Men how to get the woman you want / Women: How to get the man you want
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Posted:May 26, 2014 8:12 am
Last Updated:May 30, 2014 4:46 am 20465 Views
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When men try to give a woman everything, do everything for her, and become to smother her with attention.. she will lose interest. Because it means she does not have to reach within herself to give of herself.
Women are HIGHLY COMPETITIVE, Many time you can get a woman's attention quicker by "ignoring her", than to be 'chasing after her". Remember, it's her job to attract you, and they go to great pains to do what they think they need to do to attract you. So when they are ignored, then they become interested to know why and how her efforts did not attract you.
She needs to continually have to earn and win your appreciation and approval, but if you keep giving it without her having to do anything, then you are no longer the challenge she needs to keep her efforts directed toward earning and winning your appreciation.
Most women don't even know this about themselves. But in principal this is the way the cycle works. If she can smile, and play the temp and tease flirt and though those legs apart and change your mind about something, you will soon lose that woman. In her mind, if you fell for that, then any woman can make you fall for anything. That's how they see it. They don't see it that you yield to her out of care and appreciations. Remember: women are competitive; women remain competitive and will continue to be competitive. They rarely want the man they can easily have, they want the man they can't easily have, and the man whom she feels if she does not stay focused on how to keep his attention, that she will not have him. These guys even rich guys, who give them the big house, the credit card, cash and cars and jewelry, "Eventually" when the fancy illusion of that wears thin, she will easily be tempted by the man who has less, but does not give her the time of day unless she ask for it with a very considerate and respectful way. She will even get to a point to tell the man who has all the money and give her all the things that, she does not care about that, she cares about him. Which means, she wants to win his heart and respect, not feel that she has been bought and paid for. At that point, the material things she may still like them, but they don't mean the same to her. Many women have left men with money and took nothing with them. And some will get so angry, they want to take everything he has, because she feels scorned and full of resentment, that she allowed herself to be bought, and that he felt that he bought her.
Women already in many cases think they can have any many they want, especially women with pretty faces and shapely butts. But they often only want the man they can't have, and the one who is not offering her a bunch of stuff and playing like a kiss up to her. She is attracted to the man who makes his decision and acts decisively. That means, be nice, but don't be a push over.
If you notice, "every woman" has a readymade list of sarcasms", they can spew for various situations. then men who fold over when she spews it, she is not interested in him, she would more like be interested in the man that blow her off and sling it right back, just like she threw it out there. ( if that is the case).
If she comes to you first, then don't become a marshmallow that just met the flame, because you will lose compose and be just a bunch of sticky gooey mess. And we all know, when that happens, the aim is to get if off of our fingers. Generally we will either lick our fingers till it’s gone, or wipe it on a paper towel and throw it away.
Women are not as complicated as the folklore would like one to believe, they have to be left in a position where she has to put forth some effort to win you as well as she has to put forth some effort to keep you. If she does not have to earn it, why should she value it. As with the human being, what we don't earn, we often take it for granted, abuse it, and mis-use it, and women are no different.
As they get older, they become even more insecure in various ways, they become wiser, but that does not dissolve insecurity entirely, because she knows that the younger woman is out there right on her heels and will pursue to take that man if they can. So the older women, if they have been with a man for a while, relies on building and gaining his trust, and his respect, and she expects to be respected for her capabilities to do and get things done which benefit both the man and herself.
woman can be your greatest adversary, if you come to her chasing her face and her butt, but she can be your greatest ally if you come to her but let her have the responsibility of equally coming to you.
Men's love makes him want to give her everything. But her ways is that she has to earn it, or she won't regard and respect it as he would like her to respect and appreciate it.
This is why
"Bad Boys' win over the "Overly Nice Guy".. The Bad Boy makes her earn what she gets, be it appreciation, compliments, gifts and even sex. He will bang it like it’s a rag doll, and when he wants to he will treat it with some softness, but he does not let the moments of softness, cause him to become a whimpering push-over up later.
None of this means be an asshole. It means, be a man who remains being a man who is in charge of himself. At time, he can work with her taking a lead step, but he is not going to be one who is going to become a puppy on a leash trying to catch up or keep up.
I can name a few women in this site, whom someone can hook up with, but the reason these women remain single, is because the men come and want to try to win her with bull-crap, material flaunting, UN-substantiated flattery, and some even get tripped out over the fantasy in his mind about sex with her, rather than let her do her works to earn his appreciation. If she has to earn it, then not only will she get in bed and be there to share, she will actually get off the barter and manipulative trips and relax and appreciate and enjoy it. But they are going to try the bartering and manipulations after sex, to see if you fall for it, then minute you fall for it, that's it !!!! she is no longer in the appreciating mode, she is now in the judging mode, which is followed by seeing just how much manipulation you will fall for and how foolish and what will you throw on the table as bartering gains for her.
Don't jump in bed trying to out screw her, because she can lay there looking up at you, longer than you can lay there looking down at her. And in the big picture it means nothing, but if that's you agenda, you will end up doing nothing but trying to compensate for the fact you can lay on top of her looking down at her longer than she can lay on her back looking up at you.
This is not a game; it is simply how life is. Man and woman both have to earn the respect of each other. it’s an instinctive thing. Attraction only gets you to interact. Once that has been done, you still have to earn the sticking powers. That does not mean make everything a challenge.. It means the man needs not fall over himself for or trying to get to the woman. She is the one who will come and cling and cleave unto you.
Honestly, she wants you to get between those legs all you want, but she wants to attract you to want to get between them, not for you to lust after getting between them to the point you lose focus on yourself and whom you are. She enjoy you wanting to 'hit it frequently", but she does not want you to become some push-over that falls for anything, and forget your principles in order to get there.
Remember, her aim is to be pleasing to you. And to do that, means for her, to be one who works at and by earning the acceptance as being one who is pleasing in whole as a person and individual.
It's actually very simple, in fact and function.
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dogs got their grooming today.
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Posted:May 23, 2014 11:06 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2014 7:33 am 19338 Views
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Yep, another $100... but they look good and I can tell they most certainly appreciate it.
Now, the lawn guy has to come and cut the grass. I've been thinking about buying a lawn mower, but I'd have to make some habit adjustment to develop a regular habit of cutting the grass. I don't think I want a lawn mower you walk behind, but if I do it frequently, that would be ideal for being outdoors and getting exercise. The riding mowers are interesting, but still there are areas it may not get to the same as a walk behind lawn mower.
I want to put a lawn mower and trimmer at the other house, and let them cut their own grass, but they may break the unit and then its become something else I have to repair. ( geez!!)...
Well, the dogs look happy so that is a good thing. then there's the matter of the woman who comes to clean the house, which is another $100...
It's very evident I need to make more money !!!!!! certain things I should not have to think about. Such as Mortgage(s), Lawns, Utilities, Dogs Care, Fuel and Maintenance for the Car. So the matter is to make enough money, so all these things just fall in place, to set up on the bank account to send the payments to these places. As to paying the expenses: think that might be better than auto debit done by any provider, because providers can do a price hike or something and it is hell to get your money back.
Even still, I would not want to seek out any woman based on her money.
I remember, T-Mobil hit me for $1500, a few years back, when I went to Thailand. I never got my money back, when I could have bought a sim card for less than $50 which would cover internet and phone usage during that period.
I'm still battling with Harley Davidson, I just reported them to the BBB (Better Business Bureau), they have 10 days to respond.
I'm tired of executive created criminal policies. and people who think their title gives them a position of being UN-approachable and think no one is to refute their non performance or their excessive fees.
At this point, again,  the dogs look happy with their fresh grooming, and I think they like the perfume smell they get from the bath or how ever they apply it.
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The push for change is growing
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Posted:May 23, 2014 9:41 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2014 4:51 am 18716 Views
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我看了新民粹主义大会
竞选为美国的未来： “新民粹主义”＆国内政策
任何人都可以去CSPAN ，并期待在星期四，大约上午5:30
音箱，包括。
伊丽莎白·沃伦， （四马）
代表基思·埃利森（ D- MN ）
及其他。
我listended湖研究合作伙伴，其中也谈到了创造者。
他们是在工会和劳工问题的国家专家。 LRP分享工人运动的目标，并致力于改善劳动人民的生活。他们的信息的研究有助于对工会问题，包括最低工资标准，组织权，退休保障和医疗保健成功倡导。我们的研究经验包括与AFL -CIO ， UFCW ， SEIU ， NEA ， AFSCME ， CWA ， UAW和国库署工作。
当美国做这些改变，其他国家也会跟进。因为其他国家的人民不会那么愿意让富人来使用和虐待他们，并希望他们的政府，以协助使用和滥用。
事实上，我们看到了大量的这种世界各地。在许多国家，人们都组合在一起，说..没了，给富人流血他们干，支付政治家买了他们的声音，有谁没有为人民进步的关注领袖。
这不要紧，如果这个国家是民主或共产主义，如中国。中国是看到了人，推动政府制定政策，造福人民。但在这样做，所以它必须建立在什么样的人说是他们关注的问题。
中国不会继续作为一个国家，在那里它的政府，亦不会在中国境内的人，不断地让自己被看见和作为世界新的奴隶制度，由该国政府抑制了。也不会对中国政府继续允许使用它的人。
中国是快速学习，它的人民“必须成为国内消费者” ，他们不能这样做，除非他们支付公平的工资，他们正在学习，他们无法跟上杀死或使他们的人民在“不受管制的行业被杀死' ，只是为了喂养西方国家材料贪婪。
我们可以期待看到很多的变化在很多地方。我们看到它在泰国，他们正在试图找出他们的道路，远离滋生和饲料肤色收入差距，以及哪些已经晋升太长由富裕许多其他的事情富人的控制。墨西哥是学习，但慢慢地，它必须考虑和尊重所有的人，不利于光皮肤的人在大众群体谁是棕色皮肤的人的费用。中国同样如此，其中有晒黑的皮肤的人，谁也同样让中国的庞大人口。他们不会退居二线的白独具特色的中国意象得到休息的推广形象，而传统的外观本土的中国人，谁来自炎热的气候，并有较深的皮肤。
富人的游戏可悲的是已经有太多的英国殖民主义的历史悠久，饱到系统中。 [我]它变得如此饱和的中国女性，开始测量的基础上，他如何会见了殖民意象和标准中国男人。 [ / I] ，中国男性已经攻打这更坚定了，重要的是，他们并没有返回去的时候，他们被保险人，妇女是他们的社会的一个组成部分，随着时代可能已经进化到支持，但女性现在有在中国的业务发挥更大的作用，
深蓝]的所有男性阵容政治局常委，权力的内圆这里 - 是一个熟悉的形象在中国。
考察了妇女在社会中的作用和影响
在顶部妇女缺乏也许是毫不奇怪。中国的''一个男性主导的社会中， '为蔡霞，在中央党校党建中心教授，日前在接受人民日报（这里是在中国的报告） 。
但如何妇女做在下方''组织， ''作为共产党在这里知道？ （在中国这是祖志，明显dzoo zher 。 ）是女性航天下来的行列更好的降低？
不是真的，根据这里的两个最官方的新闻来源发布新的数字，党营人民日报和新华社报道，国营新闻机构。
事实上，数据显示一些有趣的事情：少于四分之一的中国的近8300万党员是女性，或者只是23.3％ 。党在很大程度上是一个男孩只恋情。
但现在，女性更决心要在他们的生活有发言权，和世俗团体的古老的东西征服别人，因此包含妇女，征服系统，因为。现在，他们知道他们是由许多线程混合。在某些时候妇女将进入领导的顶部行列，他们将推动整个系统的频谱许多变化。这仅仅是一个在许多事情是整个中国的制度和文化的弥补一部分。
同样的现实是前往印度，以及其他许多地方。 Weve看在过去的几年中，叙利亚和埃及等国的年轻人，推动变革。它是一个标记点，当你看到很长一段时间的领导人像穆巴拉克坐牢。泰国驱逐他们的领袖。
人们越来越聪明，并在这智慧的人们不再希望由富人操纵的傀儡，具有富裕的推送策略就是反人民，填补了富人的口袋里的人的利益。
这是相当有趣
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I watched the New Populism Conference
Campaign for America’s Future: “New Populism” & Domestic Policy
Anyone may go to CSPAN, and look at Thursday, about 5:30 am
speakers, included .
Elizabeth Warren, (D. MA)
Representative Keith Ellison (D-MN)
And Others.
I listended to the Creator of Lake Research Partners, whom also spoke.
They are national experts on unions and labor issues. LRP shares the goals of the labor movement and is committed to improving the lives of working people. Their message research has helped unions successfully advocate on issues including the minimum wage, the right to organize, retirement security and health care. Their research experience includes working with the AFL-CIO, UFCW, SEIU, NEA, AFSCME, CWA, UAW, and AFT.
When America makes these changes, other nation will follow. Because the people of other nations won't be so willing to allow the wealthy to come and use and abuse them and expect their Government to assist in the use and abuse.
We actually see a great deal of this around the world. The many countries where people are grouping together, to say.. NO MORE, to the wealthy bleeding them dry, paying politicians to buy away their voice and having leaders who do not have progressive concerns for the people.
It does not matter if the nation is Democratic or Communist such as China. China is seeing the people, push for the government to make policy which benefits the people. But in doing so it has to build in what the people say are their concerns.
China won't remain being a nation where its government nor will the people within China, continue to allow themselves to be seen and used as the worlds new slave system, held in check by its government. Nor will China government continue to allow its people to be used.
China is fast learning, that its people "must become internal consumers", they can't do that unless they are paid a fair wage, They are learning that they can't keep killing or allowing their people to be killed in 'unregulated industry', just for the sake of feeding western nations material greed.
We can look to see many changes in many places. We see it in Thailand, they are trying to figure out their pathway, away from the controls of the wealthy which breeds and feeds skin color income disparity as well as many other things which has been promoted too long by the wealthy. Mexico is learning, but slowly, that it has to consider and respect all its people and not favor the light skin people at the expense of the mass populations who are brown skinned people. China equally so, which has a vast population of tanned skin people, who are equally so Chinese. They will not take a back seat to the promoted image of white featured Chinese Imagery getting the breaks while the traditional look of the native Chinese people, who come from hot climates and have darker skin.
The games of the wealthy sadly has had too much of a long history of British Colonialism, saturated into the system. It became so saturated that the Chinese women, began to measure the Chinese men based on how he met with the Colonial imagery and standards. The Chinese Male has fought against this even more determined, to the point, they have not returned to a time when they insured that women were a integral part of their societies as times may have evolved to support, but women now have a greater role in the business of China,
The all-male line-up of the Standing Committee of the Politburo, the inner circle of power here — is a familiar image in China.
Examining the role and impact of women in society
The lack of women at the top is perhaps no surprise. China is ‘‘a male-dominated society,’’ as Cai Xia, a professor at the party-building center in the Central Party School, recently told the People’s Daily (here’s the report in Chinese).
But how are women doing lower down in ‘‘the organization,’’ as the Communist Party is known here? (In Chinese that’s zuzhi, pronounced dzoo zher.) Are women faring better lower down the ranks?
Not really, according to new figures released by the two most official news sources here, the party-run People’s Daily and Xinhua, the state-run news agency.
In fact, the numbers show something interesting: Fewer than one in four of China’s nearly 83 million party members are female, or just 23.3 percent. The party is largely a boys-only affair.
But now that women are more determined to have a say in their lives, and the age old thing of secular groups conquering others, and thus containing women, because of the conquering system. Now they know they are blended by many threads. At some point women will enter the top ranks of leadership and they will push for many changes across the spectrum of the system. This is just one among many things which is part of the whole of the make up of Chinese system and culture.
The same reality is headed to India, as well as many other places. Weve seen for the past couple of years, Syria, and Egypt and other nations young people, pushing for change. It is a marker point when you see long time leaders like Mubarak going to jail. Thailand ousting their Leader.
People are becoming wise, and in that wisdom people no longer want to be the puppet manipulated by the wealthy, having the wealthy push policy that is against the people and fill the pockets of the wealthy at the expense of the people.
It's quite interesting
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Health -Relationships - and other Variables ( For Adult Minds )
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Posted:May 18, 2014 9:41 am
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2016 12:28 pm 19824 Views
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I would like to know if this site has enough people who are interested in the maturity to the discussion of reality about health and the human being. Especially those who are pat the age of 40. The information I'd like to engage is beneficial to the younger people as well.
But the matter is, can the people open their minds to deal with these variables.
I know many are caught in the circle of 'romantic quest", within the focus on a multitude of "romantic interludes" which meet with fantasy wants expectations. until they don't generally respond well to any information which does not entail the consumption about such things.
It is often amazing what people care so little about, becomes the things which cause them the most and greatest distress in their relationship failures. And there is a multitude of "relationship failures", and these failures have done nothing more than instilled 'fear's, apprehensions, and the ever present finger pointing and blaming it on someone other than including themselves in the matter of the relations failure.
Sadly, such ones are doomed to repeat the cycle and result to find the same failure over and over and over. That process is called " Insanity"... which means doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result.
It's why the connection rate of people is so low in these websites.
People don't engage subject matter if its not about 'romantic fantasy", and how to 'corral a situation of erogenous stimulation, which feeds the ego and the hedonistic pursuit of self interested aims for self concerns in the want for pleasure".
As a result of such, they find 'confounding cycles" of 'delusions", and blame it on anything and everything but themselves.
People sling around the term" I want to get married", as if this is some childhood game like playing with some Barbie and Ken dolls, in a cycle of dress up and make believe. some thing their facial looks and the shape of their body and the covering with clothing name tags, is suppose to guarantee them something, they have failed to invest their mind and communication ability to develop and build a basis to reach an understanding.
many jump into bed, and the next morning they are wondering if they 'hoodwinked the other with enough drama mechanics", to make the other person deluded into a cycle of fantasy consumption. then comes the 20 thousand testing games. the result is they walk away more confused and colluded to the point that eventually insecurity dominates the spectrum, until they badger the hell out of each other, until they can't stand the presence of the other or the self discovery about or of themselves.
Therefore:
I would like to know if this site has enough people who are interested in the maturity to the discussion of reality about health, relationships and other variables of and within the human being. Especially those who are pat the age of 40. The information I'd like to engage is beneficial to the younger people as well.
Only one person indulged the intellectual investment of thought to respond to the post " Be careful a note to Men and to Woman "
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The swiftness of money's movenment
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Posted:May 18, 2014 6:45 am
Last Updated:May 20, 2014 4:22 pm 18860 Views
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The swiftness of money's movement.. I guess the direction would matter a bit
It seems over the past decade, its moved quickly from my pockets, far quicker than it is moving into my pocket.
But I don't guess this is a problem others are having 
Well, let's start with the grocery store- it has become to be a quick grabber of money and still many things wanted, become left behind. It's amazing how the prices continue to rise. then there the 2 for $X's or 10 for $10, and etc. Seems tomato's were one of the first among items they tested in space, now they seem to have price tag's as if they've been grown in space and requires a rocket to get them to market.
I'm not the biggest buyer of meats, I do fish, pork, chicken, and shrimp. I looked at the Lobster, but the price seems to dictate that it won't be a regular consumption items. what a trip, because I actually like it very much. I don't care for buying any live ones, and here in the South people east a lot of 'crayfish"
(Crayfish, also known as crawfish, crawdads, freshwater lobsters, or mudbugs, are freshwater crustaceans resembling small lobsters) I just can't get with it, but people here buy the by the "pan", which is a large foil container and they sit and eat the whole pan full.
I've never tried it, possibly because they cook it with the head still on it.
I personally do not like anyone to serve me fish with the head on it. If they bring it, that means for me " dinner is over", I'm ready to go.
yesterday, I saw some bags where they had cut up the pig feet into small pieces, then they had cut up the pigs tail in small pieces, neither of which I have any interest to eat. However, I do like 'Hillshire Farms" smoked sausage, then I was reading the label on various other packs. It say's Pork, chicken and beef (parts).. Now what the heck are the "parts".
I just can't figure out why people can't identify what they are selling !!!! as well as I can't figure out why they don't just put the basic things in meat, Example' if it is pork, then ground it up, stuff it in the sausage skin and sell it as "pork sausage" Period !!
Last year a friend gave me some "deer meat". he lives in the country, he said they have wild pigs, deer and they butcher their own pigs an cows. They don't add anything in. I'm not thrilled about the 'deer meat", so it has been in the freezer, but I guess the best things is to thaw and cook it. he gave me some seasoning, which said, If I apply it, the meat will taste like beef, and he gave me another pack of seasoning and said if I want it to taste like pork pan sausage, then apply that pack. They grow their own vegetables, and he said mostly in his family and friends living in the small rural areas, and they grow and trade with with each these 'natural grown foods". I guess its working, because I grew up in a small rural town, and we had 'garden's, pigs, and chickens", we did not have cows, but we did have two horses at one time.
the trip is, I did not want to eat the chicken we grew, I would always ask if the little FDA tag was on it, ( they'd tell me yes), but probably it was not, because frequently some chicken would have disappeared from the yard.
I remember the older men would go hunting, they did squirrels, rabbits, and I have heard but never ate any, but they would kill armadillo. I'm quite sure as a I tried squirrel, and rabbit. Then there were the fish, I use to like the "perch", and back then people would catch 'Catfish", they called them "Channel Catfish".. they'd have to skin it, and the meat was a little pinkish color. Now the Catfish is a white meat, not sure what changed but I see mostly white meat catfish in the stores.
There was a time when I was young I heard that some white people did not eat the catfish, because they called it a scavenger. Now 'everyone" seems to eat catfish more than they eat many other fish. Now I understand that in the markets, now, they claim many fish are mis-labeled. I also saw where it said you have to make sure where the fish came from.
There was an article, I read which said, be careful about the Catfish from China, the article said: one Catfish farm had the wire over the pond, and the chickens lived on top of the wire and the catfish would eat the dropping from the Chickens. ( how insidious and gross that idea is).
Now its really crazy when it comes to foods, the concerns about where did it come from, and what did they feed it to get it to grow. Do they clean the ponds and many many other questions. There use to be a lot of Fresh Trout and other fish, I don't hear much about that anymore.
Then when it comes to greens, "Turnip Greens", Mustard Greens", Collard Greens".. some of these foods they claim were 'foods black people eat", but all during the slavery years, and many other years after, when the black people were doing the cooking, the white people, at plenty of these same foods. So how it became known as black peoples foods, I don't know?
Now, I see at some places that sell what is called "Soul Food", when I go to one sometimes for lunch, there are more white people in there, than there are black people. They order lots of fried chicken, smothered pork chops, rice, blackened peas, Collard Green's, Cabbage, Turnip Greens, and some order 'chitterlings" and various other things, people once claimed were only 'black peoples food items. That crazy notion seems to have vanished. there are many many non black people who visit soul food places, and many other places have adopted some of the items generally sold at soul food places.
Even, Tea Cakes... the kind my family made when i was a . Now I see them sold all over the place, and people buy them up, in some places if you don't get there early, you won't get any.
A few weeks ago, I visited a place which did not have a name on the building, it was full of very older groups of senior citizens, all white people.
I was the only black person in line. Although there were two black women who worked there. These white people had plates full of these very same above mentioned foods, and then the one lady told me it was also, "gumbo" day. I've long noticed the place, generally only Older Senior white people were going in and there, it is always a lot of these people going in around lunch time. I had been going to the Italian place across the street, to get spaghetti and meat balls. This is how I noticed the place.
I usually go to some of the Chinese, Thai and Vietnam/Cambodia food places, because the rice and other 'soft foods" work best with my teeth until I get my dental work done. I wan to hurry up, because I like corn on the cob and at present I can't eat it. 
One place has very good rice, it is far different from some of the rice at other places, the owner told me he orders his from "Houston", because its imported and its a longer grain, but it does not stick together and it is really good. he told me the reason his rice cost more, is because he has to pay more to get this type of rice.
I learned there are differences in rice, I had an Iranian friend in LA and we'd go to Beverly Blvd, in Los Angeles to a place that served food from his country, they had good rice too. They had this very wide and long piece of meat, as if they'd beat and flatten out the chicken breast, it actually was very good. They'd serve "onion" which you dip in the sugar and eat it before the meal arrives.
Now when I watch the food shows, I just can't get with some of the dishes they present. very small portions with some sauce on it and arranged specifically on the plate. I just can't justify the cost of such things.
I guess I'll stick with the simple foods. Even with chicken now, the chicken wings are made even more expensive, they use to be very low cost, now they cost more than many other parts of the chicken. People of all ethnic groups buy lots and lots and lots of chicken wings and every kind of fast food place now wants to sell chicken wings.
I can't see why I'd go to the grocery store and pay nearly $3 for dish liquid, when I can go to the dollar store and get a large bottle for $1. I don't like cheap toilet tissue, nor do I like cheap 'paper towels', I just can't see the point in the low quality of the cheap paper items as such.
I now use a lot a foam and paper plates, because It's just me and I'm not interested in a lot of daily "dish-washing". I have may dishes in the cabinet, now I'm even wondering why I have them. I have too many classes for what I use, and various other dishes that I look at and realize I have not used these things in years. I guess when setting up house, we buy all this stuff, but some of it is never used.
Maybe if there was a woman in the house, things would probably be used more.
Anyway, what I've noticed over the past year, is the cost I expend when I go to the store has gone up 2½. Although income has not increased any.
Now between my Lawn and the Lawn at the other house, has come up to $200 a month. I'm thinking, maybe I should buy a Lawnmower and weed-eater and let the people in the other house cut their own grass.
Seems I cut cost in one area and the cost double in another area. The result evidentally is to increase income, because the cost seem not to be decreasing.
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Posted:May 16, 2014 5:12 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2014 7:31 pm 18770 Views
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Yes, I'm thoroughly agitated with the dental situation !!!! Not only did the crown break, but the tooth next to it, which I spent another $900 plus the cost of dental labor, to have a cast post put in and it has come loose.
They are in one of the worst places, so now I have to figure out to get the money and go to California and have the work done.
I had bridge work for implants done here, both times I don't like the work, one was 900 and the other cost $3500, and on top of that the guy builled the dental insurance $2500, I just paid them another 400, So, I'm going to get the money together and go to California and fix it once and for all.
The fact is, the dentist here, at least in my view, is just not as skilled at the dentist in Los Angeles. maybe they have good ones, but I don't have the money to test anymore of them out. His work does not even come close to the work I had done in California. Yet he wants to do the implants. Which he won't get a chance to do. I have to go where I know the work is good quality. I don't plan to do this but once. I'm tired of dental issue. So it needs to be fixed once and for all. Period !!!!!
It's so much crazy stuff. It seems since I had the surgery in December, everything that could pop up as a crazy expense has done so. Even trying to renew my drivers license resulted to cost me $260. Because the bike I gave my had a penalty on it, because of the time it sat in the garbage without insurance, it cost me 220. then the license cost 29.xx .
Then it just goes down hill in expense. Seem I need to make more money.
My boss knows I'm underpaid, but has not done anything to change that fact, Its not a good thing to go and find another job at this particular time, because I have to go to 7 weeks of treatment, and that's not a good thing to do, nor will it be a positive things to do with trying to start any new jobs.
Last week, my mothers car needed repairs, which I paid, weeks prior my car cost me $750 for repairs. I won't go down the list, but I know some of your read the nightmare which the other house cost me.
Nope, I don't make anywhere close to the money I use to earn in the latter 1990's and the early 2000's. Then after going 4.5 yrs with no income, I used saving at a rate of expenditure that was two time maybe higher than the average cost of living here, until I figured out, that I could not live at the same expense ratio that I had in California. Although I knew the expense was excessive, but it took me that long to reign it in and trim things down.
Now, I'm going to re-think cable TV, I told them, I'm not paying $160-170 a month any more, because I don't use all the channels. I have a unlimited phone plan for $50-55 a month, it works just fine for me, I bought the Nokia Windows Phone, I have my utilities on a fixed payment, where I basically pay the same, by being on the "level plan". can't do much about the cost of food and fuel.
I no longer have any credit cards, but I know I need to get at least one. I don't have any bills outside of the basics, as discussed, so I plan to keep it that way, I got the home loan modified, so it has dropped a few dollars. Not the best agreement, but I don't have much issue with it.
I don't plan to buy any new cars, though I would like to get a second car. Not sure I need it, but I've always had at least two cars. Maybe as time goes I may find an older Porsche, or maybe a older car I can have as a 'custom type of car, for recreational tinkering.
My bigger concern is to get the business back on track, I've met some very smart people, but just have not found the motivation to jump back in and re-set everything up. I keep the LLC and the DBA, up, because it does not make sense to let them fade away.
It's the cycles of life, at one time I had good net-worth in monetary figures, not great, but it was ok. I had 5 homes, cash and everything was paid for except the homes. that changed drastically, but I did help many family members during the times. It may not have turned into the spring board I'd hope they'd use it for, but that's more on them than it is on me. But that's the past and its done, the money is gone, 3 of the homes gone, the Porsche, the BMW and etc...
I'd assume there are many in the site who do well financially, and there are those in the site who may not, but that's just the nature of life and people.
I can certainly say for the young or for the old, "figure out the priorities", don't put much stock in what you have today, because ti can be gone tomorrow. and work on being a good person. don't waste your resources on faddish things, and don't try to impress anyone with material things, because you will waste money, and by all means AVOID envious people.
I kept my cars in the garage out of site from peoples eyes, because people make too many assumptions. I did not and do not flaunt anything, because people can be envious and there are people who will plot against you simply because they make assumptions about what they think you might have. ( which may not even be the case)..
In these web sites and especially in the so called dating arena, don't play into the game of trying to catch someone based on job title, cash, assets and material holdings, because you will loose... and what you loose may cost you more than the loss of such things.
I could care less what a woman has, or does not have as to monetary and material things. and for the men, they should seek out women who does not care what you have monetary or materially. If you make the foolish mistake of choosing someone who has chosen you because of these things, you may find that you made a choice that you may not be able to live with.
Just stuff....... Look about the world, there is no such thing as having it all.
Being a good person is the greatest thing you can do for yourself, and learning how to share being a good person is the best task you can engage.
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A compliment to the women
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Posted:May 14, 2014 5:07 am
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2016 12:27 pm 18819 Views
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Frequent members ( women), whom I like and find attractive, but I also find them to be open communicators. I love the beauty of the well maintained woman.
A compliment to the women who are frequent contributors and members,.
Princesss999, Jmenyo, Beautifulkara, KQRBNP, YYHongKong , Hongyannishang, sweetie170575, Miyazu_Hime,
Over the years there have been quite a few who have come and gone, but these members seem to have the 'stick to it" mentality a regular participants.
I personally like women, who don't fade away in a flash. or vanish the minute they are not complimented on every post
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Be careful - a note to Men and to Woman
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Posted:May 11, 2014 9:29 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2014 4:02 pm 19440 Views
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for men, this is ever more important, before you place yourself in the gates of a woman's body, be sure that she has her heart in the right place and not a mind filled with malice. Because the gate will lead you eventually to what is within the heart and the mind.
As its said, heaven can be here on earth as well so can hell be too. If a woman's heart and mind is in the right place then the gate will open with an inviting spirit which will be all over and about the woman as her whole self will be with a glow and expressions of truths making.
But if the gate opens with an invitation but the glow is not about and throughout the woman, then you may find that the hell of the heart and the malice of the mind will devour you, without your being aware until the contentions and malice wrap you in a level of anguish that drives you in ways that you become far from being the person you thought yourself to be. It may lead you to do things you had no mind of thought to do.
Therefore, it is the man's responsibility to insure he is of awareness of the gates he enters.
There are two version of the most merciless beings in this world.
~ One is a woman with an evil heart that is in full desperation and a mind of malice with the intent to be of vengeance and revengeful intentions. A woman who is filled with wants beyond awareness of what fulfills a heart and what give comfort to a mind. Such a woman is but on a mission of use and abuse which has no end beyond whimsical conquest and aimed devastation of another.
~ One is a man made mad by jealous, driven by the delusions of avarice, and consumed with greed, and caught up in material insanity. With a mind of selfishness because his heart is despaired without a concept of what will bring it to being made at peace. Such a man is but on a mission of use and abuse which has no end beyond whimsical conquest and aimed devastation of another.
Learn much about the gate one has aim to enter, be of awareness of what lies within each gate as to where those gates lead.
It takes man many years to learn these things and many find himself brought through many changes; which can devastate his life and send his mind into madness. Be not misled by the looks of the face, the lure of the body, nor by the tone of softness when the words hold challenge at each point and contend with each fact. Be so too, aware of what is appeasement, being used as an enticing lure. by acts of fact of what is compassion and how is consideration may tell many things but under a watchful eye is an eye that is open to see.
If lust blinds you, you may find blindness has led you into a hell you may not have known exist, therefore learn to see with the hearts truths, and the minds awareness and the sensibilities of cautions which is only gained through patience.
One many often wonder of how and why such ones of such facial appeal, have found their base in being workers in the business of selling sex, or one that has found her business in the adult entertainment. But, it is of simplicity, she has chosen the organ to be a tool for many uses, none of which does employ compassion at any point, nor unto any thing or anyone.
To find the rarity of what is a gate, that lead to the graces of goodness, the peace and contentment of mind, and the heart that is filled with a giving that drives a soul bound by the virtues of Loves Truth. this is rarely if ever found through lusting, nor is it found by the gifts bought with greed's gains, nor is it to be found by what avarice may attract.
It may be wise, to not let the ego of fools pride, make one think themselves invincible because then one has become but a fool unto themselves and will find themselves made to reveal unto themselves and the world what it is to have become a fool through foolishness.
There have been kingdoms to fall behind the lures of a woman of little virtue, as there have been men in every field of profession and labor, brought down by the same.
Of all a mans classroom learning, is but feeble play, when he does not employ the premise of patience and indulge himself in the virtues he holds value in compassion and loves honor. For his claim of status is but the placement of a target upon him, and the unwise find themselves pierced by many arrows, some may be deadly, before he is wise to stay out of the pathway of the arrows aim.
It takes many women a long time to learn to love, because many are wild, in ways men often become unaware of. As many must be groomed early in their lives with virtue values and loves truth, before they learn the value of compassion. Some never learn these things, and some only come to the learning when age takes away the lures she has long relied upon.
To find a young women with the values which respects the grace that is built within virtues value. is like picking through the stacks of hay, in search of a needle. It is there to be found, but many straws will be seen before the needle itself is found.
Love is free, but it is only a gift given unto the "loving". many may find infatuations, and still come up short on finding love, but those who are driven by love will see through infatuation and love will glow in a light unique unto anything seen before. So let not the make up, and attire of cloth be a delusion which become no more than a dim light, leading down a dark pathway, to a gate, which open to a hell unimagined.
Be careful of the "gates" you enter.
There is the FLIP SIDE OF THIS
Be careful of whom you allow to enter " the gates"
for Women, this is ever more important, before you place open the gate of a your body, be sure that he has his heart in the right place and not a mind filled with malice. Because he who enters the gate will lead you eventually to what is within his heart and his mind.
As its said, heaven can be here on earth as well so can hell be too. If a man's heart and mind is in the right place as he enters the gate, he will seek to open 'the gate" with an graceful and appreciative spirit which will be all over and about the man as his whole self will be with a glow and expressions of truths making.
But if he enters the gate lust driven aim the glow is not about and throughout the man, then you may find that the hell of the heart and the malice of the mind will devour you, without your being aware until the contentions and malice wrap you in a level of anguish that drives you in ways that you become far from being the person you thought yourself to be. It may lead you to do things you had no mind of thought to do.
Therefore, it is the Woman's responsibility to insure she is of awareness of whom enters the gate.
There are two version of the most merciless beings in this world.
~ One is a woman with an evil heart that is in full desperation and a mind of malice with the intent to be of vengeance and revengeful intentions. A woman who is filled with wants beyond awareness of what fulfills a heart and what give comfort to a mind. Such a woman is but on a mission of use and abuse which has no end beyond whimsical conquest and aimed devastation of another.
~ One is a man made mad by jealous, driven by the delusions of avarice, and consumed with greed, and caught up in material insanity. With a mind of selfishness because his heart is despaired without a concept of what will bring it to being made at peace. Such a man is but on a mission of use and abuse which has no end beyond whimsical conquest and aimed devastation of another.
Learn much about whom seeks to enter the gate one has aim to enter, be of awareness of what lies within those whom enter the gate as to what they hope to bring into the gate, do they come as a thief, or a giver of grace.
It takes woman many years to learn these things and many find herself brought through many changes; which can devastate her life and send her mind into madness. Be not misled by the looks of the face, the lure of the body, nor by the tone of depth in the voice, when the words hold challenge at each point and contend with each fact. Be so too, aware of what is appeasement, being 'fools gold", used as an enticing lure to enter the gates. by acts of fact of what is compassion and how is consideration may tell many things but under a watchful eye is an eye that is open to see.
If vanity and selfish gains aims blinds you, you may find blindness has led you into a hell you may not have known exist, therefore learn to see with the hearts truths, and the minds awareness and the sensibilities of cautions which is only gained through patience.
One many often wonder of how and why such ones of such facial appeal, have found their base in being workers in the business of selling false claims, or one that has found his business in the adult entertainment seeking fantasy and game. But, it is of simplicity, he has chosen the organ to be a tool for many uses, none of which does employ compassion at any point, nor unto any thing or anyone.
To find the rarity of what is to enter a gate, that lead to the graces of goodness, the peace and contentment of mind, and the heart that is filled with a giving that drives a soul bound by the virtues of Loves Truth. this is rarely if ever found through lusting, nor is it found by the gifts bought with greed's gains, nor is it to be found by what avarice may attract.
It may be wise, to not let the ego of fools pride, make one think themselves invincible because then one has become but a fool unto themselves and will find themselves made to reveal unto themselves and the world what it is to have become a fool through foolishness.
There have been kingdoms to fall behind the malice of a man of little virtue, as there have been women in every family to have been, brought down by the same.
Of all a womans classroom learning, is but feeble play, when she does not employ the premise of patience and indulge herself in the virtues she holds value in compassion and loves honor. For her claim of virginal status is but the placement of a target upon her, and the unwise find themselves pierced by many arrows, some may be deadly, before she is wise to stay out of the pathway of the arrows aim.
It takes many men a long time to learn to love, because many are wild, in ways she often become unaware of. As many must be groomed early in their lives with virtue values and loves truth, before they learn the value of compassion. Some never learn these things, and some only come to the learning when age and material and monetary losses takes away the lures he has long relied upon.
To find a young men with the values which respects the grace that is built within virtues value. is like picking through the stacks of hay, in search of a needle. It is there to be found, but many straws will be seen before the needle itself is found.
Love is free, but it is only a gift given unto the "loving". many may find infatuations, and still come up short on finding love, but those who are driven by love will see through infatuation and love will glow in a light unique unto anything seen before. So let not the material matter nor pieces of gold or silver and attire of cloth be a delusion which become no more than a dim light, leading down a dark pathway, seeking to enter a gate, which open to all a hell unimagined to come within.
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