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Posted:Jul 28, 2011 12:58 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 9:59 am 8085 Views
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Remember the day I borrowed your brand new car and dented it?
I thought you’d kill me, but you didn’t.
And remember the time I dragged you to the beach, and you said it would rain, and it did?
I thought you’d say, “I told you so.” But you didn’t.
Do you remember the time I flirted with all the guys to make you jealous, and you were?
I thought you’d leave, but you didn’t.
Do you remember the time I spilled strawberry pie all over your car rug?
I thought you’d hit me, but you didn’t.
And remember the time I forgot to tell you the dance was formal and you showed up in jeans?
I thought you’d drop me, but you didn’t.
Yes, there were lots of things you didn’t do.
But you put up with me, and loved me, and protected me.
There were lots of things I wanted to make up to you when you returned from Vietnam.
But you didn’t.
作者是一位普通的美国妇女，她的丈夫应征去了越南战场，后来阵亡了。她终身守寡，直至年老病逝。她的女儿在整理遗物时发现了母亲当年写给父亲的这首诗.
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online dating v.s. making friends online
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Posted:Jul 26, 2011 7:24 pm
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2013 6:50 am 8967 Views
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Sometimes I really doubt that you can find someone good online who will be only good with you afterwards. If it will go offline in one day, do you think he/she is strong-minded enough and is satisfied to be only with you, but not to go back online to find whatever he/she wants to find again?
I said that becoz I've talked to a few guys who are married for a few years, yet they need to come to find friends online-----and appearently on a dating site, ppl are all looking for the potential dates/lovers, whoever that will make you feel you want to like/love(the things between men and women), if you know what I mean. So is it really necessary for them to find friends online?? I really doubt their real intention. And will they be strong-minded not to be affected by the affection from some gorgerous girls? I suggest them not to test the strength of their hearts, as sometimes your body reaction will be stronger and harder than your brain or heart. And sometimes they tend to think that is....connection or like or love, whatever.
Well, basically I want to say, it could be a place that you can meet some new ppl, but I really doubt it will turn out to be something serious, unless you two both know what you are looking for and are sure you are honest and true to each other and would like to put some time and effort in it. Otherwise, this online dating thing will turn out to be only some 'small talks' and ''time-killing entertainment', if you know what I mean.
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abortion
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Posted:Jul 25, 2011 2:05 am
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2011 2:11 am 8399 Views
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Yesterday I was thrilled and touched when I saw the videos when a father hold his baby and tried to imitate the crying of a baby and his baby cried immediately.
Then this noon I got a call from a friend that she just went to have an abortion. 
And this is her 2nd time to do it.
Hard to tell the feeling, I just feel sorry for her and her unborn baby.
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a dream about that little cute ppl
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Posted:Jul 24, 2011 1:48 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2013 6:50 am 8669 Views
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Don't know it is about the time or what, after watching the blogs and videos of that cute baby, there is a little dream in my heart which is growing and growing.
I wish some day soon I can meet a good guy who loves to have a nice family with me and have our own .
Ohh, that little cute ppl.
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Posted:Jul 23, 2011 8:36 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 9:59 am 8166 Views
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【最适合做夫妻的10类男女】 1、彼此是谈得来的朋友。2、有共同的人生价值观。3、彼此能充分了解信任。4、遇事彼此易沟通。5、彼此有奉献牺牲精神。6、彼此宽容大度。7、志趣要 能基本相投。8、彼此能坚定支持对方。9、彼此接受对方的家庭。10、有基本的物质经济做基础。
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dios te dice
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Posted:Jul 4, 2011 2:38 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 9:59 am 8078 Views
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cuando dices no puedo resolver las cosas 当你说我无法决绝一些东西时
dios te dice yo dirijo tus pasos上帝对我说让我指引你度过难关
cuando dices es imposible 当你说这是不可能的
dios te dice todo es posible上帝对我说没有什么是不可能的
cuando dices me siento muy solo当你说我感觉非常孤独
dios te dice no te dejaré ni te desampararé 上帝对我说我不会放弃你，不会抛弃你
cuando dices yo no lo puedo hacer 当你说我无能为力
dios te dice todo lo puedes hacer 上帝对我说你能够做任何事情
cuando dices no merezco(merecer) perdon当你说我不值得宽恕
dios te dice yo te perdono上帝对我说我宽恕你
cuando dices tango miedo当你说我很害怕
dios te dice no temas que yo estoy contigo上帝对你说你别恐惧我在陪伴着你
cuando dices no sé como seguir当你说我不知道怎么继续
dios te dice yo te ensenaré el camino 上帝说我来指引你的行程
cuando dices nadia me ama verdad当你说没人真心爱我
dios te dice yo te amo上帝说我爱你
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women do not prefer men profess their love too early
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Posted:Jun 28, 2011 3:23 am
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2011 6:54 pm 8206 Views
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It may take them at least three months to get round to it but, contrary to popular perception, men are the first to say ‘I love you’。
也许这句话至少要三个月后才能说出口，但男人是先说“我爱你”这三个字的，和人们普遍认为的情况正相反。
However, their motives may not be entirely noble。
不过，他们的动机也许并不都那么高尚。
A study found men who profess their love early in a relationship are not to be trusted – and that women actually prefer it when males wait to get serious。
一项研究发现，在恋情初期就示爱的男人不可靠，女人其实更喜欢男人在恋情步入正轨后再表白。
When researchers from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in the U.S. questioned 45 men and women, most thought women were first to broach the topic。
来自美国麻省理工学院的研究人员调查了45名男性和女性，大多数人都认为女人是先表白的那一方。
But quizzing others about current and past relationships revealed the opposite to be true, with the man saying the phrase first 61.5 per cent of the time。
然而，在对其他人现在和过去的恋情做了调查后，发现事实正好相反，61.5%的情况是男性先表白的。
Men began thinking about professing their love 97.3 days into a relationship – six weeks earlier than women, the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology reports。
据《个性与社会心理学杂志》的报道，男性在进入恋爱关系第97.3天时会开始考虑示爱，比女性早了六周。
But not because they are soppy sorts. Instead, they see the declaration as a sign a woman wants to go to bed with them。
不过这并不是因为他们情意绵绵。相反地，他们将其视为女人愿意和他们上床的一种信号。
Said later on, they may fear commitment and head for the hills。
如果晚些再表白，他们可能会害怕承诺而逃得远远的。
Women, however, are loath to trust men who bring up the subject too early, perhaps as they have more to lose from pregnancy。
但是女人并不愿信任过早示爱的男人，也许是因为她们怀孕了之后失去的更多。
Researchers said: ‘When examining what actually happened in their past and current relationships, it was men who were more likely to confess love first。
研究人员说：“在审视了他们过去和现在恋情中的真实情况之后，我们发现男人更可能先示爱。”
‘This was not simply a function of women waiting for their partners to make the first move – men first considered expressing their feelings six weeks before women did。
“这一结果并不仅仅是因为女人一直在等待伴侣踏出第一步，男性开始考虑表白的时间本来就比女性早了六周。
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Think it over
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Posted:Mar 18, 2011 2:35 am
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2011 7:29 am 8269 Views
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We have higher buildings and wider highways,but shorter temperaments and narrower points of view;
今天我们拥有了更高层的楼宇以及更宽阔的公路，但是我们的性情却更为急躁，眼光也更加狭隘；
We spend more,but enjoy less;
我们消耗的更多，享受到的却更少；
We have bigger houses,but smaller famillies;
我们的住房更大了，但我们的家庭却更小了；
We have more compromises,but less time;
我们妥协更多，时间更少；
We have more knowledge,but less judgment;
我们拥有了更多的知识，可判断力却更差了；
We have more medicines,but less health;
我们有了更多的药品，但健康状况却更不如意；
We have multiplied out possessions,but reduced out values;
我们拥有的财富倍增，但其价值却减少了；
We talk much,we love only a little,and we hate too much;
我们说的多了，爱的却少了，我们的仇恨也更多了；
We reached the Moon and came back,but we find it troublesome to cross our own street and meet our neighbors;
我们可以往返月球，但却难以迈出一步去亲近我们的左邻右舍；
We have conquered the uter space,but not our inner space;
我们可以征服外太空，却征服不了我们的内心；
We have highter income,but less morals;
我们的收入增加了，但我们的道德却少了；
These are times with more liberty,but less joy;
我们的时代更加自由了，但我们拥有的快乐时光却越来越少；
We have much more food,but less nutrition;
我们有了更多的食物，但所能得到的营养却越来越少了；
These are the days in which it takes two salaries for each home,but divorces increase;
现在每个家庭都可以有双份收入，但离婚的现象越来越多了；
These are times of finer houses,but more broken homes;
现在的住房越来越精致，但我们也有了更多破碎的家庭；
That's why I propose,that as of today;
这就是我为什么要说，让我们从今天开始；
You do not keep anything for a special occasion.because every day that you live is a SPECIAL OCCASION.
不要将你的东西为了某一个特别的时刻而预留着，因为你生活的每一天都是那么特别；
Search for knowledge,read more ,sit on your porch and admire the view without paying attention to your needs;
寻找更我的知识，多读一些书，坐在你家的前廊里，以赞美的眼光去享受眼前的风景，不要带上任何功利的想法；
Spend more time with your family and friends,eat your favorite foods,visit the places you love;
花多点时间和朋友与家人在一起，吃你爱吃的食物，去你想去的地方；
Life is a chain of moments of enjoyment;not only about survival;
生活是一串串的快乐时光；我们不仅仅是为了生存而生存；
Use your crystal goblets.Do not save your best perfume,and use it every time you feel you want it.
举起你的水晶酒杯吧。不要吝啬洒上你最好的香水，你想用的时候就享用吧！
Remove from your vocabulary phrases like"one of these days"or "someday";
从你的词汇库中移去所谓的“有那么一天”或者“某一天”；
Let's write that letter we thought of writing "one of these days"!
曾打算“有那么一天”去写的信，就在今天吧！
Let's tell our families and friends how much we love them;
告诉家人和朋友，我们是多么地爱他们；
Do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life;
不要延迟任何可以给你的生活带来欢笑与快乐的事情；
Every day,every hour,and every minute is special;
每一天、每一小时、每一分钟都是那么特别；
And you don't know if it will be your last.
你无从知道这是否最后刻。
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找个比自己大五岁的男人最幸福
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Posted:Mar 18, 2011 2:13 am
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2011 11:52 pm 8253 Views
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The secret to a happy marriage for men is choosing a wife who is smarter and at least five years younger than you, say UK experts.
英国专家表示，一桩幸福婚姻的秘诀在于男方要选择一位比自己聪明并且年轻五岁以上的女人做老婆。
The findings predict a happy future for pop star Beyonce Knowles, 28, and rapper husband Jay-Z,39.
这个研究结果似乎预示着28岁的流行天后碧昂斯和她39岁的饶舌歌手老公杰斯将会有一个幸福美满的婚姻。
The researchers studied interviews of more than 1,500 couples who were married or in a serious relationship. Five years later, they followed up 1,000 of the couples to see which had lasted.
研究员们早先对超过1,500对夫妻及情侣进行了采访。五年之后，他们对1,000对夫妻进行了追踪采访，看看哪些坚持到了最后。
They found that if the wife was five or more years older than her husband, they were more than three times as likely to divorce than if they were the same age. If the age gap is reversed, and the man is older than the woman, the odds of marital bliss are higher.
研究发现，如果妻子比丈夫大五岁甚至五岁以上，那么他们的离婚概率要比同岁的夫妻高出三倍以上。而如果情况刚好相反，即女小男大的话，那么他们成就一桩幸福婚姻的可能性就要大上许多。
The work is published in the European Journal of Operational Research.
这项研究调查刊登在欧洲运筹学杂志上。
Add in a better education for the woman--Beyonce has her high school diploma, unlike husband Jay-Z--and the chances of lasting happiness improve further.
另外，女性是否受过良好教育也决定着婚姻的幸福指数。拿碧昂斯来说，和她的丈夫不同，她拥有高中文凭，这让他们更有可能拥有持久的幸福生活。
These pairings are more likely to go the distance, particularly if neither has been divorced in the past, according to the Bath University team. But couples in which one member has been through a divorce in the past are less stable than those in which both members are divorcees.
巴斯大学的这个研究小组表示，双方如果都未曾有过离婚经历，幸福指数将会相当之高。而对于有过离婚经历的人来说，如果夫妻中一方曾经离过婚，他们反而没有双方均有过离婚经历的男女更加稳定。
Dr Emmanuel Fragniere and colleagues do say that men and women choose partners "on the basis of love, physical attraction, similarity of taste, beliefs and attitudes, and shared values."
艾玛纽艾拉·弗拉格涅尔博士和她的同事表示，男女之间选择伴侣是“建立在爱情、志趣相投、信仰、态度和与可分享价值观的基础之上”。
But they say that using "objective factors" such as age, education and cultural origin "may help reduce divorce".
然而，年龄、教育状况及文化修养等“客观因素”确实“可能帮助减小离婚的概率”。
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Never forget
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Posted:Mar 18, 2011 1:25 am
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2011 7:21 pm 8248 Views
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Never forget
Your presence is a gift to the world. 你的存在是献给世界地一份厚礼
You're unique and one of a kind. 你是唯一的，是独一无二的
Your life can be what you want it to be 你想要的生活能成为现实
Take it one day at a time. 日子要一天天的过
Focus on your blessings, not your troubles. 多关注好事，而不是烦恼
And you'll make it through what comes along. 不论有什么困难，你都能克服
Have belief in your ability. 相信你的能力
Persist, have courage, be strong. 要有毅力、有勇气，要身心坚强
Nothing wastes more energy than worrying. 焦虑最浪费精力
The longer a problem is carried, 问题拖的越久
the heavier it gets. 就变得越沉重
Don't take things too seriously. 不要事事都太计较
Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets. 过平静的生活，不要活在悔恨之中
Don't put limits on yourself. 不要自我设限
Your dreams are waiting to be realized. 你的梦想等着你去实现
Don't waste time making excuses. 不要浪费时间找种种借口
Reach for your peak, your goal! 攀登你的颠峰，追求你的目标
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