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7 Ways to Show Love to Our are our most important legacy to the world. However, our love is our most important legacy to our . Here are seven ways to show love that will help build sturdy foundations for the future. 1. Spend Time with Your . Time is the most loving gift we can give to our . It allows for the mutual exchange of ideas, emotions, actions, and words that help our develop and learn to communicate. Enjoy a 's tea parties as well as a 's ball games. Help your build things and create art. Begin new family traditions that you can enjoy together each year. Ample time spent in mutually enjoyable activities will create memories you will always treasure. 2. Be the Primary Role Model for Your . need examples to follow. Teach practical values to your by modeling those values. Admit when you have made a mistake and apologize. Model being committed to the ideals you embrace. Demonstrate the advantage of integrity over peer pressure. We teach and influence more through actions than words. We are our 's first heroes; the ideals that we live today are the ideals that will influence our throughout life. 3. Listen to Your . A 's message is one of his or her most essential gifts. We build self-esteem in when we show interest in what they have to say. need to communicate their pride of accomplishment as well as their needs. Get down at eye level with very young and listen with your eyes, ears, and heart. Listen most of all to the feelings conveyed through a 's eyes and expressions. If you listen to your deeply, they will grow up listening deeply to you. 4. Provide Your with Loving Discipline. need guidelines and safe boundaries without being constrained unnecessarily. They need to learn the value of being accountable for their choices and actions. Let your know that you disapprove of hurtful actions but will always love them as sons and daughters. Loving discipline enables them to recognize the best in other people. It allows the freedom to explore the world safely and reach their highest potential. 5. Give Your Encouragement. Encouraging words are powerful emotional deposits of confidence and self-esteem. Verbally acknowledge your 's special talents and accomplishments. Catch your doing something great, and tell them what a great job they have done. need to know that we recognize and support their hopes and dreams for the future. Encouraging to grow mentally, emotionally, and spiritually provides the foundation for living a balanced life. 6. Share Your Experiences with Your . We each have valuable stories to tell, unique maps of our journey through life. These stories tell how our reactions to events created the life we are living now. Sharing the benefit of your experiences? The roadblocks and rewards? Is a very loving way to guide your ? Your may face many of the situations you faced. Your experiences can help them make informed decisions and avoid unnecessary mistakes. Among the most worthwhile possessions that we can someday leave for our are journals filled with the stories that shaped our lives. 7. Love and Support Your Unconditionally. Love is an unconditional gift from the heart; it is not a reward for good behavior. Let your know that you will love and support them in any situation. This message creates a sturdy bond of trust. Your will grow to feel safe in coming to you with any problem they face. need the freedom to make decisions, try new things, and learn that life requires personal responsibility and persistence. They need the freedom to fail and learn from mistakes without being judged. Unconditional love helps them to acquire the decisiveness and resiliency required to become successful. If you could sum up all of our 's needs, hopes, and expectations in one word, that word would be love. We share love when we play a central role in our 's world of learning and discovery. Our legacy of love will have a guiding influence upon our and grandchildren for many generations.  Regards, Judi 4 Love |
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11/15/2007 3:40 am |
good words, maybe it's meaningful for my baby. 我要学会宽容~~~~塔拉
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Thanks lady for your comment..I'm really appreciated that..hope you can find out the best one for your future... Regards, Judi 4 Love
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