Many Perspectives of Attitude

By living today, we build what become tomorrow. We must know what was within Yesterday, to understand what we are faced with today.

the actions within a days engagement
Posted:May 26, 2011 6:34 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2011 4:54 pm
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Often time, the making of a days unfolds not with the accord of the plans. time becomes a very interesting factor, within the frames of moment with good focus much can be achieved, but there is the natural fluctuation within attention - and there is the mix of a multitude of factors and challenges..

How we see our days begin may be many things, but if we see it as a blessing to be alive, and as an opportunity to engage the activities with a passion to indulge ourselves within the labor before us, we can find many things, not only of work, but of self.

what an amazing opportunity -

as I drove about from place to place I passed a number of cemeteries, and each was filled with headstone a plenty. so many who had lived, and so many who have worked and so many who may not have worked, but still so many, who at one time had a variety of opportunity in the reality of time, some who were with many challenges within the span of time. Yet, the stories each headstone holds of so much unknown by so many,

It may be a point to think and give praise for the blessing we get by the days we arise within opportunity to live. surely with so much being given in such a simple manner as being alive, we can do so much to make our day bring forth something which makes better the world, makes better our results of our hours, and make better within the works we do, the way we live and the way we treat others.

The actions within a days engagement, can be much with the appreciation for the opportunity we are given, simply to live.

why should we not find reason to smile at some point in a day, and why would we not take a moment to acknowledge the great gift of life, and go about and see the blessing of this opportunity.
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The New World
Posted:May 9, 2011 6:56 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2011 4:56 pm
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One South Florida 's behavior toward his mom probably wouldn't be described as good to the last drop.


Brandon , 19, was taken to jail after he allegedly got physical with his mom because she drank his Starbucks iced coffee,.

The Port St. Lucie resident is charged with battery for the incident earlier in the week, just days before Mother's Day.

Starbucks is delicious, but not "so good, it will make you wanna slap yo mama" delicious. That didn't stop Quintana from crying over spilled coffee.

The spat started when Quintana's 43-year-old mom woke up from a nap with a parched throat. She saw her 's Starbucks in the refrigerator and probably thought it was safe to drink.

After all, she did give birth to the .

Wrong.

When Quintana got home, he was looking for his chilled treat. When he couldn't find it, he threw a temper tantrum, police said.

Quintana allegedly told police he was "pissed off because he spent every cent on that coffee" and that what his mom did amounted to stealing.

Cops didn't quite see it that way.

Quintana's mom said she tried to solve the problem with her by offering a 2-liter soda as a replacement for the Starbucks, but he pushed her into a computer chair.

( from news)
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is it humor or madness ?
Posted:May 4, 2011 5:54 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 10:8 am
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A West Virginia man found wearing women's underwear and standing over a goat's carcass told police he was high on bath salts.

cccccc of Alum Creek was arrested at his home Monday. A criminal complaint in Kanawha County charges the 19-year-old with cruelty to animals.

Sheriff's Deputy says witnesses reported cccccc standing near a neighbor's pygmy goat in a bedroom. He was wearing a bra and female underwear. The goat, a male named Bailey, had at least one stab wound.

Cpl. said cccccc indicated he had been high and "wasn't in his right mind."

cccccc was held on $50,000 bond Tuesday at the South Central Regional Jail. Jail records didn't indicate whether he had an attorney and no listed phone number was available.

Neighbor said she bought the goat on Friday as a gift for her 4-year-old grandson, The Charleston Gazette reported.

"The baby just loved him," she told The Gazette.

Powers' nephew got a call from a neighbor early Monday morning saying the goat was in cccccc's house, Powers told the paper.

"They told him that my goat was wandering around in Mark's house and he'd better come and get it," she said. "They called my nephew because he'd been there before."

The nephew and two women went into cccccc's according to the criminal complaint, The Gazette reported.




From inside cccccc's closed bedroom, "he told them, 'Don't come in, I'm naked,'" xxxxxx told The Gazette. "But they opened the door and he was standing there with his pants down. He had on women's clothing and the goat was dead and there was blood everywhere. It was just a scene."

Thompson ran out the front door when the nephew asked him about the dead goat, according to the complaint. Police found him several hours later after searching the woods, The Gazette reported.

The police reported that cccccc said he had been on bath salts for about three days.

Officers found the small gray and white goat wearing a pink collar lying dead on the floor, blood coming from its neck, according to the complaint, The Gazette reported. There was a pornographic magazine photo lying a few feet from the goat, the complaint said.

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wonder just what he was doing ?????
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enjoy your blessing
Posted:Apr 24, 2011 2:45 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 10:8 am
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As I've aged, I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend..

I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.

Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM or sleep until noon ? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60 &70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love .. I will.
I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set.

They, too, will get old.
I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.

Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.

I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face.
So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.
As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore..
I've even earned the right to be wrong.

So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever,
but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day(if I feel like it).

( from web)
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in your daily living do you find ??
Posted:Apr 21, 2011 5:03 am
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2011 7:58 pm
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In your everyday living, do you find very pretty faced women, or very shapely body women, to be more or less friendly than average looking women?

In general friendly situations which do you trust more, to be honest in your interactions ?

Which do you find to be more sincere ?

Which do you think has the generally higher potential for long term friendships, which has stability ?

When you meet a woman with a really pretty face, or a shapely body, or a shapely body and a pretty face, what is the average duration of friendly association or friendship ?

If you look back over your life, which has been the ones who make longest term friendships,
1. (really pretty faced women with or without a shapely body).
2. ( average looking women with or without a shapely body).

Which do you find to be easier to get along with ?
1. (really pretty faced women with or without a shapely body).
2. ( average looking women with or without a shapely body).

In looking around your city, community or general environment, which do you find seem to have the longer term relationships.
1. (really pretty faced women with or without a shapely body).
2. ( average looking women with or without a shapely body).

When you look at the married couples in your city, community or general environment, which do you see to see having more stable relationships.

1. (really pretty faced women with or without a shapely body).
2. ( average looking women with or without a shapely body).

In your experiences which have you seen be more kind in general, both in the work place and in general social environments?
1. (really pretty faced women with or without a shapely body).
2. ( average looking women with or without a shapely body).

Which are you more willing to be helpful toward?
1. (really pretty faced women with or without a shapely body). Who has a standoffish attitude
2. ( average looking women with or without a shapely body). who has a standoffish attitude

It's not necessary to post your response... but in the honesty of you own experiences, you will have a thought about the questions.

if you want to post it do so, if not don't, but it is certain the life experiences does have a relevant spectrum of experiences people have encountered.
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How are you living ?
Posted:Apr 21, 2011 4:41 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 10:8 am
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Do you live like a commodity ?

This may need to be thought about, whether anyone responds in this blog setting or not. most won't respond, but some may reflect within themselves, about these things... some may surprise themselves at the honest response they give themselves to these simple questions.

Do you expect people to pay for things for you?

Do you expect people to do things for you, just because you request it ?

What do you give and share without expecting something in return ?

If people don't give you what you request, are you still a friendly person, or do you cut the association ?

Do you choose associates based on what they have, and what they give to you ?

if you are a man and have sx with a woman, do you expect her to do things for you, like pick up behind you, or serve you things or act as if she lets you own her ?

If you are a woman and have sx with a man, do you expect him to give you money, buy you things and pay your way and provide you things ?

In the web or in physical presence situations, are you trying to catch a mate by money flashing, and if you are a woman do you try to catch a mate by flashing body parts ?

Do you feel your looks, your body or you money makes you a commodity looking for the highest bidder ?

Do you see the difference in living like a commodity and the discerning difference between living like a friendly person ?

Is your choice working for you?
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when "it" comes, what do you do ?
Posted:Apr 15, 2011 5:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2011 2:00 pm
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The truth, of course, is that a billion falsehoods told a billion
times by a billion people are still false.
- Travis Walton, Fire in the Sky

Most do not fully see this truth that life is difficult. Instead they moan more or less incessantly, noisily or subtly, about the enormity of their problems, their burdens, and their difficulties as if life were generally easy, as if life should be easy. They voice their belief, noisily or subtly, that their difficulties represent a unique kind of affliction that should not be and that has somehow been especially visited upon them, or else upon their families, their tribe, their class, their nation, their race or even their species, and not upon others. - M. Scott Peck, The Road Less Traveled

We feel the urge to tell the truth as we see it. But we should try to accomplish this without judgemental condemnations that hurt others. Again, when we remember that what we perceive in another is a reflection of ourselves, we become less judgemental. So when we freely express harsh judgement of another, we are in effect talking about those aspects of ourselves that trouble us the most. - Shirley MacLaine, Going Within

We cannot waste time. We can only waste ourselves. - George Matthew Adams

Truth can be a dangerous thing. It is quite patient and relentless. - R. Scott Richards

It takes two to speak truth --One to speak, and another to hear. - Henry David Thoreau

Chase after the truth like all hell and you'll free yourself, even though you never touch its coattails. - Clarence Darrow

Nothing that was worthy in the past departs; no truth or goodness realized by man ever dies, or can die. - Thomas Carlyle

There are few nudities so objectionable as the naked truth. - Agnes Repplier

Say not, 'I have found the truth,' but rather, 'I have found a truth.' - Kahlil Gibran

To the extent that you entertain lies and deceit, you are held prisoner in a world cut off from reality. The truth you hide from yourself, prevents you from growth and fulfillment. The truth you hide from others, keeps you distantly apart. The truth shines a bright light on life, so you can clearly see the way to go. Success, achievement, happiness, joy, fellowship, and fulfillment, thrive in the warm and nurturing light of the truth. Honesty is the most direct path to wherever you want to go. Truth and honesty are often difficult, yet never more difficult, in the end, than deceit. To think otherwise, is to deceive even yourself. Hiding in the shadows of falsehood, makes it impossible to move forward.That the truth is moral and ethical, is no secret. Yet truth is also practical, efficient, and effective in every worthy pursuit, something well known by those who enjoy lasting success. Live in the bright, empowering light. Embrace the truth. It always serves you best. - Ralph Marston

Risk! Risk anything! Care no more for the opinion of others, for those voices. Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth. - Katherine Mansfield

As scarce as truth is, the supply has always exceeded the demand. - Anonymous
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The Society of: "me", "I", and "myself'
Posted:Apr 13, 2011 4:50 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2011 5:50 pm
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The Society of: "me", "I", and "myself'

will soon find more forces to push people to understand but more so to "respect " what it means to "share'..
today, people see others far too often based on the material allure, or the chase for status and even the claim of grandeur based on some element of external materialism.

Life has many ways to bring about truth, and some will only find it through a broken heart, because they look so often with their eyes on the opulence of pageantry, and their lust for material measure.

When times come to speak in open and real terms, many hide the truth and push the sham of an image, and quickly deny what they know is the basis within their chase.

For some it takes near despair and some even near to destitution before they can learn to simply appreciate.

some get lost in the shape of their body, or the image of their face, until time, situation or circumstance take it from them.

Then, such ones claim they want to love for the respect of what is love.

Not many admit such truth, but many claim the looks, the money or the shape of the body as their God premise, until the reality of God shows them those things are all far less than the true power of God, and when troubles and pains come, they find the meaninglessness of such things, when they must come to the point to pray for mercy of many sorts.

Should not one consider: There is always a power greater than ones self and it is through this greater power, of which love is truly born and sustained.

The Society of: "me", "I", and "myself' - may at some point and time, come to respect the grace of the higher power, and understand that love is - when one is true in being a person who shares with a basis of truth in living.
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Being good at what you do
Posted:Apr 3, 2011 7:06 pm
Last Updated:Apr 5, 2011 5:48 pm
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Learning and looking beyond the common; many uncommon things can be found, and the common things can thus find a more integrated perspective, as the uncommon finds its commonality.
In working and living, one can achieve many things, by sidestepping those who have negativity which aims to diminish the works and choices of others. the gifted who seek to contribute, always find ways to be of service and they are less limited by the caging attempts of others.
Innovations make the world unique, individual self awareness opens the doors of creativity to invest ones self in the dreams and build the things of their desires.

Much in life teaches how to discharge the spiritual vampires and pursue to engage with those who expand the mind and reach to find the vastness of potential.

Passions become the driving force within dreams, to push them into reality.
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How do you enage this magazine and or blogs?
Posted:Apr 3, 2011 7:02 am
Last Updated:Apr 5, 2011 5:49 pm
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Do you care more about "the subject" being discussed ?

or

Do you concern yourself more with "who posted the subject" or comments ?

When you encounter people, do you concern yourself more about what they have a material holdings?

When you encounter people, do you concern yourself more about what they have to share in life expressions and living experiences and how they show concern for others?


Do you engage blogs and magazine items to share thoughts, or do you engage it based on the personalities you like and avoid questions based on who wrote them?

These type of questions may be written to relate to the blogging script, but how much do you transfer these same type of attitudes in your relationships and your daily interactions, Knowing this, may tell you more about yourself, than one may realize.

It may make you aware or expose, the realize that many people are not as friendly as they claim, nor or they as unbiased as they claim, it may well expose that some are contempt holders, grudge builders, and reenters and or haters, beyond what they themselves have recognized.

Our choice to act tells much, and our choice not to act equally tells much. but what is always exposed is the reality, even as one may choose to claim denial or acceptance of this or that.

Of these various attitudes - many of such, I've seen displayed in this website.

I've known women who have visited this site, who were attacked by other women, because they resented that men responded to a particular woman, maybe she was pretty to look at, or humorously expressive, or indulged in subject matter freely.
I've talked to women, who have been confronted by men of their own ethnic group, with contempt because the woman talked to foreigners in this site, I've talked to women, who have been attacked with contempt because they resent the woman for talking to men of other ethnic make up and foreign nationalities.

I've seen people develop contempt at subject matter they have inhibitions about discussing, as well as people who develop contempt because they love brevity and others do not.

I've seen people who post thing, as if they make statements cast in stone, and resent others to expound upon it, and explore the connections to other things within responses.

I've seen people who develop contempt because what they say does not garner patronizing commentary.

Some come to the site for popularity and some come and resent anyone they think has gained popularity via interactions. some come to simply engage life discussions about many things.

Some come and think and claim which subjects are not a part of relationship realism... but time finds them to come to learn that all things in life are part of what is within the inner elements within a relationship. from politics to religions, to thoughts on money, sex, power, abuse, misuse, joy, appreciations, love and the acts of destroying love by fears of many sorts. some come in search of fantasy, some in search of creating a caste and class system of associates, based on looks, money and other things.

When in life people claim they are worldly and open to the humanity of people, over time, the true bias will show, as well as the prejudices will come forth, some may call it reasons, and some may call it excuses, but the ways of people engage such things, and label it for their claim of innocence. but what may be lacking in some aspects, is the full spectrum of Understanding(s),
Unfortunately in life, but fortunate for Understanding, for is not a sole lover of brevity, but an equal lover of the details which are part of the complexity which supports claims of simplicity.

For many are prejudge-rs of many, and engage and off and on disposition. one minute they claim to share understanding, and the next minute, they are quick to attack a label, and want to cast one into a mental box of judgments making.

How do you engage this magazine and or blogs?

Some won't respond to this question in the openness of this script, but may well do so in their privacy of their mind. What may be gained most, is not just about whether of your you write your thoughts, but you face your thoughts within yourself.

It just might be discovered, that; the truths one face may well set one free within themselves.
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