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SuperBowl Party and Dating Issues Today, for Super Bowl, I went to a new acquaintance's Townhouse for a party. So I met a few new people and some old friends too. I'm not into football and the teams I don't know well. So I chatted with other guests, played pool. We discussed about the Dating Scene in Seattle and what people had experienced, their expectations. The host one time had a discussion between a group of men and women. I asked him if he will host another meeting like that one, so I can also facilitate, as a Dating coach. It would be fun to hear out complaints, from the opposite sex about Dating. The host of the party told us his main complaint of women that he might chase first. His expectation is that the women would return the favor of initiating the call or text, to tell him that they are still interested in him. If they do anything, and keep waiting for him to do all the work, he would drop them as a potential date. So some of the women said they are more traditional and expect the man to ask them out. For me, I rather sometimes take control and ask the guy out for a casual dinner or date, since maybe I like laid back men. I basically like to make the decision and not wait so much, partly since I'm a bit impatient. Sometimes if you wait too long, then the opportunity is lost since I know a few of my Male friends have gotten married after their divorces, within 3 -5 years. So maybe I sort of missed out in dating them. I did keep in contact with them basically. So now they are truely Just Friends. So ladies, don't wait forever to tell a guy that you are interested in him since he can go forward in meeting other women too!  Sugi Dancer, Dating Coach |
