know exactly what you expect from the relationship. If your love wants to know which relationship you are talking about, don't hold back: tell this person everything! You can even share the ideas you have for what to name your .
5. Get the Friends: You know #3? Well, the same thing applies here, but focus on the friends. Once you have infiltrated the group of friends, you are in for life. Find out what their interests are, where they hang out, what they do--and make sure you are always around.
6. Make Your Interests Match: Whoever said that you should be independent was crazy. You need to find out what interests your love. Then, make sure he or she knows that you have the same exact interests! You might have to stay up all night reading up on baseball stats or learn the local theater schedules, but it will be worth it when you have your arms wrapped, dead-tight, around your love.
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PDA: Oh yeah...public displays of affection. Get it on as soon as possible. Nothing will endear you to your love more than being all over him or her in public. The moment you see this person, start touching. Do whatever you have to do to get a hold of his or her hand. Hug your love and don't hold those smooches back. If he or she seems a little weirded out about it, don't worry...keep the PDA going strong. It will pay out in the long run.
8. Get a Tattoo: A huge tattoo. Preferably with a giant heart. Don't forget the most important part: your love's name! For extra points, get a tattoo of his or her face.
9. Move In: Your love interest might not think it is a great idea at first, but you can work around that. Just start bringing your stuff over and leaving it at his or her place. Get yourself a key- I know you can find a way- and let yourself in whenever you need to. Definitely be sure to create your space at his/her place. And, make sure your picture is everywhere. This way, you won't be forgotten when you aren't around for a little while.
10. Love Spells: If all else fails, try some love spells. That's right: voodoo it. Wrap that guy or gal around your finger. It's all about the manipulation. Steal some hair, light a candle, and bad karma be damned!
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HOW TO BE LOVED
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Posted:Sep 3, 2010 11:38 pm
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2010 8:00 pm 7561 Views
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Falling in love is easy. This is something that you can control. You meet someone who has all that you have been looking for. They are nice, honest, and fun to be around. They are also very attractive. Your love grows the longer that you know them. But do they love you? There are certain things that you can do to increase the chances of becoming loved.
Love Yourself
You can't expect anyone to love you if you can't even love yourself. Before you get into a serious relationship, you may want to work on your self confidence. No matter what society says, you are great the way you are. Feeling bad about yourself is just a waste of energy and time. You'll find that you are much happier once you allow yourself to love who you are.
There are side effects to loving yourself that can improve your chances of someone loving you. For example, when you have more self confidence, you will treat yourself better. These areas will likely improve:
* Personal hygiene: keeping yourself clean and smelling wonderful
* Physical appearance: with hair, clothing and/or makeup
* Nutrition: you'll surely eat better when you respect yourself more
* Fitness: in line with nutrition, you will care more about your body if you have more confidence.
Be Open to Love
If you want love to come to you, you need to be open to it. You have a much better chance of someone falling in love with you if you are sweet, nice and outgoing. Don't fold your arms or turn away from people you're talking to. Often the most important part of communication is non-verbal. Sit closer to the person that you're with. If you do, they will feel more comfortable about being around you. When you sit far away with a frown on your face, you are showing someone that you aren't ready to love.
Be Honest
When people are asked what they want in a relationship, the majority mentions honesty. For most people, this aspect is at the top of the list. A relationship built on a core of honesty has a much better chance of lasting a long time. When you're honest with your partner, or with a potential mate, you are showing respect to them.
It can often be very hard for people to be honest. In a way, they think that it's easier to lie. If you put the effort into being honest, it shows them that you care and that you are willing to make it work. If you want to be loved, you should strive to keep honesty in your relationship.
Be Yourself
As much as you want to be loved, that person should love you for who you are and not who you pretend to be. Anyone can pretend to be everything that his or her mate desires, and while this can lead to a relationship, it won't be fulfilling. This is an extension of honesty. Don't just tell the truth with your words, tell the truth with who you are. Do you like watching cheesy horror movies? Don't hide it. You should want to be loved by someone who has those same interests. This will help you achieve a deeper and more fulfilling love.
If you love yourself, are open to love, are honest, and are being yourself, there's no reason why someone can't fall in love with you. Follow these rules and you will have a much better chance at the relationship that you dream of.
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Jim Brickman - Simple Things Lyrics
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Posted:Nov 20, 2010 8:37 pm
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2010 3:16 am 7769 Views
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Hey, time won't wait, life goes by
Every day's a brand new sky
Every tear comes to dry
All that really matters in this crazy world
Is you and I together baby, just remember
The first leaves off the tree, the way you look at me
A thousand chiming church bells ring, the simple things are free
The sun, the moon, the stars, the beating of two hearts
How I love the simple things, the simple things just are
So here we go, let's just dance
Teach my soul to take this chance
Put my heart in your hands
Out of all the moments that we leave behind
Turn around and tell me baby, we'll remember
The thunder and the rain, the way you say my name
After all the clouds go by, the simple things remain
The sun, the moon, the stars, the beating of two hearts
How I love the simple things, the simple things just are
Oh, the ocean and the sky, the way we feel tonight
I know that it's the love that brings the simple things to life
The sun, the moon, the stars, the beating of two hearts
I love the way the simple things, the simple things just are
I love the way the simple things, the simple things just are
The simple things just are
The simple things just are
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Signs That You Are Meant To Be Together
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Posted:Nov 3, 2010 10:24 pm
Last Updated:May 1, 2024 9:48 am 9046 Views
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So you’re getting along really great and things seem to be going better than you ever thought they would. In the middle of all of this, you may start to wonder if this could be THE relationship. Are you meant to be together? Have a look at the following signs that may point to just that:
1) You tell each other things you’d never share with anyone else. When you start sharing your secrets, there’s a level of trust building that true relationships must have.
2) That guard is let down and you see each other when you’re not at your best. It’s always easy to love someone when they’re in a great mood, but when they’re sad and down about something, it’s a bit more difficult. This, too, requires trust.
3) You respect each other. This is a vital part of any successful relationship and when it comes from both sides without being forced, there’s an excellent chance this is meant to be.
4) You each want the other to meet your respective parents. This is a big one because no one ever gets taken home to meet the parents until the potential is high for a long term relationship.
5) You’re both seeing the chance for a future together. While you may not be picking out your china pattern or practicing writing a new last name, the thought is starting to cross your mind periodically, just as it has with him.
6) The two of you aren’t afraid to disagree with each other. You each know that you’re individuals with your own opinions about things. So you also know that if you disagree or argue about something, it’s not fatal to the relationship.
7) There is the desire to work out any differences you may have. Both of you seriously WANT to do this because the relationship is valued.
You laugh together. Everyone knows that laughter is one of the healthiest things you can do for yourself and your relationship. When your laughter together is spontaneous and real, your relationship is on the right track.
9) The physical chemistry and attraction you have for one another is undeniable and intense. This is even more important if the attraction is there although you’re not each other’s “type.”
10) There are no uncomfortable silences between you. Sometimes you just sit with each other quietly and it’s ok.
11) It’s easy to be yourselves with each other. Neither of you have to pretend to be something that you’re not.
12) There’s just the right amount of needing each other in the relationship. You miss each other when you’re apart, but you don’t cease to be functional.
13) There’s not a lot of jealousy in the relationship. This is because of that trust again, but also because you know how you feel about each other.
14) You bring out the best in each other.
15) There’s a deep understanding between you. This goes even deeper than finishing each other’s sentences.
If you have even half of the things on this list present in your relationship, you’re on the way to possibly having THE relationship you’re meant to enjoy.
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Soulmate Love: What Are the Signs That You’ve Found Your Soul Mate?
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Posted:Oct 27, 2010 6:45 am
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2010 3:20 am 8406 Views
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 Does a true soulmate love match exist? If you’re truly blessed, you just might end up finding true love with your soul mate. If you do meet your soulmate, what are the signs that you've found "the one?"
Are you with a date or soul mate?
How do you know when you’ve found true love with your soul mate? It’s hard to come up with a definition of true love. It’s hard to describe one’s soul mate. But, once you’ve found true love with your soul mate, it’s not something you’re going to miss.
When you finally find your true love… when you find your soul mate, you will definitely feel it. You will know. And you will be sure!
How?
When you’re with your soul mate, you will feel as if you’ve always been together — not just in this lifetime, but even in another lifetime. It will feel as if you’ve been together forever.
When you finally get together, you’ll find that some deep longing you’ve had in your heart and soul has finally been filled.
Of course, you’ll have problems. All relationships have challenges. But, for every moment that you spend with your soul mate, you will be sure of one thing: this person is "the one.” There will be no doubt in your mind that you belong together. There will be no doubt that you’ve come home to someone you can grow old with and be with forever!
You’ve found someone who understands you and accepts you. You’ve found someone who can soothe your soul.
When you’ve found true love with your soul mate, can not possibly miss it. You will know because you have never felt this way before… until the moment you found this special person.
If you're lucky enough to end up finding your soulmate and falling in love, you will definitely know you have it. Hopefully, you will have the necessary relationship skills to enhance your soulmate love instead of throwing it away.
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5 Tips on How To Mend a Broken Heart
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Posted:Sep 3, 2010 11:44 pm
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2010 11:58 pm 7432 Views
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How to Mend a Broken Heart
Anyone who has gone through a breakup or divorce and has come out the other side with a broken heart, knows what we are talking about.
It can be a very painful experience!
One of the ways to help yourself to feel better and actually heal from a breakup or divorce is to begin to listen to what you are telling yourself. In other words, pay attention to your “self talk.”
We all talk to ourselves all of the time and this is what we calling 'self talk.' These thoughts come and go in our minds and they can either help us go through life with relative ease or struggling at every step of the way.
In our experience, this 'self talk' can either keep you stuck in the past--mulling over what went wrong or what you should have done differently--or stuck in the future--worrying about what might happen at some point down the road.
Or 'self talk' can help you to stay in the present moment, dealing practically with what's happening right now, and move powerfully and positively into your future.
One of the best kept secrets is that you can change your thoughts. Believe it or not, many people learn how to do it.
Here are 5 ways to change 'self talk' to help you ease your pain from your breakup or divorce...
1. Become aware of what you are telling yourself.
Believe it or not, our houghts are habits that we've created along the way. For instance, there's the "guilt" set of thoughts, the "worry" set of thoughts, the "fear" set of thoughts, the "I'm always going to be alone" set of thoughts, the "nothing's wrong" set of thoughts or the "sunny outlook" set of thoughts--you get the idea.
If you want to begin healing your pain, start paying attention to your particular set of thoughts. You might even give them a name.
Maybe you've not had these thoughts until your breakup or maybe they've been with you for a long time. Whichever is the case, just begin noticing what thoughts roll through your mind.
2. Once you have become aware of your thoughts, decide the thoughts that make you feel better, easier about your situation and those that don't. Take a legal pad or notebook and at the top of the page, make 2 columns with these headings: "Feel better" and "Feel Worse."
Keep the legal pad or notebook where you can easily reach it. As thoughts come to you, write them down under one of those two categories. Do this long enough for you to see on paper, your patterns of thinking that are either helping you or pulling you down.
3. Identify one reoccurring thought or pattern that is bringing you pain and make the commitment to yourself to change it. Write your commitment down and post it where you'll see it often.
It could go something like this...
"I commit to changing my thoughts about how alone I am right now. I may not be with a partner right now but I don't have to constantly remind myself."
4. Chose a thought that is better.
Taking our example, this thought is probably not going to be that you are completely joyful, are with your perfect partner, or feel completely satisfied with your current situation. It may be that a better thought is that when a thought comes up about how alone you are, you change that thought to "I can call Bonnie or Carol and either talk with them or arrange to go to dinner or a movie."
5. Practice in each moment and break your habit.
Have you ever broken a habit? It takes being aware of what you are doing and then making a change in the moment. Your thought pattern is a habit and can be changed--but you have to believe the thought that you are changing to--and you have to practice it.
If feeling better is important to you, this is valuable information that will help you to move forward in your healing process from your breakup or divorce.
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ONLY HOPE
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Posted:Aug 25, 2010 9:58 pm
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2010 3:20 am 7847 Views
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There's a song that's inside of my soul It's the one that I've tried to write over and over again I'm awake in the infinite cold But you sing to me over and over again So I lay my head back down And I lift my hands and pray to be only yours I pray to be only be Yours I know now you're my only hope Sing to me the songs of the stars of your galaxy dancing and laughing and laughing again When it feels like my dreams are so far Sing to me of the plans that you have for me over again So I lay my head back down And I lift my hands and pray To be only yours i pray I know now you're my only hope I give you my destiny I'm giving you all of me I want your symphony Singing in all that I am At the top of my lungs I'm giving it back So I lay my head back down And I lift my hands and pray To be only yours I pray to be only yours I pray To be only yours I know now you're my only hope
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